Vrik
Lazy fakecel
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We are hopeless, yes me and you. I can promise you that 95% of people come on forums like this because they feel unwanted and a mere thought of "looking better" will try to fill that void in us. Most of us don't even want to admit it.
Our best years (14-19yo) are gone, without us experiencing what everybody else has.
people love pretending “it gets better” but some damage is permanent. once you spend your formative years unwanted and sexually invisible while everyone else lives normal teenage experiences, something in your brain rots permanently. the humiliation wires itself into your identity. every year after that is just coping.
even if you somehow get women later, it never fixes anything because what you actually missed was being desired naturally during the only years it would have mattered. you can never recreate adolescent love once your youth is gone. you become emotionally exiled from an entire stage of human experience.
people will tell you “teen relationships are overrated” but they only say that because they had the privilege of experiencing them in the first place. they got to fail, experiment, feel wanted, build confidence. you got nothing. just isolation watching everyone else become human while you stayed mentally locked outside the glass.
after enough years of rejection, loneliness stops being a temporary condition and becomes your personality. you stop believing in intimacy because deep down you know nobody can retroactively give you the years that were stolen from you.
Our best years (14-19yo) are gone, without us experiencing what everybody else has.
people love pretending “it gets better” but some damage is permanent. once you spend your formative years unwanted and sexually invisible while everyone else lives normal teenage experiences, something in your brain rots permanently. the humiliation wires itself into your identity. every year after that is just coping.
even if you somehow get women later, it never fixes anything because what you actually missed was being desired naturally during the only years it would have mattered. you can never recreate adolescent love once your youth is gone. you become emotionally exiled from an entire stage of human experience.
people will tell you “teen relationships are overrated” but they only say that because they had the privilege of experiencing them in the first place. they got to fail, experiment, feel wanted, build confidence. you got nothing. just isolation watching everyone else become human while you stayed mentally locked outside the glass.
after enough years of rejection, loneliness stops being a temporary condition and becomes your personality. you stop believing in intimacy because deep down you know nobody can retroactively give you the years that were stolen from you.
