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Discussion You're not a women-hater, you're a misanthropist (NDs GTFIH) (1 Viewer)

Discussion You're not a women-hater, you're a misanthropist (NDs GTFIH)

Pxverr

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  • #51
Point about women

The reality is that "man-hater" women who believe men are trash may actually dislike people or deep relationships in general, but associate those feelings specifically with men because that's who they've had serious romantic relationships with.
Their relationships with women may mostly be friendships, which don't necessarily involve the same level of vulnerability, expectations, conflict, and emotional investment as a long-term relationship. If they pursued women with the same seriousness and expectations that they pursue men, they might eventually encounter many of the same flaws, incompatibilities, and frustrations.
They could then realize that some of what they blamed on men was actually the difficulty of becoming deeply involved with another person and seeing their flaws up close.

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That was a pretty emotionally intelligent paragraph above, huh? Now what if I made it even more emotionally intelligent

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You can completely reverse that paragraph and just point the point vise-versa and it is still generally true. Sure, there are some things such as hypergamy and hormones that make women more insufferable, but it is still generally true the same for men vs women


@susborger @Sku @Mr. Oxytocin @sleepy_ @Anhedonia_ @Scarface @Kason.0199 @Honorarynigga @dysregulated @Dahker @blonde manlet @Machiavellian @the wizard @goyboy.hero @Oryza @irlesper @Hexum_ @Razi @Hyporoxin @VelocityAnt @hate.and_gasoline @Lyxa @Pxverr @chakiyo @Becker @bob08674 @number1fakecel @Judenbänker @Raynalbeds @fent @looksmin @Dexter @oxycontinEnjoyer @sleepy_
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  • #52
Point about women

The reality is that "man-hater" women who believe men are trash may actually dislike people or deep relationships in general, but associate those feelings specifically with men because that's who they've had serious romantic relationships with.
Their relationships with women may mostly be friendships, which don't necessarily involve the same level of vulnerability, expectations, conflict, and emotional investment as a long-term relationship. If they pursued women with the same seriousness and expectations that they pursue men, they might eventually encounter many of the same flaws, incompatibilities, and frustrations.
They could then realize that some of what they blamed on men was actually the difficulty of becoming deeply involved with another person and seeing their flaws up close.

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That was a pretty emotionally intelligent paragraph above, huh? Now what if I made it even more emotionally intelligent

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You can completely reverse that paragraph and just point the point vise-versa and it is still generally true. Sure, there are some things such as hypergamy and hormones that make women more insufferable, but it is still generally true the same for men vs women


@susborger @Sku @Mr. Oxytocin @sleepy_ @Anhedonia_ @Scarface @Kason.0199 @Honorarynigga @dysregulated @Dahker @blonde manlet @Machiavellian @the wizard @goyboy.hero @Oryza @irlesper @Hexum_ @Razi @Hyporoxin @VelocityAnt @hate.and_gasoline @Lyxa @Pxverr @chakiyo @Becker @bob08674 @number1fakecel @Judenbänker @Raynalbeds @fent @looksmin @Dexter @oxycontinEnjoyer @sleepy_
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supertren

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  • #53
Point about women

The reality is that "man-hater" women who believe men are trash may actually dislike people or deep relationships in general, but associate those feelings specifically with men because that's who they've had serious romantic relationships with.
Their relationships with women may mostly be friendships, which don't necessarily involve the same level of vulnerability, expectations, conflict, and emotional investment as a long-term relationship. If they pursued women with the same seriousness and expectations that they pursue men, they might eventually encounter many of the same flaws, incompatibilities, and frustrations.
They could then realize that some of what they blamed on men was actually the difficulty of becoming deeply involved with another person and seeing their flaws up close.

-------------------------------------------


That was a pretty emotionally intelligent paragraph above, huh? Now what if I made it even more emotionally intelligent

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l
l
l
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You can completely reverse that paragraph and just point the point vise-versa and it is still generally true. Sure, there are some things such as hypergamy and hormones that make women more insufferable, but it is still generally true the same for men vs women


@susborger @Sku @Mr. Oxytocin @sleepy_ @Anhedonia_ @Scarface @Kason.0199 @Honorarynigga @dysregulated @Dahker @blonde manlet @Machiavellian @the wizard @goyboy.hero @Oryza @irlesper @Hexum_ @Razi @Hyporoxin @VelocityAnt @hate.and_gasoline @Lyxa @Pxverr @chakiyo @Becker @bob08674 @number1fakecel @Judenbänker @Raynalbeds @fent @looksmin @Dexter @oxycontinEnjoyer @sleepy_
dnr but true
 
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  • #54
Point about women

The reality is that "man-hater" women who believe men are trash may actually dislike people or deep relationships in general, but associate those feelings specifically with men because that's who they've had serious romantic relationships with.
Their relationships with women may mostly be friendships, which don't necessarily involve the same level of vulnerability, expectations, conflict, and emotional investment as a long-term relationship. If they pursued women with the same seriousness and expectations that they pursue men, they might eventually encounter many of the same flaws, incompatibilities, and frustrations.
They could then realize that some of what they blamed on men was actually the difficulty of becoming deeply involved with another person and seeing their flaws up close.

-------------------------------------------


That was a pretty emotionally intelligent paragraph above, huh? Now what if I made it even more emotionally intelligent

l
l
l
l
\/


You can completely reverse that paragraph and just point the point vise-versa and it is still generally true. Sure, there are some things such as hypergamy and hormones that make women more insufferable, but it is still generally true the same for men vs women


@susborger @Sku @Mr. Oxytocin @sleepy_ @Anhedonia_ @Scarface @Kason.0199 @Honorarynigga @dysregulated @Dahker @blonde manlet @Machiavellian @the wizard @goyboy.hero @Oryza @irlesper @Hexum_ @Razi @Hyporoxin @VelocityAnt @hate.and_gasoline @Lyxa @Pxverr @chakiyo @Becker @bob08674 @number1fakecel @Judenbänker @Raynalbeds @fent @looksmin @Dexter @oxycontinEnjoyer @sleepy_
Moral fag
 
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  • #56
this is actually high iq asf im a bit sad you didn't tag me :(
 

sleepy.

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  • #57
Point about women

The reality is that "man-hater" women who believe men are trash may actually dislike people or deep relationships in general, but associate those feelings specifically with men because that's who they've had serious romantic relationships with.
Their relationships with women may mostly be friendships, which don't necessarily involve the same level of vulnerability, expectations, conflict, and emotional investment as a long-term relationship. If they pursued women with the same seriousness and expectations that they pursue men, they might eventually encounter many of the same flaws, incompatibilities, and frustrations.
They could then realize that some of what they blamed on men was actually the difficulty of becoming deeply involved with another person and seeing their flaws up close.

-------------------------------------------


That was a pretty emotionally intelligent paragraph above, huh? Now what if I made it even more emotionally intelligent

l
l
l
l
\/


You can completely reverse that paragraph and just point the point vise-versa and it is still generally true. Sure, there are some things such as hypergamy and hormones that make women more insufferable, but it is still generally true the same for men vs women


@susborger @Sku @Mr. Oxytocin @sleepy_ @Anhedonia_ @Scarface @Kason.0199 @Honorarynigga @dysregulated @Dahker @blonde manlet @Machiavellian @the wizard @goyboy.hero @Oryza @irlesper @Hexum_ @Razi @Hyporoxin @VelocityAnt @hate.and_gasoline @Lyxa @Pxverr @chakiyo @Becker @bob08674 @number1fakecel @Judenbänker @Raynalbeds @fent @looksmin @Dexter @oxycontinEnjoyer @sleepy_
thanks for the double tag, i feel even more special now
 
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