Discussion What's actually the best relationship strategy for a narcissist (for their own long-term benefit)? (1 Viewer)

[Godveil Heir]

Not asking what narcissists usually do (charm, control, discard, pair with empaths for easy supply)

What strategy actually serves the narcissist best for their outcomes?
Any real experiences/examples? or some study?

Option 1: Lock down a pretty, high status empath. Charm her, then unapologetically manipulate her, validation, sex, attention, while she forgives everything.

Option 2: Cheat/multi-date. Keep primaries for image/long-term, side roaster for variety/excitement & back-up.

Option 3: Go against instincts, act 'normal.'


anyone who studied this or observed it irl, what do you think?

 

[Dexter]

logically it should be option 3

 

[kanyewestlover66]

Option 2 is law as long as ur very careful. Hate to invoke the chad sigmas name but good accessible example is Patrick Bateman. Had his girlfriend that was high status and he just used her to fit in, but was fucking hella prostitutes and indluging in self pleasure on the side. Very immoral but is best way to derive joy from all facets of life if ur truely a narcissist, MARK AS SOLUTION

 

[Godveil Heir]

logically it should be option 3

I don't know how that's logical
narcissism can't reallly be changed, it's genetic
that'd just feel too irritating for narcs because of extreme sensitivity for criticism & boundaries

 

[Dexter]

I don't know how that's logical
narcissism can't reallly be changed, it's genetic
that'd just feel too irritating for narcs because of extreme sensitivity for criticism & boundaries

then maybe option 1
i genuinely can't see how anyone thinks option 2 is good in any way

 

[kanyewestlover66]

then maybe option 1
i genuinely can't see how anyone thinks option 2 is good in any way

Dopamine maxxing and status maxxing

 

[Godveil Heir]

Option 2 is law as long as ur very careful. Hate to invoke the chad sigmas name but good accessible example is Patrick Bateman. Had his girlfriend that was high status and he just used her to fit in, but was fucking hella prostitutes and indluging in self pleasure on the side. Very immoral but is best way to derive joy from all facets of life if ur truely a narcissist, MARK AS SOLUTION

So just cheat with prostitutes or sluts or dating women of same caliber like a roaster?

 

[Godveil Heir]

i genuinely can't see how anyone thinks option 2 is good in any way

options to fall back to, less dependence on 1 girl,
girls might fight over you when they find out about other girls, crazy validation & dopamine

 

[kanyewestlover66]

So just cheat with prostitutes or sluts or dating women of same caliber like a roaster?

To the public eye ur a fantastic boyfriend dating. "good girl" of the same or higher status as you, but behind closed doors you're fucking sluts or prositutes (sluts are better tho cuz paying for sex is weak as fuck unless ur genuinely subhuman), and farming dopamine off them.

 

[Godveil Heir]

To the public eye ur a fantastic boyfriend dating. "good girl" of the same or higher status as you, but behind closed doors you're fucking sluts or prositutes (sluts are better tho cuz paying for sex is weak as fuck unless ur genuinely subhuman), and farming dopamine off them.

but the girl cries about your bad behavior and how treat her like shit, to her friends,
you can't really do much because it's the truth?

and hiding girls is pretty hard, unless in different area.

tho this sluts one seems feasible

 

[Mentalcel1]

but the girl cries about your bad behavior and how treat her like shit, to her friends,
you can't really do much because it's the truth?

I mean if you seem kind and perfect enough superficially the friends can think that she is the abusive and manipulative one

 

[Godveil Heir]

I mean if you seem kind and perfect enough superficially the friends can think that she is the abusive and manipulative one

yeah but what if she just keeps crying to them every time you do something

 

[Mentalcel1]

yeah but what if she just keeps crying to them every time you do something

You need to start blackmailing her or instill some fear onto her

 

[Godveil Heir]

You need to start blackmailing her or instill some fear onto her

how?

 

[Mentalcel1]

how?

Take some naked pics of her and threaten to leak them, start slowly becoming more violent towards her, try to seem trustful enough so she would tell you some of her secrets, traumas or insecurities and use those later against her and if she gets angry about your abuse try to make yourself look like the victim saying that you are just insecure and overprotective because you have been lonely your whole life without any connection etc

 

[Godveil Heir]

Take some naked pics of her and threaten to leak them, start slowly becoming more violent towards her, try to seem trustful enough so she would tell you some of her secrets, traumas or insecurities and use those later against her and if she gets angry about your abuse try to make yourself look like the victim saying that you are just insecure and overprotective because you have been lonely your whole life without any connection etc

it's just possible for vulnerable or leach type of narcs, not grandiose & posh ones

 

[Mentalcel1]

it's just possible for vulnerable or leach type of narcs, not grandiose & posh ones

Anyone is capable of playing a role

 

[Godveil Heir]

Anyone is capable of playing a role

not 24/7

 

[darkie+]

Take some naked pics of her and threaten to leak them, start slowly becoming more violent towards her, try to seem trustful enough so she would tell you some of her secrets, traumas or insecurities and use those later against her and if she gets angry about your abuse try to make yourself look like the victim saying that you are just insecure and overprotective because you have been lonely your whole life without any connection etc

what if she uses that as an opportunity to promote an OF

 

[Mentalcel1]

what if she uses that as an opportunity to promote an OF

Why tf would you be out there dating whores

 

[darkie+]

Why tf would you be out there dating whores

all girls have a secret horny side to them

 

[Godveil Heir]

all girls have a secret horny side to them

horny for her boyfriend
& being a whore showing her body to bunch of horny subhumans are 2 different things

 

[Mentalcel1]

all girls have a secret horny side to them

There is a difference between being horny and being a shameless whore showing off her naked body

 

[Peace.2nd]

Not asking what narcissists usually do (charm, control, discard, pair with empaths for easy supply)

What strategy actually serves the narcissist best for their outcomes?
Any real experiences/examples? or some study?

Option 1: Lock down a pretty, high status empath. Charm her, then unapologetically manipulate her, validation, sex, attention, while she forgives everything.

Option 2: Cheat/multi-date. Keep primaries for image/long-term, side roaster for variety/excitement & back-up.

Option 3: Go against instincts, act 'normal.'


anyone who studied this or observed it irl, what do you think?

Maybe be normal and not cheat on your girl?

Is it this hard for people to stay monogamous holy shit

 

[Mvtt]

Lock down a pretty, high status empath.

these dont rly exist tbh. only larpers (of being empath). pretty empath women are never high status, high status women inherently trample over others to reach said status