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Discussion What to DM a girl on Instagram? (1 Viewer)

Discussion What to DM a girl on Instagram?

arudj

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There's a girl, we're following each other and I wanna DM her. I'm high inhib and possibly a little awkward since have a moderate level of social anxiety. I wanted to DM her but I'm too anxious. I was pretty close to doing it though. What do I DM her and what am I supposed to do if she agrees to go out with me? Do I go for a hug and what else am I supposed to do?
 

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There's a girl, we're following each other and I wanna DM her. I'm high inhib and possibly a little awkward since have a moderate level of social anxiety. I wanted to DM her but I'm too anxious. I was pretty close to doing it though. What do I DM her and what am I supposed to do if she agrees to go out with me? Do I go for a hug and what else am I supposed to do?
Go straight for it or try to friend her. I
 

Hexum

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Fuck you
There's a girl, we're following each other and I wanna DM her. I'm high inhib and possibly a little awkward since have a moderate level of social anxiety. I wanted to DM her but I'm too anxious. I was pretty close to doing it though. What do I DM her and what am I supposed to do if she agrees to go out with me? Do I go for a hug and what else am I supposed to do?
 

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Go straight for it or try to friend her. I
Go straight for the hug? And I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do after.
 

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Go straight for the hug? And I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do after.
No, Like talking to her and forming a relationship. Then when you both trust eachother just hug her lol
 

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its not rocket science nigga just fucking dm her
 

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Why would you DM her? wtf. If you’re not attractive enough for her to text you first, don’t do anything.
 

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Why would you DM her? wtf. If you’re not attractive enough for her to text you first, don’t do anything.
dork mindset, women like to be approached btw
 

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There's a girl, we're following each other and I wanna DM her. I'm high inhib and possibly a little awkward since have a moderate level of social anxiety. I wanted to DM her but I'm too anxious. I was pretty close to doing it though. What do I DM her and what am I supposed to do if she agrees to go out with me? Do I go for a hug and what else am I supposed to do?
Have a friend do it for u lol
 

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There's a girl, we're following each other and I wanna DM her. I'm high inhib and possibly a little awkward since have a moderate level of social anxiety. I wanted to DM her but I'm too anxious. I was pretty close to doing it though. What do I DM her and what am I supposed to do if she agrees to go out with me? Do I go for a hug and what else am I supposed to do?
wait till she posts a story and reply or "accidentaly" send her a reel and start up a convo from that
 

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