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Hi so im a pretty social guy until it comes to girls or meeting a friend of a friend of mine which really blocks alot of stuff asw and as a kid i was on my pc all day so didnt socialize too much nor have any good friends in my life. I have friends ( people who i just dont dislike but dont go outside wjth and do stuff etc ) but not a best friend. First best friend ever i had since birth emigrated to another country and second one just went to another school and he never messaged me so i thought fuck him. Idk what to do im 14 i think i already fucked up on socializing cause i can looksmax and whatever but i would rather just want to socialize first dude and idk how to fucking make friends im a loser
 
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‘Parties’ never invited to one. Speaking to girls and overall im good with confidence unless it comes to girls or my looks nd i fucked up on socializing early life, never met up never added ppl on snapchat tiktok you get it the basics
alright well then your lack of confidence is purely stemming from your self consciousness about your looks. either you can accept you will be ugly forever, or you can work as hard as you can to become attractive. the solution to your problem is to...

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Pregablin or MDMA
 

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Hi so im a pretty social guy until it comes to girls or meeting a friend of a friend of mine which really blocks alot of stuff asw and as a kid i was on my pc all day so didnt socialize too much nor have any good friends in my life. I have friends ( people who i just dont dislike but dont go outside wjth and do stuff etc ) but not a best friend. First best friend ever i had since birth emigrated to another country and second one just went to another school and he never messaged me so i thought fuck him. Idk what to do im 14 i think i already fucked up on socializing cause i can looksmax and whatever but i would rather just want to socialize first dude and idk how to fucking make friends im a

Hi so im a pretty social guy until it comes to girls or meeting a friend of a friend of mine which really blocks alot of stuff asw and as a kid i was on my pc all day so didnt socialize too much nor have any good friends in my life. I have friends ( people who i just dont dislike but dont go outside wjth and do stuff etc ) but not a best friend. First best friend ever i had since birth emigrated to another country and second one just went to another school and he never messaged me so i thought fuck him. Idk what to do im 14 i think i already fucked up on socializing cause i can looksmax and whatever but i would rather just want to socialize first dude and idk how to fucking make friends im a loser
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Copy the behavior of people that find it easy to socialize, confidence is the biggest fake it till you make it thing ever
 

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Copy the behavior of people that find it easy to socialize, confidence is the biggest fake it till you make it thing ever
hm i could actually try that. Just the thing is when im around girls i think they think bad about me cause im ugly and shorter then others cause im not into puberty yet
 

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Yeh i hundred procent believe you its just im 14 years old
when u dont try it u wont find out stay nd forever
 

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hm i could actually try that. Just the thing is when im around girls i think they think bad about me cause im ugly and shorter then others cause im not into puberty yet
Just pray you grow taller in late puberty, do some research and optimize your puberty. I wish I did a lot more research and action when I was your age
 

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can you be a bit more specific as to what scenarios you want to be more confident in. are you talking about at parties? or in school? give me an example of a moment that you wish you were more social in
 

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Dude im fucking 14
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Hi so im a pretty social guy until it comes to girls or meeting a friend of a friend of mine which really blocks alot of stuff asw and as a kid i was on my pc all day so didnt socialize too much nor have any good friends in my life. I have friends ( people who i just dont dislike but dont go outside wjth and do stuff etc ) but not a best friend. First best friend ever i had since birth emigrated to another country and second one just went to another school and he never messaged me so i thought fuck him. Idk what to do im 14 i think i already fucked up on socializing cause i can looksmax and whatever but i would rather just want to socialize first dude and idk how to fucking make friends im a loser
You force yourself to and try to not think about the difference of a girl treat them like a guy or stranger, i know this sounds like a bad advice but once you actually try to do this you realize that its actually possible
 

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can you be a bit more specific as to what scenarios you want to be more confident in. are you talking about at parties? or in school? give me an example of a moment that you wish you were more social in
‘Parties’ never invited to one. Speaking to girls and overall im good with confidence unless it comes to girls or my looks nd i fucked up on socializing early life, never met up never added ppl on snapchat tiktok you get it the basics
 

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Nigga marked himself for solution

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I removed it it was a mistake dude
 

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‘Parties’ never invited to one. Speaking to girls and overall im good with confidence unless it comes to girls or my looks nd i fucked up on socializing early life, never met up never added ppl on snapchat tiktok you get it the basics
alright well then your lack of confidence is purely stemming from your self consciousness about your looks. either you can accept you will be ugly forever, or you can work as hard as you can to become attractive. the solution to your problem is to simply become attractive enough to be happy with what you are and that will mean you can start focusing on socialising with girls - so forget about girls right now and put your work into improving yourself
 
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alright well then your lack of confidence is purely stemming from your self consciousness about your looks. either you can accept you will be ugly forever, or you can work as hard as you can to become attractive. the solution to your problem is to simply become attractive enough to be happy with what you are and that will mean you can start focusing on socialising with girls - so forget about girls right now and put your work into improving yourself
Bro u are right i just realized i dont need friends right now. I know alot about looksmaxxings and pharmaceuticals its just a lack of motivation idk if its cause i goon daily bro and its an addiction and i wanna go to the gym i say and next day i dont go i wanna stop gooning next day i do it again
 

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Bro u are right i just realized i dont need friends right now. I know alot about looksmaxxings and pharmaceuticals its just a lack of motivation idk if its cause i goon daily bro and its an addiction and i wanna go to the gym i say and next day i dont go i wanna stop gooning next day i do it again
well realising your problem is the first step to fixing it. be different to most in this community and use your knowledge to actually change your life for the better, i believe in you Puffe
 

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well realising your problem is the first step to fixing it. be different to most in this community and use your knowledge to actually change your life for the better, i believe in you Puffe
Thank you bro best guy i met on these shitty looksmaxxing forums bro
 

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Thank you bro best guy i met on these shitty looksmaxxing forums bro
No problem bhai
Remember to keep your head up - no one will be able to say anything about you once you’ve ascended, if anything use them as motivation :pepecheers:
 

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No problem bhai
Remember to keep your head up - no one will be able to say anything about you once you’ve ascended, if anything use them as motivation :pepecheers:
Will do bro, hopefully if i put in some work and puberty does its job i would be happy. Have a good night/day ( idk where u from )
 

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Will do bro, hopefully if i put in some work and puberty does its job i would be happy. Have a good night/day ( idk where u from )
good luck brah
im from the uk btw
 

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Hi so im a pretty social guy until it comes to girls or meeting a friend of a friend of mine which really blocks alot of stuff asw and as a kid i was on my pc all day so didnt socialize too much nor have any good friends in my life. I have friends ( people who i just dont dislike but dont go outside wjth and do stuff etc ) but not a best friend. First best friend ever i had since birth emigrated to another country and second one just went to another school and he never messaged me so i thought fuck him. Idk what to do im 14 i think i already fucked up on socializing cause i can looksmax and whatever but i would rather just want to socialize first dude and idk how to fucking make friends im a loser
this is gonna sound bluepilled asf, genuinely just be chill, be nice when not needed and it’ll take time but it works. imo if you have a clean slate your gonna be fine
 

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