Relationship w/ girl who has Avoidant Attachment [long rant GTFIH] (5 Viewers)

[looksmin]

So basically me and this girl at my school started talking, we bonded pretty fast and had a strong connection. Things were going great for 3 weeks then I notice her commenting on a guys post " fit hard ngl " I confront her about it she then says their just mutual friends and there is nothing to worry about jfl. We will get back to that later in the thread. I give her one of my essential hoodies and she instantly wears it at school once I give it to her basically claiming me as hers etc, made an unprovoked tiktok in it saying "new fav hoodie ngl", but at night one day I went thru this bitches reposts and I find some shit about "avoidant attachment". Specifically captioned "when everything is going perfect but my avoidant attachment kicks in". I try to confront her about this and some other shit that night but her friend is apparently bawling her eyes out to her on ft so she couldn't call me. She said can you just text it and i was like id rather communicate and express my concerns/thoughts over the phone. I end up just sending voice notes to her rougly 5 voice notes 7 minutes in total about everything I noticed and my concerns right.. well now it gets interested brah. She replies to me with a big ass paragraph at 6;43 AM IN THE FUCKING MORNING. what a way to start my day nigga. I read all of it and these 3 things catch my eye. First she said "if your already overthinking this early then I want out." Mind you I was just trying to get her to re assure me she wasn't texting no other niggas. Secondly she mentions " I just like to be happy and nice to everyone and I guess i am subconsciously flirty with everyone and i dont realize it till my friends correct me." She said this cause I said "i hear your overly friendly w ngas", but HOLLON WHAT THE FUCK you mean subconsciously flirty nigga. JFL. Thirdly she gets mad at me because I said avoidant attachment is such fucking cope and not a real thing and oh boy did she get mad at that nigga. 4 sentences of her ranting on how its a real thing and she experiences it with her OWN FUCKING MOM. Thrid she says "imagine how bad it would be if we were dating and you saw me just having a conversation with literally any guy." NIGGA are you fucking serious right now??? are you trying to piss me off bitch? why would u even talk to any other man if you're with ME. okay well theres that boyos, now here is the fucked part. Remember the guy I told you she commented on his ig post earlier, a week after me and her stop talking so like 1.5 weeks ago, 3 days ago she makes a tiktok with him in school dancing and she matched outfits with him the day before. hes such a sub5 cornball only thing that is good is he's 6'0, im 5'10, the girl is 4'11 jfl. he has no frame, no bones, nothing. hes hispanic aswell and blackpilled jfl. hes a loser, his friendgroup literally copies mine its so embarassing. she downgraded like fucking crazy, but she said they werent talking or texting when me and her were talking so its okay. i thought i finally found the one for me, she turned out to be a evil foid in the end. i let her keep my hoodie so when she see's it in her room she'll get reminded of me aka living rent free in her head. I unfollowed her on tiktok yesterday and unadded her on snap (took a lot of balls ngl), i was so attacthed to her maybe i just showed too much affection. i used to be a subhuman and never got attention from girls and recently past year I have been so I guess that is why i get attached easily. she gave me some BS saying she doesn't get avoidant with everyone just some people which is prolly bullshit idk. shes coping rn tho by moving on so fast to a degenerate loser. thought she was the girl for me, turns out no. Good to see a sign before i asked her out to be my girlfriend. people will say you cant be sad over this because yall never dated but dnr.

 

[Pxverr]

So basically me and this girl at my school started talking, we bonded pretty fast and had a strong connection. Things were going great for 3 weeks then I notice her commenting on a guys post " fit hard ngl " I confront her about it she then says their just mutual friends and there is nothing to worry about jfl. We will get back to that later in the thread. I give her one of my essential hoodies and she instantly wears it at school once I give it to her basically claiming me as hers etc, made an unprovoked tiktok in it saying "new fav hoodie ngl", but at night one day I went thru this bitches reposts and I find some shit about "avoidant attachment". Specifically captioned "when everything is going perfect but my avoidant attachment kicks in". I try to confront her about this and some other shit that night but her friend is apparently bawling her eyes out to her on ft so she couldn't call me. She said can you just text it and i was like id rather communicate and express my concerns/thoughts over the phone. I end up just sending voice notes to her rougly 5 voice notes 7 minutes in total about everything I noticed and my concerns right.. well now it gets interested brah. She replies to me with a big ass paragraph at 6;43 AM IN THE FUCKING MORNING. what a way to start my day nigga. I read all of it and these 3 things catch my eye. First she said "if your already overthinking this early then I want out." Mind you I was just trying to get her to re assure me she wasn't texting no other niggas. Secondly she mentions " I just like to be happy and nice to everyone and I guess i am subconsciously flirty with everyone and i dont realize it till my friends correct me." She said this cause I said "i hear your overly friendly w ngas", but HOLLON WHAT THE FUCK you mean subconsciously flirty nigga. JFL. Thirdly she gets mad at me because I said avoidant attachment is such fucking cope and not a real thing and oh boy did she get mad at that nigga. 4 sentences of her ranting on how its a real thing and she experiences it with her OWN FUCKING MOM. Thrid she says "imagine how bad it would be if we were dating and you saw me just having a conversation with literally any guy." NIGGA are you fucking serious right now??? are you trying to piss me off bitch? why would u even talk to any other man if you're with ME. okay well theres that boyos, now here is the fucked part. Remember the guy I told you she commented on his ig post earlier, a week after me and her stop talking so like 1.5 weeks ago, 3 days ago she makes a tiktok with him in school dancing and she matched outfits with him the day before. hes such a sub5 cornball only thing that is good is he's 6'0, im 5'10, the girl is 4'11 jfl. he has no frame, no bones, nothing. hes hispanic aswell and blackpilled jfl. hes a loser, his friendgroup literally copies mine its so embarassing. she downgraded like fucking crazy, but she said they werent talking or texting when me and her were talking so its okay. i thought i finally found the one for me, she turned out to be a evil foid in the end. i let her keep my hoodie so when she see's it in her room she'll get reminded of me aka living rent free in her head. I unfollowed her on tiktok yesterday and unadded her on snap (took a lot of balls ngl), i was so attacthed to her maybe i just showed too much affection. i used to be a subhuman and never got attention from girls and recently past year I have been so I guess that is why i get attached easily. she gave me some BS saying she doesn't get avoidant with everyone just some people which is prolly bullshit idk. shes coping rn tho by moving on so fast to a degenerate loser. thought she was the girl for me, turns out no. Good to see a sign before i asked her out to be my girlfriend. people will say you cant be sad over this because yall never dated but dnr.

I for sure DID read this paragraph

 

[Iblamegestationaldiabetes]

So basically me and this girl at my school started talking, we bonded pretty fast and had a strong connection. Things were going great for 3 weeks then I notice her commenting on a guys post " fit hard ngl " I confront her about it she then says their just mutual friends and there is nothing to worry about jfl. We will get back to that later in the thread. I give her one of my essential hoodies and she instantly wears it at school once I give it to her basically claiming me as hers etc, made an unprovoked tiktok in it saying "new fav hoodie ngl", but at night one day I went thru this bitches reposts and I find some shit about "avoidant attachment". Specifically captioned "when everything is going perfect but my avoidant attachment kicks in". I try to confront her about this and some other shit that night but her friend is apparently bawling her eyes out to her on ft so she couldn't call me. She said can you just text it and i was like id rather communicate and express my concerns/thoughts over the phone. I end up just sending voice notes to her rougly 5 voice notes 7 minutes in total about everything I noticed and my concerns right.. well now it gets interested brah. She replies to me with a big ass paragraph at 6;43 AM IN THE FUCKING MORNING. what a way to start my day nigga. I read all of it and these 3 things catch my eye. First she said "if your already overthinking this early then I want out." Mind you I was just trying to get her to re assure me she wasn't texting no other niggas. Secondly she mentions " I just like to be happy and nice to everyone and I guess i am subconsciously flirty with everyone and i dont realize it till my friends correct me." She said this cause I said "i hear your overly friendly w ngas", but HOLLON WHAT THE FUCK you mean subconsciously flirty nigga. JFL. Thirdly she gets mad at me because I said avoidant attachment is such fucking cope and not a real thing and oh boy did she get mad at that nigga. 4 sentences of her ranting on how its a real thing and she experiences it with her OWN FUCKING MOM. Thrid she says "imagine how bad it would be if we were dating and you saw me just having a conversation with literally any guy." NIGGA are you fucking serious right now??? are you trying to piss me off bitch? why would u even talk to any other man if you're with ME. okay well theres that boyos, now here is the fucked part. Remember the guy I told you she commented on his ig post earlier, a week after me and her stop talking so like 1.5 weeks ago, 3 days ago she makes a tiktok with him in school dancing and she matched outfits with him the day before. hes such a sub5 cornball only thing that is good is he's 6'0, im 5'10, the girl is 4'11 jfl. he has no frame, no bones, nothing. hes hispanic aswell and blackpilled jfl. hes a loser, his friendgroup literally copies mine its so embarassing. she downgraded like fucking crazy, but she said they werent talking or texting when me and her were talking so its okay. i thought i finally found the one for me, she turned out to be a evil foid in the end. i let her keep my hoodie so when she see's it in her room she'll get reminded of me aka living rent free in her head. I unfollowed her on tiktok yesterday and unadded her on snap (took a lot of balls ngl), i was so attacthed to her maybe i just showed too much affection. i used to be a subhuman and never got attention from girls and recently past year I have been so I guess that is why i get attached easily. she gave me some BS saying she doesn't get avoidant with everyone just some people which is prolly bullshit idk. shes coping rn tho by moving on so fast to a degenerate loser. thought she was the girl for me, turns out no. Good to see a sign before i asked her out to be my girlfriend. people will say you cant be sad over this because yall never dated but dnr.

Holy shit bruh I almost had the same experience as you last summer jfl

 

[bluesell]

So basically me and this girl at my school started talking, we bonded pretty fast and had a strong connection. Things were going great for 3 weeks then I notice her commenting on a guys post " fit hard ngl " I confront her about it she then says their just mutual friends and there is nothing to worry about jfl. We will get back to that later in the thread. I give her one of my essential hoodies and she instantly wears it at school once I give it to her basically claiming me as hers etc, made an unprovoked tiktok in it saying "new fav hoodie ngl", but at night one day I went thru this bitches reposts and I find some shit about "avoidant attachment". Specifically captioned "when everything is going perfect but my avoidant attachment kicks in". I try to confront her about this and some other shit that night but her friend is apparently bawling her eyes out to her on ft so she couldn't call me. She said can you just text it and i was like id rather communicate and express my concerns/thoughts over the phone. I end up just sending voice notes to her rougly 5 voice notes 7 minutes in total about everything I noticed and my concerns right.. well now it gets interested brah. She replies to me with a big ass paragraph at 6;43 AM IN THE FUCKING MORNING. what a way to start my day nigga. I read all of it and these 3 things catch my eye. First she said "if your already overthinking this early then I want out." Mind you I was just trying to get her to re assure me she wasn't texting no other niggas. Secondly she mentions " I just like to be happy and nice to everyone and I guess i am subconsciously flirty with everyone and i dont realize it till my friends correct me." She said this cause I said "i hear your overly friendly w ngas", but HOLLON WHAT THE FUCK you mean subconsciously flirty nigga. JFL. Thirdly she gets mad at me because I said avoidant attachment is such fucking cope and not a real thing and oh boy did she get mad at that nigga. 4 sentences of her ranting on how its a real thing and she experiences it with her OWN FUCKING MOM. Thrid she says "imagine how bad it would be if we were dating and you saw me just having a conversation with literally any guy." NIGGA are you fucking serious right now??? are you trying to piss me off bitch? why would u even talk to any other man if you're with ME. okay well theres that boyos, now here is the fucked part. Remember the guy I told you she commented on his ig post earlier, a week after me and her stop talking so like 1.5 weeks ago, 3 days ago she makes a tiktok with him in school dancing and she matched outfits with him the day before. hes such a sub5 cornball only thing that is good is he's 6'0, im 5'10, the girl is 4'11 jfl. he has no frame, no bones, nothing. hes hispanic aswell and blackpilled jfl. hes a loser, his friendgroup literally copies mine its so embarassing. she downgraded like fucking crazy, but she said they werent talking or texting when me and her were talking so its okay. i thought i finally found the one for me, she turned out to be a evil foid in the end. i let her keep my hoodie so when she see's it in her room she'll get reminded of me aka living rent free in her head. I unfollowed her on tiktok yesterday and unadded her on snap (took a lot of balls ngl), i was so attacthed to her maybe i just showed too much affection. i used to be a subhuman and never got attention from girls and recently past year I have been so I guess that is why i get attached easily. she gave me some BS saying she doesn't get avoidant with everyone just some people which is prolly bullshit idk. shes coping rn tho by moving on so fast to a degenerate loser. thought she was the girl for me, turns out no. Good to see a sign before i asked her out to be my girlfriend. people will say you cant be sad over this because yall never dated but dnr.

dnr

 

[666666666]

Dnr

 

[Aiphok]

So basically me and this girl at my school started talking, we bonded pretty fast and had a strong connection. Things were going great for 3 weeks then I notice her commenting on a guys post " fit hard ngl " I confront her about it she then says their just mutual friends and there is nothing to worry about jfl. We will get back to that later in the thread. I give her one of my essential hoodies and she instantly wears it at school once I give it to her basically claiming me as hers etc, made an unprovoked tiktok in it saying "new fav hoodie ngl", but at night one day I went thru this bitches reposts and I find some shit about "avoidant attachment". Specifically captioned "when everything is going perfect but my avoidant attachment kicks in". I try to confront her about this and some other shit that night but her friend is apparently bawling her eyes out to her on ft so she couldn't call me. She said can you just text it and i was like id rather communicate and express my concerns/thoughts over the phone. I end up just sending voice notes to her rougly 5 voice notes 7 minutes in total about everything I noticed and my concerns right.. well now it gets interested brah. She replies to me with a big ass paragraph at 6;43 AM IN THE FUCKING MORNING. what a way to start my day nigga. I read all of it and these 3 things catch my eye. First she said "if your already overthinking this early then I want out." Mind you I was just trying to get her to re assure me she wasn't texting no other niggas. Secondly she mentions " I just like to be happy and nice to everyone and I guess i am subconsciously flirty with everyone and i dont realize it till my friends correct me." She said this cause I said "i hear your overly friendly w ngas", but HOLLON WHAT THE FUCK you mean subconsciously flirty nigga. JFL. Thirdly she gets mad at me because I said avoidant attachment is such fucking cope and not a real thing and oh boy did she get mad at that nigga. 4 sentences of her ranting on how its a real thing and she experiences it with her OWN FUCKING MOM. Thrid she says "imagine how bad it would be if we were dating and you saw me just having a conversation with literally any guy." NIGGA are you fucking serious right now??? are you trying to piss me off bitch? why would u even talk to any other man if you're with ME. okay well theres that boyos, now here is the fucked part. Remember the guy I told you she commented on his ig post earlier, a week after me and her stop talking so like 1.5 weeks ago, 3 days ago she makes a tiktok with him in school dancing and she matched outfits with him the day before. hes such a sub5 cornball only thing that is good is he's 6'0, im 5'10, the girl is 4'11 jfl. he has no frame, no bones, nothing. hes hispanic aswell and blackpilled jfl. hes a loser, his friendgroup literally copies mine its so embarassing. she downgraded like fucking crazy, but she said they werent talking or texting when me and her were talking so its okay. i thought i finally found the one for me, she turned out to be a evil foid in the end. i let her keep my hoodie so when she see's it in her room she'll get reminded of me aka living rent free in her head. I unfollowed her on tiktok yesterday and unadded her on snap (took a lot of balls ngl), i was so attacthed to her maybe i just showed too much affection. i used to be a subhuman and never got attention from girls and recently past year I have been so I guess that is why i get attached easily. she gave me some BS saying she doesn't get avoidant with everyone just some people which is prolly bullshit idk. shes coping rn tho by moving on so fast to a degenerate loser. thought she was the girl for me, turns out no. Good to see a sign before i asked her out to be my girlfriend. people will say you cant be sad over this because yall never dated but dnr.

Surprisingly read this since I am currently dealing w an avoidant attachment girl on and off. Respect for leaving.

I'm detaching myself as well (it's her birthday today and I am NOT texting her). Thing with avoidants is that psychology says they come back when they realize they've lost you. They're scared of commitment and feeling "trapped" with someone, but they are also just as scared of losing someone because of their avoidant attachment (they blame the loss on something is wrong with their head, and that's what fucks them up the most and makes them want you even more). Deep down they know they are the issue, but don't know how to fix it (I think it is cope as well, but jfl)

 

[hippocamp]

I guess I'm subconsciously flirty with everyone

Yeah yk it's time to get out when you hear shit like this

 

[hippocamp]

So basically me and this girl at my school started talking, we bonded pretty fast and had a strong connection. Things were going great for 3 weeks then I notice her commenting on a guys post " fit hard ngl " I confront her about it she then says their just mutual friends and there is nothing to worry about jfl. We will get back to that later in the thread. I give her one of my essential hoodies and she instantly wears it at school once I give it to her basically claiming me as hers etc, made an unprovoked tiktok in it saying "new fav hoodie ngl", but at night one day I went thru this bitches reposts and I find some shit about "avoidant attachment". Specifically captioned "when everything is going perfect but my avoidant attachment kicks in". I try to confront her about this and some other shit that night but her friend is apparently bawling her eyes out to her on ft so she couldn't call me. She said can you just text it and i was like id rather communicate and express my concerns/thoughts over the phone. I end up just sending voice notes to her rougly 5 voice notes 7 minutes in total about everything I noticed and my concerns right.. well now it gets interested brah. She replies to me with a big ass paragraph at 6;43 AM IN THE FUCKING MORNING. what a way to start my day nigga. I read all of it and these 3 things catch my eye. First she said "if your already overthinking this early then I want out." Mind you I was just trying to get her to re assure me she wasn't texting no other niggas. Secondly she mentions " I just like to be happy and nice to everyone and I guess i am subconsciously flirty with everyone and i dont realize it till my friends correct me." She said this cause I said "i hear your overly friendly w ngas", but HOLLON WHAT THE FUCK you mean subconsciously flirty nigga. JFL. Thirdly she gets mad at me because I said avoidant attachment is such fucking cope and not a real thing and oh boy did she get mad at that nigga. 4 sentences of her ranting on how its a real thing and she experiences it with her OWN FUCKING MOM. Thrid she says "imagine how bad it would be if we were dating and you saw me just having a conversation with literally any guy." NIGGA are you fucking serious right now??? are you trying to piss me off bitch? why would u even talk to any other man if you're with ME. okay well theres that boyos, now here is the fucked part. Remember the guy I told you she commented on his ig post earlier, a week after me and her stop talking so like 1.5 weeks ago, 3 days ago she makes a tiktok with him in school dancing and she matched outfits with him the day before. hes such a sub5 cornball only thing that is good is he's 6'0, im 5'10, the girl is 4'11 jfl. he has no frame, no bones, nothing. hes hispanic aswell and blackpilled jfl. hes a loser, his friendgroup literally copies mine its so embarassing. she downgraded like fucking crazy, but she said they werent talking or texting when me and her were talking so its okay. i thought i finally found the one for me, she turned out to be a evil foid in the end. i let her keep my hoodie so when she see's it in her room she'll get reminded of me aka living rent free in her head. I unfollowed her on tiktok yesterday and unadded her on snap (took a lot of balls ngl), i was so attacthed to her maybe i just showed too much affection. i used to be a subhuman and never got attention from girls and recently past year I have been so I guess that is why i get attached easily. she gave me some BS saying she doesn't get avoidant with everyone just some people which is prolly bullshit idk. shes coping rn tho by moving on so fast to a degenerate loser. thought she was the girl for me, turns out no. Good to see a sign before i asked her out to be my girlfriend. people will say you cant be sad over this because yall never dated but dnr.

Avoidant attachment is a real thing BUT BUT BUT

most foids nowadays larp ts and use this to justify their shitty behaviour

 

[pioneerslayer01]

So basically me and this girl at my school started talking, we bonded pretty fast and had a strong connection. Things were going great for 3 weeks then I notice her commenting on a guys post " fit hard ngl " I confront her about it she then says their just mutual friends and there is nothing to worry about jfl. We will get back to that later in the thread. I give her one of my essential hoodies and she instantly wears it at school once I give it to her basically claiming me as hers etc, made an unprovoked tiktok in it saying "new fav hoodie ngl", but at night one day I went thru this bitches reposts and I find some shit about "avoidant attachment". Specifically captioned "when everything is going perfect but my avoidant attachment kicks in". I try to confront her about this and some other shit that night but her friend is apparently bawling her eyes out to her on ft so she couldn't call me. She said can you just text it and i was like id rather communicate and express my concerns/thoughts over the phone. I end up just sending voice notes to her rougly 5 voice notes 7 minutes in total about everything I noticed and my concerns right.. well now it gets interested brah. She replies to me with a big ass paragraph at 6;43 AM IN THE FUCKING MORNING. what a way to start my day nigga. I read all of it and these 3 things catch my eye. First she said "if your already overthinking this early then I want out." Mind you I was just trying to get her to re assure me she wasn't texting no other niggas. Secondly she mentions " I just like to be happy and nice to everyone and I guess i am subconsciously flirty with everyone and i dont realize it till my friends correct me." She said this cause I said "i hear your overly friendly w ngas", but HOLLON WHAT THE FUCK you mean subconsciously flirty nigga. JFL. Thirdly she gets mad at me because I said avoidant attachment is such fucking cope and not a real thing and oh boy did she get mad at that nigga. 4 sentences of her ranting on how its a real thing and she experiences it with her OWN FUCKING MOM. Thrid she says "imagine how bad it would be if we were dating and you saw me just having a conversation with literally any guy." NIGGA are you fucking serious right now??? are you trying to piss me off bitch? why would u even talk to any other man if you're with ME. okay well theres that boyos, now here is the fucked part. Remember the guy I told you she commented on his ig post earlier, a week after me and her stop talking so like 1.5 weeks ago, 3 days ago she makes a tiktok with him in school dancing and she matched outfits with him the day before. hes such a sub5 cornball only thing that is good is he's 6'0, im 5'10, the girl is 4'11 jfl. he has no frame, no bones, nothing. hes hispanic aswell and blackpilled jfl. hes a loser, his friendgroup literally copies mine its so embarassing. she downgraded like fucking crazy, but she said they werent talking or texting when me and her were talking so its okay. i thought i finally found the one for me, she turned out to be a evil foid in the end. i let her keep my hoodie so when she see's it in her room she'll get reminded of me aka living rent free in her head. I unfollowed her on tiktok yesterday and unadded her on snap (took a lot of balls ngl), i was so attacthed to her maybe i just showed too much affection. i used to be a subhuman and never got attention from girls and recently past year I have been so I guess that is why i get attached easily. she gave me some BS saying she doesn't get avoidant with everyone just some people which is prolly bullshit idk. shes coping rn tho by moving on so fast to a degenerate loser. thought she was the girl for me, turns out no. Good to see a sign before i asked her out to be my girlfriend. people will say you cant be sad over this because yall never dated but dnr.

i would rather leave than waste time on someone with that disorder plus high chance that u might get cucked in ur marriage IF she would even consider getting married. honestly bro during teen love i think its really stupid to grow super attached to people, ik its really hard, i went through it but the chance of getting married with your highschool talking stage/gf is really low

 

[the wizard]

So basically me and this girl at my school started talking, we bonded pretty fast and had a strong connection. Things were going great for 3 weeks then I notice her commenting on a guys post " fit hard ngl " I confront her about it she then says their just mutual friends and there is nothing to worry about jfl. We will get back to that later in the thread. I give her one of my essential hoodies and she instantly wears it at school once I give it to her basically claiming me as hers etc, made an unprovoked tiktok in it saying "new fav hoodie ngl", but at night one day I went thru this bitches reposts and I find some shit about "avoidant attachment". Specifically captioned "when everything is going perfect but my avoidant attachment kicks in". I try to confront her about this and some other shit that night but her friend is apparently bawling her eyes out to her on ft so she couldn't call me. She said can you just text it and i was like id rather communicate and express my concerns/thoughts over the phone. I end up just sending voice notes to her rougly 5 voice notes 7 minutes in total about everything I noticed and my concerns right.. well now it gets interested brah. She replies to me with a big ass paragraph at 6;43 AM IN THE FUCKING MORNING. what a way to start my day nigga. I read all of it and these 3 things catch my eye. First she said "if your already overthinking this early then I want out." Mind you I was just trying to get her to re assure me she wasn't texting no other niggas. Secondly she mentions " I just like to be happy and nice to everyone and I guess i am subconsciously flirty with everyone and i dont realize it till my friends correct me." She said this cause I said "i hear your overly friendly w ngas", but HOLLON WHAT THE FUCK you mean subconsciously flirty nigga. JFL. Thirdly she gets mad at me because I said avoidant attachment is such fucking cope and not a real thing and oh boy did she get mad at that nigga. 4 sentences of her ranting on how its a real thing and she experiences it with her OWN FUCKING MOM. Thrid she says "imagine how bad it would be if we were dating and you saw me just having a conversation with literally any guy." NIGGA are you fucking serious right now??? are you trying to piss me off bitch? why would u even talk to any other man if you're with ME. okay well theres that boyos, now here is the fucked part. Remember the guy I told you she commented on his ig post earlier, a week after me and her stop talking so like 1.5 weeks ago, 3 days ago she makes a tiktok with him in school dancing and she matched outfits with him the day before. hes such a sub5 cornball only thing that is good is he's 6'0, im 5'10, the girl is 4'11 jfl. he has no frame, no bones, nothing. hes hispanic aswell and blackpilled jfl. hes a loser, his friendgroup literally copies mine its so embarassing. she downgraded like fucking crazy, but she said they werent talking or texting when me and her were talking so its okay. i thought i finally found the one for me, she turned out to be a evil foid in the end. i let her keep my hoodie so when she see's it in her room she'll get reminded of me aka living rent free in her head. I unfollowed her on tiktok yesterday and unadded her on snap (took a lot of balls ngl), i was so attacthed to her maybe i just showed too much affection. i used to be a subhuman and never got attention from girls and recently past year I have been so I guess that is why i get attached easily. she gave me some BS saying she doesn't get avoidant with everyone just some people which is prolly bullshit idk. shes coping rn tho by moving on so fast to a degenerate loser. thought she was the girl for me, turns out no. Good to see a sign before i asked her out to be my girlfriend. people will say you cant be sad over this because yall never dated but dnr.

so ur getting cucked? jfl

 

[looksmin]

i would rather leave than waste time on someone with that disorder plus high chance that u might get cucked in ur marriage IF she would even consider getting married. honestly bro during teen love i think its really stupid to grow super attached to people, ik its really hard, i went through it but the chance of getting married with your highschool talking stage/gf is really low

yea same tbh I js normally link up w easy girls or girls ik but for some reason I was tryna take a real relationship serious but ggs

 

[looksmin]

so ur getting cucked? jfl

how we stopped talking jfl then she got w sum sub5

 

[looksmin]

Surprisingly read this since I am currently dealing w an avoidant attachment girl on and off. Respect for leaving.

I'm detaching myself as well (it's her birthday today and I am NOT texting her). Thing with avoidants is that psychology says they come back when they realize they've lost you. They're scared of commitment and feeling "trapped" with someone, but they are also just as scared of losing someone because of their avoidant attachment (they blame the loss on something is wrong with their head, and that's what fucks them up the most and makes them want you even more). Deep down they know they are the issue, but don't know how to fix it (I think it is cope as well, but jfl)

Deadass like it has to be cope bro, but it’s so hard to deal with so I’m praying for you brah . Respect to not texting her, I unadded her on snap gonna add her back in like 2 weeks time once she’s over that other nigga and see if I can js get to the buns cause it’s summer time not really tryna date anyone tbh ts would suck; also she was saying the same thing you said on how they’re scared to lose them and they feel trapped like it’s so weird just be normal imo jfl

 

[looksmin]

Yeah yk it's time to get out when you hear shit like this

ong that’s what me and all my hbs said

 

[the wizard]

how we stopped talking jfl then she got w sum sub5

yeah, she picked a sub5 over you, you got cucked bru

 

[the wizard]

ong that’s what me and all my hbs

foids are still shitty living beings tho, they don’t deserve human status

 

[looksmin]

yeah, she picked a sub5 over you, you got cucked bru

how boyo are u not hearing what I said, I ended things with her and 2 weeks later she pops out with a sub5

 

[the wizard]

how boyo are u not hearing what I said, I ended things with her and 2 weeks later she pops out with a sub5

dnr the article or this, ur wrote too much to tell us the same thing, that foids are shitty

 

[Sploinkus_]

im 5'10, the girl is 4'11 jfl.

stopped reading here. You can’t fuck that lil ass dog

 

[looksmin]

stopped reading here. You can’t fuck that lil ass dog

fucked the lil ass dog bro

 

[Aiphok]

Deadass like it has to be cope bro, but it’s so hard to deal with so I’m praying for you brah . Respect to not texting her, I unadded her on snap gonna add her back in like 2 weeks time once she’s over that other nigga and see if I can js get to the buns cause it’s summer time not really tryna date anyone tbh ts would suck; also she was saying the same thing you said on how they’re scared to lose them and they feel trapped like it’s so weird just be normal imo jfl

We in this shit together. Both either gonna get the girl or make her crazy she lost us

 

[Sploinkus_]

fucked the lil ass dog bro

Potentially dooming your own seed to a life as a manlet

Good for you though, a slay is a slay

 

[looksmin]

We in this shit together. Both either gonna get the girl or make her crazy she lost us

Hy brotha funny thing is she has my hoodie hanging up in her room, she definitely looks at it every day so in my head I’m winning. I’m sitting in her head rent free jfl

 

[Aiphok]

Hy brotha funny thing is she has my hoodie hanging up in her room, she definitely looks at it every day so in my head I’m winning. I’m sitting in her head rent free jfl

She has had my sweater since January as well

 

[HLTB Slayer]

So basically me and this girl at my school started talking, we bonded pretty fast and had a strong connection. Things were going great for 3 weeks then I notice her commenting on a guys post " fit hard ngl " I confront her about it she then says their just mutual friends and there is nothing to worry about jfl. We will get back to that later in the thread. I give her one of my essential hoodies and she instantly wears it at school once I give it to her basically claiming me as hers etc, made an unprovoked tiktok in it saying "new fav hoodie ngl", but at night one day I went thru this bitches reposts and I find some shit about "avoidant attachment". Specifically captioned "when everything is going perfect but my avoidant attachment kicks in". I try to confront her about this and some other shit that night but her friend is apparently bawling her eyes out to her on ft so she couldn't call me. She said can you just text it and i was like id rather communicate and express my concerns/thoughts over the phone. I end up just sending voice notes to her rougly 5 voice notes 7 minutes in total about everything I noticed and my concerns right.. well now it gets interested brah. She replies to me with a big ass paragraph at 6;43 AM IN THE FUCKING MORNING. what a way to start my day nigga. I read all of it and these 3 things catch my eye. First she said "if your already overthinking this early then I want out." Mind you I was just trying to get her to re assure me she wasn't texting no other niggas. Secondly she mentions " I just like to be happy and nice to everyone and I guess i am subconsciously flirty with everyone and i dont realize it till my friends correct me." She said this cause I said "i hear your overly friendly w ngas", but HOLLON WHAT THE FUCK you mean subconsciously flirty nigga. JFL. Thirdly she gets mad at me because I said avoidant attachment is such fucking cope and not a real thing and oh boy did she get mad at that nigga. 4 sentences of her ranting on how its a real thing and she experiences it with her OWN FUCKING MOM. Thrid she says "imagine how bad it would be if we were dating and you saw me just having a conversation with literally any guy." NIGGA are you fucking serious right now??? are you trying to piss me off bitch? why would u even talk to any other man if you're with ME. okay well theres that boyos, now here is the fucked part. Remember the guy I told you she commented on his ig post earlier, a week after me and her stop talking so like 1.5 weeks ago, 3 days ago she makes a tiktok with him in school dancing and she matched outfits with him the day before. hes such a sub5 cornball only thing that is good is he's 6'0, im 5'10, the girl is 4'11 jfl. he has no frame, no bones, nothing. hes hispanic aswell and blackpilled jfl. hes a loser, his friendgroup literally copies mine its so embarassing. she downgraded like fucking crazy, but she said they werent talking or texting when me and her were talking so its okay. i thought i finally found the one for me, she turned out to be a evil foid in the end. i let her keep my hoodie so when she see's it in her room she'll get reminded of me aka living rent free in her head. I unfollowed her on tiktok yesterday and unadded her on snap (took a lot of balls ngl), i was so attacthed to her maybe i just showed too much affection. i used to be a subhuman and never got attention from girls and recently past year I have been so I guess that is why i get attached easily. she gave me some BS saying she doesn't get avoidant with everyone just some people which is prolly bullshit idk. shes coping rn tho by moving on so fast to a degenerate loser. thought she was the girl for me, turns out no. Good to see a sign before i asked her out to be my girlfriend. people will say you cant be sad over this because yall never dated but dnr.

sorry not a single molecule

 

[looksmin]

She has had my sweater since January as well

we’re living rent free bro dw

 

[Jj61]

So basically me and this girl at my school started talking, we bonded pretty fast and had a strong connection. Things were going great for 3 weeks then I notice her commenting on a guys post " fit hard ngl " I confront her about it she then says their just mutual friends and there is nothing to worry about jfl. We will get back to that later in the thread. I give her one of my essential hoodies and she instantly wears it at school once I give it to her basically claiming me as hers etc, made an unprovoked tiktok in it saying "new fav hoodie ngl", but at night one day I went thru this bitches reposts and I find some shit about "avoidant attachment". Specifically captioned "when everything is going perfect but my avoidant attachment kicks in". I try to confront her about this and some other shit that night but her friend is apparently bawling her eyes out to her on ft so she couldn't call me. She said can you just text it and i was like id rather communicate and express my concerns/thoughts over the phone. I end up just sending voice notes to her rougly 5 voice notes 7 minutes in total about everything I noticed and my concerns right.. well now it gets interested brah. She replies to me with a big ass paragraph at 6;43 AM IN THE FUCKING MORNING. what a way to start my day nigga. I read all of it and these 3 things catch my eye. First she said "if your already overthinking this early then I want out." Mind you I was just trying to get her to re assure me she wasn't texting no other niggas. Secondly she mentions " I just like to be happy and nice to everyone and I guess i am subconsciously flirty with everyone and i dont realize it till my friends correct me." She said this cause I said "i hear your overly friendly w ngas", but HOLLON WHAT THE FUCK you mean subconsciously flirty nigga. JFL. Thirdly she gets mad at me because I said avoidant attachment is such fucking cope and not a real thing and oh boy did she get mad at that nigga. 4 sentences of her ranting on how its a real thing and she experiences it with her OWN FUCKING MOM. Thrid she says "imagine how bad it would be if we were dating and you saw me just having a conversation with literally any guy." NIGGA are you fucking serious right now??? are you trying to piss me off bitch? why would u even talk to any other man if you're with ME. okay well theres that boyos, now here is the fucked part. Remember the guy I told you she commented on his ig post earlier, a week after me and her stop talking so like 1.5 weeks ago, 3 days ago she makes a tiktok with him in school dancing and she matched outfits with him the day before. hes such a sub5 cornball only thing that is good is he's 6'0, im 5'10, the girl is 4'11 jfl. he has no frame, no bones, nothing. hes hispanic aswell and blackpilled jfl. hes a loser, his friendgroup literally copies mine its so embarassing. she downgraded like fucking crazy, but she said they werent talking or texting when me and her were talking so its okay. i thought i finally found the one for me, she turned out to be a evil foid in the end. i let her keep my hoodie so when she see's it in her room she'll get reminded of me aka living rent free in her head. I unfollowed her on tiktok yesterday and unadded her on snap (took a lot of balls ngl), i was so attacthed to her maybe i just showed too much affection. i used to be a subhuman and never got attention from girls and recently past year I have been so I guess that is why i get attached easily. she gave me some BS saying she doesn't get avoidant with everyone just some people which is prolly bullshit idk. shes coping rn tho by moving on so fast to a degenerate loser. thought she was the girl for me, turns out no. Good to see a sign before i asked her out to be my girlfriend. people will say you cant be sad over this because yall never dated but dnr.

Did read

Please make paragraphs next time

Honestly bro I think you overthought this wayyy to much, but this girl sounds like a whore so you dodged a bullet

 

[looksmin]

Did read

Please make paragraphs next time

Honestly bro I think you overthought this wayyy to much, but this girl sounds like a whore so you dodged a bullet

Igu my fault for not indenting was just ranting ngl, but yea I def dodged a bullet lol + summer is here