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IMPACT OF TEENAGE LOVE
Teenage love is a key social milestone, crucial for the typical development of well-adjusted individuals.
Missing out on it means that all your future relationships, whether social or romantic, are influenced by these gaps;
you end up stuck in a constant state of trying to catch up, a kind of frozen reflection.
No matter how many enjoyable moments you have later in life, you’ll never completely make up for the social and romantic experiences you missed.
Your brain can’t develop in the same way in adulthood as it does in youth. By then, your mind has matured and become less flexible; you’ve grown older, more reserved and analytical; you’re less innocent, and your emotions aren’t driven by hormonal changes anymore.
This means the intense emotional highs of romance lose their all-consuming, dramatic nature. Instead, they often turn overly critical or even pessimistic, both looking back and moving forward, accompanied by a constant longing to rewind time and experience the friendship and love you missed when you were younger. What if?
The older adult becomes practical and mechanical, unable to love with the youthful naivety, passion, and innocence they once had. You missed out, and nothing can fully make up for it, nor can denial erase these realities.
Missing out on it is traumatic
I suspect that when many old virgins experience love for the first time, they either
A. marry the first girl who gives them attention, who may not be a good fit for their personality, and lead to poor compatibility and life outcomes; or
B. become degenerate sex addicts, forever trying to compensate for a lack of social experiences in their youth.
Neither are good, as both are unlikely to lead to a fruitful life.
The likelihood of later is also very high in the blackpill/redpill sphere
because you're way far gone than normies in the "dating after teenage years is cucked and soy" mentality.
You most certainly won't be able to date a girl successfully and be at peace with it with your doomer wojak consumer mindset.
TEEN LOVE, LTR > >>>> SLAYING
JFL at any of you copers who missed out on teen love & cope that slaying is better
Slaying is just a desperate attempt to satisfy your broken ego, compensating for missed opportunity & It will fail at even that.
Some copers cope with the tough-guy attitude, arguing that love is fake and that slaying is all that matters:
If you got one girl when you're still a teen & stayed with her you wouldn't be contempt with her
you wouldn't be able to slay multiple girls in Uni & from tinder bro
It's estrogenic to want cuddling bro, you a bitch bro, fucking random hoes & no emotional support is masculine high T
If you married a a girl you met in high school & married her you will not be contempt bro, Me Viking conqueror mindset bro fuck more bro
But the truth is that, an LTR is obviously way better thein random hookups:
THE BEAUTY OF TEEN LOVE:
Between the ages of 13 and 16, your limbic system, which controls emotions, is much more developed than your prefrontal cortex.
This causes you to fall head over heels in love.
You're most likely each other's first love, which makes the effect way stronger aswell.
This experience can never be replicated in the later life after you & her have been jaded from the starrvation, breakups and reponsibility .
Time isn’t something you can rewind, you can’t trade anything for your time back.
You can be older and still get a relationship sure, but will it have the same effect, the same impact on your life as it would if you were young and full of enthusiasm?
She'll never lose her senses over you when she's been in relationship before
she’ll never be this enthusiastic over just your sight when she’s been in relationships before.
she’ll never go crazy over a kiss when she’s been in relationships before.
she’ll never get pleasure just from her devotion in you when she's been in relationship before.
You'll always be dispoasable
LOST TIME IS NEVER FOUND AGAIN
People who never go through relationships at a young age often don’t fully move past that stage. They seem stuck in time, trying to hold onto their teenage years forever.
While others look back on those moments with embarrassment, they cling to them desperately. Some even turn into cringe-worthy guys with anxious attachment, hooking up with lots of people just to deal with what they missed.
bUt LiKe... i HaVe My OwN lIfE sCrIpT bRo
... pEoPlE iN rElAtIoNsHiPs JuSt EnD uP fEeLiNg Sooo tRaPpEd AnD eMoTiOnAlLy SuFfOcAtEd... yOu KnOw~
sure.... keep telling yourself that
If you miss out on the teenage experience, it’s very hard to truly move forward.
dating multiple women in old age or dating women who're younger
won't send you back to your young days when you were supposed to experience this
It won't compensate for missed experiences, there is a time at which certain things need to be accomplished.
The only people who really get upset at aging are people who didn't really enjoy their youth. Those are the people who want to cling and hold on to youth. Typically, they are people who didn't really quite enjoy their youth or they feel that there was something that they missed out on. These are the people who typically worry about aging the most.
And your mortality will start to hit you, and you'll just be kind of like, damn, like life is really moving, you know? In your teens and 20s, it'll seem like you'll never turn 30, but you'll be about to turn 30
your hair falling out, noticing little age things catching up.
It's interesting, but experiencing things you should have experienced in your youth? Experiencing those things later in life just won't hit the same. You won't get the same growth and change from certain things at certain times in your life, you know.
But the parameters of those opportunities are shaped in part by the timing of the event in your life.
Research shows us that the timing of experiences is what causes growth and change depending on your age and the time period of your life. And you'll say like, you know, yesterday it felt like you were 20, it'll just feel like you turned 20 yesterday. This is the brutality of the time perception pill. One day to the next. It's a gradual process. And this is why you'll get hit brutally by it.
TIME PERCEPTION PILL
Imagine you live until 80, in that case the middle part of your life was at 40, right? Not at all.
The more you age, the faster time goes by in your psychological perception. When you are 8 years old, 1 year feels like a very long time. At 60, it feels like nothing. When you are 80 years old, the middle part of your life, from a psychological perception, was not 40, but 20.
Research indicates that the most vivid memories people retain in their later years (around age 80) are from their late teens and early twenties.
the person you are now is shaped by who you were in high school and college. Your core self stays consistent after those formative years. And TIME WILL FLY BY FAST. If time seems to go quickly in your 20s, just wait until you reach your 30s, 40s, 50s, and beyond...
Time will fly by and you'll not even realize what happened
IMPACT OF TEENAGE LOVE
Teenage love is a key social milestone, crucial for the typical development of well-adjusted individuals.
Missing out on it means that all your future relationships, whether social or romantic, are influenced by these gaps;
you end up stuck in a constant state of trying to catch up, a kind of frozen reflection.
No matter how many enjoyable moments you have later in life, you’ll never completely make up for the social and romantic experiences you missed.
Your brain can’t develop in the same way in adulthood as it does in youth. By then, your mind has matured and become less flexible; you’ve grown older, more reserved and analytical; you’re less innocent, and your emotions aren’t driven by hormonal changes anymore.
This means the intense emotional highs of romance lose their all-consuming, dramatic nature. Instead, they often turn overly critical or even pessimistic, both looking back and moving forward, accompanied by a constant longing to rewind time and experience the friendship and love you missed when you were younger. What if?
The older adult becomes practical and mechanical, unable to love with the youthful naivety, passion, and innocence they once had. You missed out, and nothing can fully make up for it, nor can denial erase these realities.
Missing out on it is traumatic
I suspect that when many old virgins experience love for the first time, they either
A. marry the first girl who gives them attention, who may not be a good fit for their personality, and lead to poor compatibility and life outcomes; or
B. become degenerate sex addicts, forever trying to compensate for a lack of social experiences in their youth.
Neither are good, as both are unlikely to lead to a fruitful life.
The likelihood of later is also very high in the blackpill/redpill sphere
because you're way far gone than normies in the "dating after teenage years is cucked and soy" mentality.
You most certainly won't be able to date a girl successfully and be at peace with it with your doomer wojak consumer mindset.
TEEN LOVE, LTR > >>>> SLAYING
JFL at any of you copers who missed out on teen love & cope that slaying is better
Slaying is just a desperate attempt to satisfy your broken ego, compensating for missed opportunity & It will fail at even that.
Some copers cope with the tough-guy attitude, arguing that love is fake and that slaying is all that matters:
If you got one girl when you're still a teen & stayed with her you wouldn't be contempt with her
you wouldn't be able to slay multiple girls in Uni & from tinder bro
It's estrogenic to want cuddling bro, you a bitch bro, fucking random hoes & no emotional support is masculine high T
If you married a a girl you met in high school & married her you will not be contempt bro, Me Viking conqueror mindset bro fuck more bro
But the truth is that, an LTR is obviously way better thein random hookups:
- Condom sex is worse than normal sex, If you don't put on condom you'll have to deal with STD & be paranoid about it
- You will have worse quality of foids If you are trying to get a new one everyday compared to you just entering LTR with your looksmatch or higher
- LTR provides you with emotional support that most of you abused dogs need, You can easily just counter your anxiety & depression with the oxytocin that comes with being in a relationship.
- If it doesn't workout & she leaves you, you have communication, relationship skills to easily enter another relationship & move on. You don't get some unfixable scars by breaking-up with your teen love lmao
THE BEAUTY OF TEEN LOVE:
Between the ages of 13 and 16, your limbic system, which controls emotions, is much more developed than your prefrontal cortex.
This causes you to fall head over heels in love.
You're most likely each other's first love, which makes the effect way stronger aswell.
This experience can never be replicated in the later life after you & her have been jaded from the starrvation, breakups and reponsibility .
Time isn’t something you can rewind, you can’t trade anything for your time back.
You can be older and still get a relationship sure, but will it have the same effect, the same impact on your life as it would if you were young and full of enthusiasm?
She'll never lose her senses over you when she's been in relationship before
she’ll never be this enthusiastic over just your sight when she’s been in relationships before.
she’ll never go crazy over a kiss when she’s been in relationships before.
she’ll never get pleasure just from her devotion in you when she's been in relationship before.
You'll always be dispoasable
LOST TIME IS NEVER FOUND AGAIN
People who never go through relationships at a young age often don’t fully move past that stage. They seem stuck in time, trying to hold onto their teenage years forever.
While others look back on those moments with embarrassment, they cling to them desperately. Some even turn into cringe-worthy guys with anxious attachment, hooking up with lots of people just to deal with what they missed.
bUt LiKe... i HaVe My OwN lIfE sCrIpT bRo
... pEoPlE iN rElAtIoNsHiPs JuSt EnD uP fEeLiNg Sooo tRaPpEd AnD eMoTiOnAlLy SuFfOcAtEd... yOu KnOw~sure.... keep telling yourself that
If you miss out on the teenage experience, it’s very hard to truly move forward.
dating multiple women in old age or dating women who're younger
won't send you back to your young days when you were supposed to experience this
It won't compensate for missed experiences, there is a time at which certain things need to be accomplished.
The only people who really get upset at aging are people who didn't really enjoy their youth. Those are the people who want to cling and hold on to youth. Typically, they are people who didn't really quite enjoy their youth or they feel that there was something that they missed out on. These are the people who typically worry about aging the most.
And your mortality will start to hit you, and you'll just be kind of like, damn, like life is really moving, you know? In your teens and 20s, it'll seem like you'll never turn 30, but you'll be about to turn 30
your hair falling out, noticing little age things catching up.
It's interesting, but experiencing things you should have experienced in your youth? Experiencing those things later in life just won't hit the same. You won't get the same growth and change from certain things at certain times in your life, you know.
But the parameters of those opportunities are shaped in part by the timing of the event in your life.
Research shows us that the timing of experiences is what causes growth and change depending on your age and the time period of your life. And you'll say like, you know, yesterday it felt like you were 20, it'll just feel like you turned 20 yesterday. This is the brutality of the time perception pill. One day to the next. It's a gradual process. And this is why you'll get hit brutally by it.
TIME PERCEPTION PILL
Imagine you live until 80, in that case the middle part of your life was at 40, right? Not at all.
The more you age, the faster time goes by in your psychological perception. When you are 8 years old, 1 year feels like a very long time. At 60, it feels like nothing. When you are 80 years old, the middle part of your life, from a psychological perception, was not 40, but 20.
Research indicates that the most vivid memories people retain in their later years (around age 80) are from their late teens and early twenties.
the person you are now is shaped by who you were in high school and college. Your core self stays consistent after those formative years. And TIME WILL FLY BY FAST. If time seems to go quickly in your 20s, just wait until you reach your 30s, 40s, 50s, and beyond...
Time will fly by and you'll not even realize what happened
yes it feels good but it ain't that deep
..holy mirin
