What’s the best way to fake social skills (2 Viewers)

[Papabadge]

besides hard drugs what do u guys thinks the best way of faking having social skills? My whole life I have been trying to mask the fact that I’m not sociable at all. So, I'm curious to see what u guys do everyday to mask it

 

[FoidSlayer]

MedSlayer

 

[MedSlayer]

Being not sociable is just a proof that you are inferior genetically if you wouldve experienced positive reinforcement when socializing growing up you wouldnt have those kind of issues
Although you can practice it and you will lower your inhib over time think of it like the fear of height the more you get exposed to it the less your body will produce a shit ton of adrenaline in those situations

 

[⠀⠀⠀]

Being not sociable is just a proof that you are inferior genetically if you wouldve experienced positive reinforcement when socializing growing up you wouldnt have those kind of issues
Although you can practice it and you will lower your inhib over time think of it like the fear of height the more you get exposed to it the less your body will produce a shit ton of adrenaline in those situations

flat out wrong

i grew up normal but covid fucked me up and made me weird, probably took me like 2 years to fix my shitty status

 

[FoidSlayer]

flat out wrong

i grew up normal but covid fucked me up and made me weird, probably took me like 2 years to fix my shitty status

If I grew up attractive and people were positively reinforcing me because of that fact would I really be on an incel forum asking how to socialize??

Not even genetically inferior physically, some people are just ND

 

[MedSlayer]

flat out wrong

i grew up normal but covid fucked me up and made me weird, probably took me like 2 years to fix my shitty status

FoidSlayer

Muhhh i isolated myself for a long period of time and my social skills got worse

 

[Parsival]

Just say: "Everyone is inferior, Why would i struggle? "
mark as solution + 50 reps nigga

 

[⠀⠀⠀]

If I grew up attractive and people were positively reinforcing me because of that fact would I really be on an incel forum asking how to socialize??

Not even genetically inferior physically, some people are just ND

im not saying its everybodys case but to just flat out say u have social anxiety just bc ur "genetically inferior" is wrong

FoidSlayer

Muhhh i isolated myself for a long period of time and my social skills got worse

retard i didnt isolate myself i literally just became a loser and all my friends were weirdos and i was new to the school

 

[FoidSlayer]

im not saying its everybodys case but to just flat out say u have social anxiety just bc ur "genetically inferior" is wrong

Most of the cases it's correct though, especially in a place like this

 

[PrinceND]

Being not sociable is just a proof that you are inferior genetically if you wouldve experienced positive reinforcement when socializing growing up you wouldnt have those kind of issues
Although you can practice it and you will lower your inhib over time think of it like the fear of height the more you get exposed to it the less your body will produce a shit ton of adrenaline in those situations

I just struggle with one problem. What do I talk about? How do I keep the conversation entertaining? Different social cues?

Socializing can go both ways and it’s insanely hard to predict the outcome

I personally struggle with openers and eye contact, I feel like I’m wasting someone’s time when I talk to them.

When someone tries to talk to me I literally cannot generate a reply until maybe 10-20 seconds later and usually it’s a dumb reply.

TL;DR: Dont know any good openers and how to keep the convo going

 

[PrinceND]

I just struggle with one problem. What do I talk about? How do I keep the conversation entertaining? Different social cues?

Socializing can go both ways and it’s insanely hard to predict the outcome

I personally struggle with openers and eye contact, I feel like I’m wasting someone’s time when I talk to them.

When someone tries to talk to me I literally cannot generate a reply until maybe 10-20 seconds later and usually it’s a dumb reply.

TL;DR: Dont know any good openers and how to keep the convo going

My self hate adds to my isolation

 

[MedSlayer]

I just struggle with one problem. What do I talk about? How do I keep the conversation entertaining? Different social cues?

Socializing can go both ways and it’s insanely hard to predict the outcome

I personally struggle with openers and eye contact, I feel like I’m wasting someone’s time when I talk to them.

When someone tries to talk to me I literally cannot generate a reply until maybe 10-20 seconds later and usually it’s a dumb reply.

TL;DR: Dont know any good openers and how to keep the convo going

It comes naturally personally i dont think when i talk it just comes out and also talk about things you like or joke wtv ask people about their interest listen to them etc

 

[PrinceND]

It comes naturally personally i dont think when i talk it just comes out and also talk about things you like or joke wtv ask people about their interest listen to them etc

Okay, I’ve been doing that recently and I get an adrenaline rush. So I don’t do it often

 

[MedSlayer]

Okay, I’ve been doing that recently and I get an adrenaline rush. So I don’t do it often

Yeah keep doing it youll get less adrenaline rush overtime

 

[Papabadge]

Being not sociable is just a proof that you are inferior genetically if you wouldve experienced positive reinforcement when socializing growing up you wouldnt have those kind of issues
Although you can practice it and you will lower your inhib over time think of it like the fear of height the more you get exposed to it the less your body will produce a shit ton of adrenaline in those situations

I’ve heard this take before and it’s pretty interesting. Although I’m not ugly I’m pretty short but I doubt that’s the reason. Also in my younger years I was very social. I’ve just rotted in my room for so long through my younger teen years that I’ve become very anti social and being short definitely doesn’t help that.
What ways did u “expose yourself”

 

[Papabadge]

I just struggle with one problem. What do I talk about? How do I keep the conversation entertaining? Different social cues?

Socializing can go both ways and it’s insanely hard to predict the outcome

I personally struggle with openers and eye contact, I feel like I’m wasting someone’s time when I talk to them.

When someone tries to talk to me I literally cannot generate a reply until maybe 10-20 seconds later and usually it’s a dumb reply.

TL;DR: Dont know any good openers and how to keep the convo going

On fucking god bro thanks for ts

 

[MedSlayer]

I’ve heard this take before and it’s pretty interesting. Although I’m not ugly I’m pretty short but I doubt that’s the reason. Also in my younger years I was very social. I’ve just rotted in my room for so long through my younger teen years that I’ve become very anti social and being short definitely doesn’t help that.
What ways did u “expose yourself”

Talk to people there is no secret tibetan monk technique