I’m going to say this once, clearly.
Every day I see posts like:
“rate me 1–10”,
“am I attractive?”,
“what should I improve?”
And then I open the photos and it’s always the same thing:
dirty or badly kept hair,
messy, untrimmed beard,
terrible clothing choices,
no skincare, no basic grooming at all.
And my question is simple: how do you expect a final evaluation if you didn’t even do the basics?
Luxmaxing is not magic.
It’s not posting a low-effort photo and waiting for strangers to fix your life.
It’s looking at yourself in the mirror, realizing something is wrong, and actually doing something about it.
If you see: – a bad beard → trim it or shave it
– bad hair → wash it, style it, change the haircut
– bad clothes → upgrade them
– bad skin → start basic skincare
You don’t need a forum to understand this. You need self-awareness.
And let me be very clear about genetics.
I am NOT talking about bone structure.
I’m not blaming people for: – weak jawline
– underdeveloped mandible
– bad zygomatics
– hooked or humped nose
That’s a different discussion. Genetics and facial bones are a separate topic.
What pisses me off is this:
you can’t even judge genetics if the basics aren’t done.
If someone doesn’t even handle grooming, hygiene, hair, beard, clothes and skin, then genetics are not the problem.
The problem is laziness.
This forum is for people who actually try.
Not for people who skip the basics and ask for a final score anyway.
Clear warning:
if I keep seeing completely unkempt, low-effort photos, I won’t engage or help at all.
Lookmaxing is discipline, not begging for validation.
Fix the fundamentals first.
Then ask for feedback.
Every day I see posts like:
“rate me 1–10”,
“am I attractive?”,
“what should I improve?”
And then I open the photos and it’s always the same thing:
dirty or badly kept hair,
messy, untrimmed beard,
terrible clothing choices,
no skincare, no basic grooming at all.
And my question is simple: how do you expect a final evaluation if you didn’t even do the basics?
Luxmaxing is not magic.
It’s not posting a low-effort photo and waiting for strangers to fix your life.
It’s looking at yourself in the mirror, realizing something is wrong, and actually doing something about it.
If you see: – a bad beard → trim it or shave it
– bad hair → wash it, style it, change the haircut
– bad clothes → upgrade them
– bad skin → start basic skincare
You don’t need a forum to understand this. You need self-awareness.
And let me be very clear about genetics.
I am NOT talking about bone structure.
I’m not blaming people for: – weak jawline
– underdeveloped mandible
– bad zygomatics
– hooked or humped nose
That’s a different discussion. Genetics and facial bones are a separate topic.
What pisses me off is this:
you can’t even judge genetics if the basics aren’t done.
If someone doesn’t even handle grooming, hygiene, hair, beard, clothes and skin, then genetics are not the problem.
The problem is laziness.
This forum is for people who actually try.
Not for people who skip the basics and ask for a final score anyway.
Clear warning:
if I keep seeing completely unkempt, low-effort photos, I won’t engage or help at all.
Lookmaxing is discipline, not begging for validation.
Fix the fundamentals first.
Then ask for feedback.
