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Venting Social Life

Ash2Flame

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I really need some real nigga advice.Basically I grew up with a pretty rough social foundation , at school I was bullied and excluded, so I never really learned how to build close friendships and I kind of emotionally checked out. Now im 19 and I have acquaintances but no real close friends or solid group, and I struggle feeling socially integrated. I’m naturally extroverted, but in groups I default to being edgy or provocative, which pushes people away even though one-on-one im
not like this. Overall, I feel lonely, behind socially, and like I missed out on normal teenage experiences.I really wanna change my personality and my social life so any advice or ressources that aint some retard ND shit like some how to make friends books or some shit like muhhh just be a chad is welcomed.
 

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Maybe because the problem is in your looks,or how you talk, I personally have a good reputation in my class,friend group and other places (gym for example) its so easy to get friends the same gender like you, the problem appeara when you try talking to girls, for me they are some different shi😭
 

Ash2Flame

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Maybe because the problem is in your looks,or how you talk, I personally have a good reputation in my class,friend group and other places (gym for example) its so easy to get friends the same gender like you, the problem appeara when you try talking to girls, for me they are some different shi😭
Nigga im a hmtn-lhtn and i have no problems slaying bcs foids genuinly dgaf abt ur personality but its just that idk my personality is shit asf and as a kid / early teenage years my social devellopement was really shit so now im really trying to work on it and lwkey i dont have too much to connect with people except school , all bp related subjects and slaying but most people around me are genuinely chuds and I despise them in secret.
 

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Then you should not fucking care bro. Tell me about the place where you are social and have a chance to get some friendgroup or where you work
Nigga im a hmtn-lhtn and i have no problems slaying bcs foids genuinly dgaf abt ur personality but its just that idk my personality is shit asf and as a kid / early teenage years my social devellopement was really shit so now im really trying to work on it and lwkey i dont have too much to connect with people except school , all bp related subjects and slaying but most people around me are genuinely chuds and I despise them in secret.
 

Ash2Flame

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Then you should not fucking care bro. Tell me about the place where you are social and have a chance to get some friendgroup or where you work
im either at school in like a premed program so most of the guys there are either muslims deathnics or nerds either in the gym where most of the guys there are like gymcel or redpill copers so i tell them for example come to the club and theyre like muhh club is for losers and honeslty idk like i really gotta find guys like me but my social life is really dead honestly if it wasnt for the mtbs letting me slay i would probably in depression.Like I really want to live the american teenager experience but i cant :(
 

Ash2Flame

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im either at school in like a premed program so most of the guys there are either muslims deathnics or nerds either in the gym where most of the guys there are like gymcel or redpill copers so i tell them for example come to the club and theyre like muhh club is for losers and honeslty idk like i really gotta find guys like me but my social life is really dead honestly if it wasnt for the mtbs letting me slay i would probably in depression.Like I really want to live the american teenager experience but i cant :(
And also i work at a grocery store but most ppl theyre are either 30+ yrs old or like are some muslims that just dont go out and do nothing fun in their life
 

kristutis

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genuinly get employed save up money buy urself a nice car do shit for urself and with time ull meet new ppl dont sit in the dark and think ur a loser live ur life its all in ur head
 
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I really need some real nigga advice.Basically I grew up with a pretty rough social foundation , at school I was bullied and excluded, so I never really learned how to build close friendships and I kind of emotionally checked out. Now im 19 and I have acquaintances but no real close friends or solid group, and I struggle feeling socially integrated. I’m naturally extroverted, but in groups I default to being edgy or provocative, which pushes people away even though one-on-one im
not like this. Overall, I feel lonely, behind socially, and like I missed out on normal teenage experiences.I really wanna change my personality and my social life so any advice or ressources that aint some retard ND shit like some how to make friends books or some shit like muhhh just be a chad is welcomed.
Give up and rely on alcohol and hard drugs instead brah
 
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