Venting The “friendpill” (1 Viewer)

[PrinceND]

Humans are social creatures; everyone needs a friend, a companion, a brother, someone to rely on. It’s one of our most prominent abilities, to interact with those outside of the comfort of your home/tribe.


I struggle with the friendpill, I lack the ability to create meaningful friendships. You might be wondering “Bro, just talk to someone and eventually you’ll be friends.”

I wish it was that easy.

My brain has a whole system designed, I often feel I am a burden or weirding someone out when I talk to someone. I am insanely insecure; I don’t want the other person to think I’m weird for talking to them specifically.

I often get ignored a lot anyways so my brain has developed a defense system that prevents me from engaging in activities that bring the risk of being ignored or hurt socially.

I’m also insanely picky with who I want to be friends with. I don’t want to be friends with people who are lolcows or get made fun of. I don’t want to share their burdens and be associated with such company. I know it sounds selfish, but self respect doesn’t equal selfishness in my opinion.

“But bro if you’re good looking everyone will want to be your friend.”

True I guess? However I’m in dire need of connection that I enjoy, I don’t think looks should be a barrier in human relationships besides dating.

All I feel is invisibility nowadays. I don’t have any GCs or people to talk to. Just delivered or seen.

It’s not anything detrimental currently but it might get worse in the future. It’s mind boggling how bad my insecurity spiked in high school.

If you made the effort to read this I applaud you, I’m just blurting my thoughts right now, because like I told you I have no friends.

 

[Navity(Nav)]

yeh

 

[Peace]

i went through a period of time in my life with really 0 friends tbh, and a piece of advice i can give you to start to make friends is rlly to just mirror what they do - this works with 90% of human beings, people love themselves and so mirroring their actions, speech patterns, clothes ect. will definitely increase your chances of making some

 

[Scorpion]

Humans are social creatures; everyone needs a friend, a companion, a brother, someone to rely on. It’s one of our most prominent abilities, to interact with those outside of the comfort of your home/tribe.


I struggle with the friendpill, I lack the ability to create meaningful friendships. You might be wondering “Bro, just talk to someone and eventually you’ll be friends.”

I wish it was that easy.

My brain has a whole system designed, I often feel I am a burden or weirding someone out when I talk to someone. I am insanely insecure; I don’t want the other person to think I’m weird for talking to them specifically.

I often get ignored a lot anyways so my brain has developed a defense system that prevents me from engaging in activities that bring the risk of being ignored or hurt socially.

I’m also insanely picky with who I want to be friends with. I don’t want to be friends with people who are lolcows or get made fun of. I don’t want to share their burdens and be associated with such company. I know it sounds selfish, but self respect doesn’t equal selfishness in my opinion.

“But bro if you’re good looking everyone will want to be your friend.”

True I guess? However I’m in dire need of connection that I enjoy, I don’t think looks should be a barrier in human relationships besides dating.

All I feel is invisibility nowadays. I don’t have any GCs or people to talk to. Just delivered or seen.

It’s not anything detrimental currently but it might get worse in the future. It’s mind boggling how bad my insecurity spiked in high school.

If you made the effort to read this I applaud you, I’m just blurting my thoughts right now, because like I told you I have no friends.

Bro u can be htn and tall but if ur ND no one would wanna be ur friend

There is this kid in my school
He is a mtn and 6 feet tall but ND asf
And he gets bullied and ignored by everyone

 

[PrinceND]

Bro u can be htn and tall but if ur ND no one would wanna be ur friend

There is this kid in my school
He is a mtn and 6 feet tall but ND asf
And he gets bullied and ignored by everyone

Same for the opposites. Dudes more recessed than me have more friends

 

[NorthAfricanRopemaxxer]

i went through a period of time in my life with really 0 friends tbh, and a piece of advice i can give you to start to make friends is rlly to just mirror what they do - this works with 90% of human beings, people love themselves and so mirroring their actions, speech patterns, clothes ect. will definitely increase your chances of making some

lived something similar its horrible

 

[Judenbänker]

Dude stfu highiq larp

 

[Judenbänker]

lived something similar its horrible

Havent seen u in a long time bro

 

[NorthAfricanRopemaxxer]

Havent seen u in a long time bro

im finally back bhai

 

[Judenbänker]

im finally back bhai

Any updates on le looks?

 

[NorthAfricanRopemaxxer]

Any updates on le looks?

only thing I did is work harder in the gym, hbu?

 

[PrinceND]

i went through a period of time in my life with really 0 friends tbh, and a piece of advice i can give you to start to make friends is rlly to just mirror what they do - this works with 90% of human beings, people love themselves and so mirroring their actions, speech patterns, clothes ect. will definitely increase your chances of making some

The biggest problem I face is that I have no support like my parents Dont support me and my parents flat out told me mental health doesn’t exist

 

[PrinceND]

Dude stfu highiq larp

Whaaaat how am I larpinf high iq I’m just venting

 

[Judenbänker]

only thing I did is work harder in the gym

Oh rip but mirin physique efforts

hbu?

All quiet on the looksmaxxing front here