first of all who tf loses their virginity at 13, also you just need to get better looking and try a little bit by talking to women
yes bro someone need to teach jester4foids and me how to pull for god's sake
tf you mean at 13
Yes yes my looks but I’ve been told by everyone who “rated” me that I’m htn with a lot of appeal, htn is glaze asf. I’m mmtn but still tho, how is that bad to the point I can’t pull??
I mean 13 as in 13
just be jordan
I know I have to work on my social skills, I just don’t know how
Boiiijust be jordan
idk how and where to learn social skills
Height?
teach US how to pull
I thought I was 178, I measured to 177 but I always got my height boosters on
You could go on Omegle to low inhib max. Just do it for like 15-30mins everyday. Also just look up ways to boost social skills, mimic charismatic people
aight thanks g
Hmm, I’ll try that. I think my problem is more like shooting my shot, I’m so afraid of being rejected and I can’t bring myself to “rizz” (corny asf I know) a girl, it’s just too cringe and feels forced. Holding hand and shit is so awkward
I feel you, I have this one girl I've been talking to and saying lovey dovey stuff on the phone feels so awkward and I cringe at myself for doing it
go to different cities and just start cold approaching and try to get phone numbers, socials, etc. Then you can continue further but thats up to you. Practice makes perfect
Vacations work too. Just anywhere people don't know you
This is so true, I can JUST bring myself to do it over the phone but I can’t even keep eye contact with a girl for literally 2 seconds. I can barely slightly do it when I’m drunk but then I just get weird, I almost had these two girls but i accidentally drank too much and got weird asf. I don’t wanna go into details and even saying this feels corny. When I’m not drunk I can’t bring myself to do it. It’s like a double edged sword
Sometimes an ego death is a good thing
This is all good but I think my mail problem is what i mentioned earlier and idk how to actually make a move. Also I’m scared of being laughed at and judged if I walk by with a girl and my friends see. I overthink ts too much.
thats part of it, but if you really want to get better social skills, not that messages shit, this is the best route you can take
Can't relate on the drunk part because I've never drank but yeah it's so fucking awkward. Especially because girls are so two faced and if you're not conventionally attractive then they will make it awkward
should I even cold approach as an ltn
atp
Bro I can’t even ask for a girls snap
i think it will help you but make eye contacts with foids for like 2 second then smile if she display ioi approach her you dont need some shitty rizz line just say hi i thought you were very cute whats your name take it from there
Yeeeesss also this. I’m also scared that I’m a bad kisser or wtv and she will tell her friends, since I live in a small town that will be bad and I’m scared of all these things and Lwk paranoid but idk what to do.
i used to be a lot like this, thats why i recommend you to go to places where people dont know you and just start cold approiaching and asking for social, it worked for me and i used to be super awkward with girls
This was my first time really getting drunk since I normally don’t drink but I had enough of my inhib so when a girl wanted to make out or wtv I had to drink but as I said I just got weird and nothing happened. I also don’t even know how to make out so I got nervous
If you're a bad kisser just practice on your hbs.
Uuuuhhhh yeah bro..should I even cold approach as an ltn
I can’t bring myself to compliment girls. Also I worded it bad, idk why I said rizz. I just meant like making a move or some shit
Get a gf most girls at this age are still akward you wont be a slayer the first time you do things so do it with a person you love and trust
Is it because girls are complimented so much that it feels like you're a cuck when you compliment them? Like you want them to be hurt
I can’t even get a kiss how will I get a girlfriend, my personality is shit and no one would stay for that long
take an anime body pillow and practice everything u need, kissing, slaying
Mirin cars, this is embarrassing but I’ve literally spent hours trynna find a good guide but they all say some shit like find your flow or some random ass shit, idk what to do with my tongue or how to even get to a kiss in the first place
Depends on the girl, most wont know how to kiss either at your age and it will be a learning experience for you both
It’s a combination between it feeling forced/ cringe and then this yea
Stop badmouthing yourself your problem is not your personality or anything its your lack of positive self image and confidence no amount of tips will help you
Noting
Everyone I know has had their first kiss at 13+, I saw multiple 6 or 7 graders make out here the other day. This sound like lies but I guess it’s different from country to country. Even the fat bitches here has lost their virginity at 14. I know literally 1 singular girl who maybe hasn’t had her first kiss yet but she just moved to Paris so it’s over
