Discussion Thoughts and Gratitude (1 Viewer)

[Parsival]

I want to thank everyone who took the time to share their perspective on my previous post. I genuinely appreciate it—it helped me more than I expected.

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User VelocityAnt hippocamp Oryza

This is clearly something I need to work on within myself. I used to think my neurodivergence only affected me, but I’m starting to realize it also affects the people around me.

I also wanted to say something about the forum itself. In my opinion, this space should focus more on real situations related to lookism / BP, personal experiences, and genuine questions. When I wrote my post, I had a lot on my mind and, to be honest, I thought: “Why am I asking for help in a group of people that sometimes doesn’t take things seriously?” but I still did it—and it actually helped me.

Because of that, I think this forum works best when people post real, meaningful discussions instead of low-effort or repetitive questions. I understand some of them can be funny, but I think more value should be given to posts that actually share real experiences.

My post isn’t unique—it’s just another example of the same type of internal conflict people here go through. I just think it would be better if this kind of content was taken more seriously instead of diluted by low-effort threads or empty signals like “DNR” that don’t really add anything.
At the end of the day, this is a lookism forum, not a place to look “cool” or edgy by using labels without purpose.

 

[Razi]

Nice post

 

[Dexter]

Because of that, I think this forum works best when people post real, meaningful discussions instead of low-effort or repetitive questions. I understand some of them can be funny, but I think more value should be given to posts that actually share real experiences.

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[Razi]

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Yeh we read that gng

 

[Dexter]

Yeh we read that gng

i will perma ban you

 

[hippocamp]

I also wanted to say something about the forum itself. In my opinion, this space should focus more on real situations related to lookism / BP, personal experiences, and genuine questions. When I wrote my post, I had a lot on my mind and, to be honest, I thought: “Why am I asking for help in a group of people that sometimes doesn’t take things seriously?” but I still did it—and it actually helped me.

Because of that, I think this forum works best when people post real, meaningful discussions instead of low-effort or repetitive questions. I understand some of them can be funny, but I think more value should be given to posts that actually share real experiences.

I lwk feel the same way, hard agree

 

[Oryza]

I want to thank everyone who took the time to share their perspective on my previous post. I genuinely appreciate it—it helped me more than I expected.

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User VelocityAnt hippocamp Oryza

This is clearly something I need to work on within myself. I used to think my neurodivergence only affected me, but I’m starting to realize it also affects the people around me.

I also wanted to say something about the forum itself. In my opinion, this space should focus more on real situations related to lookism / BP, personal experiences, and genuine questions. When I wrote my post, I had a lot on my mind and, to be honest, I thought: “Why am I asking for help in a group of people that sometimes doesn’t take things seriously?” but I still did it—and it actually helped me.

Because of that, I think this forum works best when people post real, meaningful discussions instead of low-effort or repetitive questions. I understand some of them can be funny, but I think more value should be given to posts that actually share real experiences.

My post isn’t unique—it’s just another example of the same type of internal conflict people here go through. I just think it would be better if this kind of content was taken more seriously instead of diluted by low-effort threads or empty signals like “DNR” that don’t really add anything.
At the end of the day, this is a lookism forum, not a place to look “cool” or edgy by using labels without purpose.

I always read the first 2-3 sentences on a interesting thread, if it’s interesting I reply and continue reading

 

[User]

I'm glad you did post your issues, and I'm glad you found some sort of help from us guys, I've come from Lookism NET where there was A LOT of trolling. However, whilst there was trolling, there was also help provided to people that really needed it.

I feel the community nowadays are very young and don't understand how to balance trolling and actual support, age is obviously not an issue here its just that the balance between the two has been lost in time, maybe because a lot of the OGs just left without teaching the new people how to actually run this shit properly.

I am also one of those people that left without teaching, and I regret that, I'm still young, only 20. But it was still my duty to show the younger people how to keep the balance so I do apologise as it definitely is frustrating, I'm happy you got what you were looking for bro.

 

[hippocamp]

I always read the first 2-3 sentences on a interesting thread, if it’s interesting I reply and continue reading

Isn't that just how things work in general?
Headlines in newspaper
2-3 seconds hook in short form content

Ig thats how everybody are

 

[Oryza]

I'm glad you did post your issues, and I'm glad you found some sort of help from us guys, I've come from Lookism NET where there was A LOT of trolling. However, whilst there was trolling, there was also help provided to people that really needed it.

I feel the community nowadays are very young and don't understand how to balance trolling and actual support, age is obviously not an issue here its just that the balance between the two has been lost in time, maybe because a lot of the OGs just left without teaching the new people how to actually run this shit properly.

I am also one of those people that left without teaching, and I regret that, I'm still young, only 20. But it was still my duty to show the younger people how to keep the balance so I do apologise as it definitely is frustrating, I'm happy you got what you were looking for bro.

Dam. Didn’t .net get removed in 2020

 

[Oryza]

Isn't that just how things work in general?
Headlines in newspaper
2-3 seconds hook in short form content

Ig thats how everybody are

Some people just reply DNR and not even look at the post

 

[User]

Dam. Didn’t .net get removed in 2020

yeh somewhere around there but I left the entire internet practically around about when org was created so like 2019 maybe?

 

[User]

yeh somewhere around there but I left the entire internet practically around about when org was created so like 2019 maybe?

I was still young, maybe around 15-16 when Lookism got taken down, the people my age were teenagers but were much more composed than the teenagers I see nowadays. Idk what happened must be the diet I guess lol