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Amaterasu

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Hello everyone, this is my first post on here, I have been on .org but it's filled with illiterate morons so I hope it's a bit better here. Firstly, I would like to describe my situation: I'm 17 and have been rated by countless people as MTN so I think i'm average, I've never had a girlfriend and i've been in 'popular groups' a lot but only as a background character. I'm very aware that this forum is filled with many truecels and i'm not claiming to be one, however, I do struggle with talking to girls and approaching them specifically. I have only gotten close to slaying one girl but I wasn't able to get erect although she was the prettiest girl that has ever talked to me. After that night I basically disappeared from that friend group and just started spending all my time alone in my room. I want to get back to socialising but I don't know how to talk to or text females, please give me some advice.
Thanks for reading.

DNR: Help me talk to or text females.
 

masaijumps

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Hello everyone, this is my first post on here, I have been on .org but it's filled with illiterate morons so I hope it's a bit better here. Firstly, I would like to describe my situation: I'm 17 and have been rated by countless people as MTN so I think i'm average, I've never had a girlfriend and i've been in 'popular groups' a lot but only as a background character. I'm very aware that this forum is filled with many truecels and i'm not claiming to be one, however, I do struggle with talking to girls and approaching them specifically. I have only gotten close to slaying one girl but I wasn't able to get erect although she was the prettiest girl that has ever talked to me. After that night I basically disappeared from that friend group and just started spending all my time alone in my room. I want to get back to socialising but I don't know how to talk to or text females, please give me some advice.
Thanks for reading.

DNR: Help me talk to or text females.
alright, im just gonna copy and paste what i've said before

If you watch porn, stop watching it immediately. Also, talk with girls who you feel are uglier than you first, and then slowly keep talking to more girls who look better than the last. This helps because you won’t be as intimidated by them if you are already. Don’t overthink it either, sometimes we think too much about what they’ll say back. Most of the time they won’t say anything rude or bad (they might think it though), and then you can start forming basic small talk with them like “How was your day?”
 

Amaterasu

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alright, im just gonna copy and paste what i've said before

If you watch porn, stop watching it immediately. Also, talk with girls who you feel are uglier than you first, and then slowly keep talking to more girls who look better than the last. This helps because you won’t be as intimidated by them if you are already. Don’t overthink it either, sometimes we think too much about what they’ll say back. Most of the time they won’t say anything rude or bad (they might think it though), and then you can start forming basic small talk with them like “How was your day?”
Thank you, I don't know if anyone has had this issue before as I have never seen them talk about it, but I get bored and have no motivation when trying to talk to them. I've been on this underage dating app 'Wizz' if you've heard of it, they can be 5/10 or 10/10 but once I message them I lose all motivation to talk to them and don't reply at all.
 

masaijumps

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Thank you, I don't know if anyone has had this issue before as I have never seen them talk about it, but I get bored and have no motivation when trying to talk to them. I've been on this underage dating app 'Wizz' if you've heard of it, they can be 5/10 or 10/10 but once I message them I lose all motivation to talk to them and don't reply at all.
Because you just message them based off how they look, there is no connection with them so you have no attachment or feeling to motivate them
 
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