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For the last few months, I’ve been lonely as shit. No friends in school, 1 irl friend that I would see once a month, no relationships, standard khhv. And a few weeks ago, a girl (mentioned in previous threads) started talking to me. I was pretty much instantaneously head over heels for her, until she started ghosting me like I made a previous thread about. It was then that my best friend introduced me to his other friend. Straight away, I liked them more than as a friend, and when my best friend went on holiday last week, we went out a few times. I was immediately head over heels for them too. The difference is I thought I had a chance with them. We slowly started hugging, holding hands, kissing each others heads, watching movies while my head was in their lap, basically a couple without outwardly saying it. It was yesterday night that they were talking to me, and told me in conversation that they only were attracted to girls (I previously thought they were pansexual) we were acting like a couple, holding eachother in ways I’ve never touched anyone or been touched before, and I swear something was there, but there wasn’t. Been crying all day and night about it while they’ve been texting me in their usual loving tone. Idk whether I should confess, distance myself, or what but this is fucking awful. Sorry for the paragraph
 

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For the last few months, I’ve been lonely as shit. No friends in school, 1 irl friend that I would see once a month, no relationships, standard khhv. And a few weeks ago, a girl (mentioned in previous threads) started talking to me. I was pretty much instantaneously head over heels for her, until she started ghosting me like I made a previous thread about. It was then that my best friend introduced me to his other friend. Straight away, I liked them more than as a friend, and when my best friend went on holiday last week, we went out a few times. I was immediately head over heels for them too. The difference is I thought I had a chance with them. We slowly started hugging, holding hands, kissing each others heads, watching movies while my head was in their lap, basically a couple without outwardly saying it. It was yesterday night that they were talking to me, and told me in conversation that they only were attracted to girls (I previously thought they were pansexual) we were acting like a couple, holding eachother in ways I’ve never touched anyone or been touched before, and I swear something was there, but there wasn’t. Been crying all day and night about it while they’ve been texting me in their usual loving tone. Idk whether I should confess, distance myself, or what but this is fucking awful. Sorry for the paragraph
so much effort for everyone to straight dnr this😂
 
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Too much words DNR
 
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For the last few months, I’ve been lonely as shit. No friends in school, 1 irl friend that I would see once a month, no relationships, standard khhv. And a few weeks ago, a girl (mentioned in previous threads) started talking to me. I was pretty much instantaneously head over heels for her, until she started ghosting me like I made a previous thread about. It was then that my best friend introduced me to his other friend. Straight away, I liked them more than as a friend, and when my best friend went on holiday last week, we went out a few times. I was immediately head over heels for them too. The difference is I thought I had a chance with them. We slowly started hugging, holding hands, kissing each others heads, watching movies while my head was in their lap, basically a couple without outwardly saying it. It was yesterday night that they were talking to me, and told me in conversation that they only were attracted to girls (I previously thought they were pansexual) we were acting like a couple, holding eachother in ways I’ve never touched anyone or been touched before, and I swear something was there, but there wasn’t. Been crying all day and night about it while they’ve been texting me in their usual loving tone. Idk whether I should confess, distance myself, or what but this is fucking awful. Sorry for the paragraph
i wish i dnr this shit
 

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Your first mistake was getting involved with some mentally ill chick who calls herself them lmao
 
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Your first mistake was getting involved with some mentally ill chick who calls herself them lmao
I was jst saying them cause I felt like it
 
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For the last few months, I’ve been lonely as shit. No friends in school, 1 irl friend that I would see once a month, no relationships, standard khhv. And a few weeks ago, a girl (mentioned in previous threads) started talking to me. I was pretty much instantaneously head over heels for her, until she started ghosting me like I made a previous thread about. It was then that my best friend introduced me to his other friend. Straight away, I liked them more than as a friend, and when my best friend went on holiday last week, we went out a few times. I was immediately head over heels for them too. The difference is I thought I had a chance with them. We slowly started hugging, holding hands, kissing each others heads, watching movies while my head was in their lap, basically a couple without outwardly saying it. It was yesterday night that they were talking to me, and told me in conversation that they only were attracted to girls (I previously thought they were pansexual) we were acting like a couple, holding eachother in ways I’ve never touched anyone or been touched before, and I swear something was there, but there wasn’t. Been crying all day and night about it while they’ve been texting me in their usual loving tone. Idk whether I should confess, distance myself, or what but this is fucking awful. Sorry for the paragraph
if anyone says they are pansexual thats already a sign to stay away just confess and take whatever answer you get and move on with it its not that deep at the end of the day youll get plenty more experiences throughout life keep your head up bro
 

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For the last few months, I’ve been lonely as shit. No friends in school, 1 irl friend that I would see once a month, no relationships, standard khhv. And a few weeks ago, a girl (mentioned in previous threads) started talking to me. I was pretty much instantaneously head over heels for her, until she started ghosting me like I made a previous thread about. It was then that my best friend introduced me to his other friend. Straight away, I liked them more than as a friend, and when my best friend went on holiday last week, we went out a few times. I was immediately head over heels for them too. The difference is I thought I had a chance with them. We slowly started hugging, holding hands, kissing each others heads, watching movies while my head was in their lap, basically a couple without outwardly saying it. It was yesterday night that they were talking to me, and told me in conversation that they only were attracted to girls (I previously thought they were pansexual) we were acting like a couple, holding eachother in ways I’ve never touched anyone or been touched before, and I swear something was there, but there wasn’t. Been crying all day and night about it while they’ve been texting me in their usual loving tone. Idk whether I should confess, distance myself, or what but this is fucking awful. Sorry for the paragraph
temporary happiness just leave so u dont get hurt more when u eventually break up
 

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For the last few months, I’ve been lonely as shit. No friends in school, 1 irl friend that I would see once a month, no relationships, standard khhv. And a few weeks ago, a girl (mentioned in previous threads) started talking to me. I was pretty much instantaneously head over heels for her, until she started ghosting me like I made a previous thread about. It was then that my best friend introduced me to his other friend. Straight away, I liked them more than as a friend, and when my best friend went on holiday last week, we went out a few times. I was immediately head over heels for them too. The difference is I thought I had a chance with them. We slowly started hugging, holding hands, kissing each others heads, watching movies while my head was in their lap, basically a couple without outwardly saying it. It was yesterday night that they were talking to me, and told me in conversation that they only were attracted to girls (I previously thought they were pansexual) we were acting like a couple, holding eachother in ways I’ve never touched anyone or been touched before, and I swear something was there, but there wasn’t. Been crying all day and night about it while they’ve been texting me in their usual loving tone. Idk whether I should confess, distance myself, or what but this is fucking awful. Sorry for the paragraph
Keep on doing this and try to fuck her
Rep me
 

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For the last few months, I’ve been lonely as shit. No friends in school, 1 irl friend that I would see once a month, no relationships, standard khhv. And a few weeks ago, a girl (mentioned in previous threads) started talking to me. I was pretty much instantaneously head over heels for her, until she started ghosting me like I made a previous thread about. It was then that my best friend introduced me to his other friend. Straight away, I liked them more than as a friend, and when my best friend went on holiday last week, we went out a few times. I was immediately head over heels for them too. The difference is I thought I had a chance with them. We slowly started hugging, holding hands, kissing each others heads, watching movies while my head was in their lap, basically a couple without outwardly saying it. It was yesterday night that they were talking to me, and told me in conversation that they only were attracted to girls (I previously thought they were pansexual) we were acting like a couple, holding eachother in ways I’ve never touched anyone or been touched before, and I swear something was there, but there wasn’t. Been crying all day and night about it while they’ve been texting me in their usual loving tone. Idk whether I should confess, distance myself, or what but this is fucking awful. Sorry for the paragraph
damn daniel.
 
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if anyone says they are pansexual thats already a sign to stay away just confess and take whatever answer you get and move on with it its not that deep at the end of the day youll get plenty more experiences throughout life keep your head up bro
Ig but I don’t see how being pan is an issue jfl
 
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Ig but I don’t see how being pan is an issue jfl
its that humans are designed to find the opposite gender attractive to reproduce i dont have anything against them but i think pansexual and all that shit is quite weird to me since thats not how humans are meant to be but be whatever you want ig
 
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its that humans are designed to find the opposite gender attractive to reproduce i dont have anything against them but i think pansexual and all that shit is quite weird to me since thats not how humans are meant to be but be whatever you want ig
It’s natural to find your sex attractive dude, thousands of species display homosexuality
 

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It’s natural to find your sex attractive dude, thousands of species display homosexuality
Ig but just doesnt sit right with me i can understand being gay but all these other sexualities that have come out in recent times are strange and i think its quite weird with all the people identifying as they/them and all that stuff too i personally believe there is no such thing your either male or female nothing else exists
 
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Ig but just doesnt sit right with me i can understand being gay but all these other sexualities that have come out in recent times are strange and i think its quite weird with all the people identifying as they/them and all that stuff too i personally believe there is no such thing your either male or female nothing else exists
Some ppl jst don’t fw their gender assigned at birth at that’s fine, doesn’t hurt you or me
 

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Some ppl jst don’t fw their gender assigned at birth at that’s fine, doesn’t hurt you or me
Thats true i just cant comprehend why someone would want too change something so important like that but i guess thats more so because im not someone like that
 
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Thats true i just cant comprehend why someone would want too change something so important like that but i guess thats more so because im not someone like that
Yeah, I held your beliefs until I met and befriended more ppl who’re like that
 

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Yeah, I held your beliefs until I met and befriended more ppl who’re like that
i know a few people like that and have no issues with them or anything just different opinions but that doesnt change the friendships or anything
 

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