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First bad take from you
love is a lie we feed to ourself so we as a specie wont go extinct. real love with codependency and pure obsession is extremely rare and i dont believe it has happened alot throughout history. almost all people, given enough time will cheat on their SO, the only reason some dont is because they arent together for long enough. lets say a couple are together for 40 years, if it was 80 years or 100 years or etc the chance of them cheating on eachother is a definite. and cheating isnt only physical, even a fleeing fantasy is cheating. real love is somthing people aren't capable of feeling, you have to have certain "mental illnesses" and even then its not definite, to be so in love that you'd do anything for your SO is almost impossible.
 

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love is a lie we feed to ourself so we as a specie wont go extinct. real love with codependency and pure obsession is extremely rare and i dont believe it has happened alot throughout history. almost all people, given enough time will cheat on their SO, the only reason some dont is because they arent together for long enough. lets say a couple are together for 40 years, if it was 80 years or 100 years or etc the chance of them cheating on eachother is a definite. and cheating isnt only physical, even a fleeing fantasy is cheating. real love is somthing people aren't capable of feeling, you have to have certain "mental illnesses" and even then its not definite, to be so in love that you'd do anything for your SO is almost impossible.
You're so iqlet silly my love for you is true
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love is a lie we feed to ourself so we as a specie wont go extinct. real love with codependency and pure obsession is extremely rare and i dont believe it has happened alot throughout history. almost all people, given enough time will cheat on their SO, the only reason some dont is because they arent together for long enough. lets say a couple are together for 40 years, if it was 80 years or 100 years or etc the chance of them cheating on eachother is a definite. and cheating isnt only physical, even a fleeing fantasy is cheating. real love is somthing people aren't capable of feeling, you have to have certain "mental illnesses" and even then its not definite, to be so in love that you'd do anything for your SO is almost impossible.
You are partly right about cheating and true love being rare part, but rest idrk. When you experience love yourself, the feeling of it, your heart jumping from happines when you talk to her, when you hold an eye contact, when you see her or when you just hear her name. The butterflies in your stomach, the moment when you just stare at her, feels like being teleported into another world, you can't hear anything, only thing you notice is her. Her laugh, her voice, feels like the best melody youll ever hear, getting rejected but getting over it because you truly love her, getting picked on but you dont care, only thing you care about is her. Night after night you can't sleep thinking about her smile. You love her so much you cant even lust on her... I hope you'll understand this one day. When you will experience it I'm always here to let me know.
 

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Part 2- Working together at school

After talking occasionally during recess for a while, a holiday arrived in my country, the same day I had spent with GAVA a year earlier (or rather, it was the day GAVA showed me the most that she loved me, I won't go into that now). Well, I thought it would be a good idea to spend it with anny, taking inspiration from that time with GAVA. When we were sitting together, I noticed the difference between Anny and GAVA. Instead of putting her head on my shoulder (which made me tremble), she and I talked about personal things (or rather, she told me things; I never talk about personal things). She told me how she lived alone with her siblings because her father was always at work (he worked as a boat guard, spending 15 days on and 3 days off at home), and her mother had divorced him, so she lived with another family. I liked that she was the one who did the "mother" role at home because she was the one who did the housework and all that. I asked her about dishes that I found difficult to make, and she told me she had made those meals a few days before. It wasn't what I expected, but that day I got to see what she was like at home. Later, before dismissal time, she asked me to walk her home (something I had never done before). I said okay, and when we were arriving at her house, we ran into her siblings and a woman who wanted them to go back to a church she was attending for an event. She invited me too (I don't like going to church events), but I agreed to go. However, on the day of the event, something happened with her father, and they wouldn't let her go, so I didn't. I continued walking her home for a while, occasionally asking if she wanted me to buy her something to eat on the way. She would ask for simple things: bread, fruit, things we could find at the stores outside the school. I was terrified every time I asked this because if she told me something was more expensive, I couldn't pay it, lol. Knowing I didn't have any money, I decided to sell things at school. I'd been selling things since I was a kid; it was normal for me (my whole class knew that if I came with a container, it was because I was going to sell, so I didn't have to advertise). What I didn't expect was that one day, while I was selling, she came up to me and said, "Hey, I found some friends of mine who want to buy from you." SHE HELPED ME SELL. I know it might sound a little silly, but it meant a lot to me, seeing her running towards me with open arms, saying, "Hey, my friends want to buy from you." After each day, when I earned $10-15, we'd go out and buy more substantial food.
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We were thinking about collecting the leftover money because next month a fair was going to start near the school where they would put up rides and so on, and we were thinking about which rides we were going to go on and so forth.
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Actually i have never loved anyone aha :cage::feelsrope:. Mirin life stats tho
 

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Actually i have never loved anyone aha :cage::feelsrope:. Mirin life stats tho
You can start now...
I mean I'm not hard to love right?
But if you d-dont want it's okay
I guess that's how life work right 😔?
I can't have everything I want sadly
But at the same time I have nothing bc you're my everything
Don't worry I'm ok
 

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You can start now...
I mean I'm not hard to love right?
But if you d-dont want it's okay
I guess that's how life work right 😔?
Wait so your foid is "GAVA"?, is she hot
 

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Wait so your foid is "GAVA"?, is she hot
No she was hmmm my first "love" If you want to name it
I meet her a year before my relation with anny
Is not first love but I joke around abt it
I already made a lot of threads abt GAVA
 

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You are partly right about cheating and true love being rare part, but rest idrk. When you experience love yourself, the feeling of it, your heart jumping from happines when you talk to her, when you hold an eye contact, when you see her or when you just hear her name. The butterflies in your stomach, the moment when you just stare at her, feels like being teleported into another world, you can't hear anything, only thing you notice is her. Her laugh, her voice, feels like the best melody youll ever hear, getting rejected but getting over it because you truly love her, getting picked on but you dont care, only thing you care about is her. Night after night you can't sleep thinking about her smile. You love her so much you cant even lust on her... I hope you'll understand this one day. When you will experience it I'm always here to let me know.
yes but can you guarantee that you'll always gonna feel this for her? that everything about you will be the same in 50 years? can she guarantee that she'll be the same person or that she'll feel this way in 50 years? can both of you guarantee that you wont even have a smple fleeting fantasy as long as you are together? and if you can, can you guarantee that if you were to be with here for 500 years insted of 50 things will be the exact same, that you'll love her just as much as the say you first saw her?
 

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yes but can you guarantee that you'll always gonna feel this for her? that everything about you will be the same in 50 years? can she guarantee that she'll be the same person or that she'll feel this way in 50 years. can both of you guarantee that you wont even have a smple fleeting fantasy as long as you are together? and if you can, can you guarantee that if you were to be with here for 500 years insted of 50 things will be the exact same, that you'll love her just as much as the say you first saw her
I can guarantee everything you said there about myself, I will always love her the way I do now, even tho she doesn't feel the same way.
 

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I can guarantee everything you said there about myself, I will always love her the way I do now, even tho she doesn't feel the same way.
then its not love
 

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yes but can you guarantee that you'll always gonna feel this for her? that everything about you will be the same in 50 years? can she guarantee that she'll be the same person or that she'll feel this way in 50 years? can both of you guarantee that you wont even have a smple fleeting fantasy as long as you are together? and if you can, can you guarantee that if you were to be with here for 500 years insted of 50 things will be the exact same, that you'll love her just as much as the say you first saw her
I'm really not someone who cares about the whole "true love" thing, but for me, true love is that moment when you feel your oxytocin surge for another person (everything nikolozzz said). When that person stops making you react like that, true love no longer exists. When someone cheats, it stops being love, but that doesn't mean there was never true love; it's simply a passing state. When they try to add the concept of longevity... that's something the romantics added.

SO WHEN I SAY TO YOU I LOVE YOU DYSREGULATED ITS TRUE LOVE I LOVE YOU DYSREGULATED LET ME MAKE YOU MINE
 

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I'm really not someone who cares about the whole "true love" thing, but for me, true love is that moment when you feel your oxytocin surge for another person (everything nikolozzz said). When that person stops making you react like that, true love no longer exists. When someone cheats, it stops being love, but that doesn't mean there was never true love; it's simply a passing state. When they try to add the concept of longevity... that's something the romantics added.
Smart way of describing the concept
 

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