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Realising that looks matter
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I spiraled last night remembering what happened to me 4 years ago, I don’t talk about it or bring it up ever and I think that’s why it gets me so emotional. I still remember running through the camp cabins asking the others for help to lock the doors and stuff while 2 other people chased me around before grabbing me and kissing me after I said no I was straight. I remember telling my family and all they could say was “I don’t think anyone would ever want to kiss you”

Lookism is so prevalent in humanity you can’t even escape it from your own family, my own family didn’t believe me when I talked about it. I never brought it up again.

Happened again earlier this year, I was just talking to a girl and one of my mates just grabbed me, turned my head and kissed me. They had a partner too.

I confided with my closest friend last night about it. They didn’t believe me either. All they could say were “as if that would happen”, something along those lines. It made me spiral.

No one will ever believe anything happening to you if you aren’t attractive, no one will ever believe you if you aren’t conventionally attractive, all you can do is ascend and forget.

Your looks will matter, to everyone no matter how close you are.
 

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Toughen up, the next time you see this about to happen defend yourself aka hit them
If they can do that to you now, imagine if they want to rape you
 
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I spiraled last night remembering what happened to me 4 years ago, I don’t talk about it or bring it up ever and I think that’s why it gets me so emotional. I still remember running through the camp cabins asking the others for help to lock the doors and stuff while 2 other people chased me around before grabbing me and kissing me after I said no I was straight. I remember telling my family and all they could say was “I don’t think anyone would ever want to kiss you”

Lookism is so prevalent in humanity you can’t even escape it from your own family, my own family didn’t believe me when I talked about it. I never brought it up again.

Happened again earlier this year, I was just talking to a girl and one of my mates just grabbed me, turned my head and kissed me. They had a partner too.

I confided with my closest friend last night about it. They didn’t believe me either. All they could say were “as if that would happen”, something along those lines. It made me spiral.

No one will ever believe anything happening to you if you aren’t attractive, no one will ever believe you if you aren’t conventionally attractive, all you can do is ascend and forget.

Your looks will matter, to everyone no matter how close you are.
dnr but of course they do. Not as if its something shallow but if you're unattractive 90% of the time you're unhealthy/ with bad features and health indicators
 
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Toughen up, the next time you see this about to happen defend yourself aka hit them
If they can do that to you now, imagine if they want to rape you
Kinda why I train now, second time I don’t think she meant they meant to hurt me tho, which makes me even madder that I can’t be mad
 

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Kinda why I train now, second time I don’t think she meant they meant to hurt me tho, which makes me even madder that I can’t be mad
You're in a very bad position rn, please change that for yourself
 
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They abuse you like nothing, I don't know how the rest of your lifestyle is, but if they can do that without your consent, that says a lot about how you're perceived
 

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I spiraled last night remembering what happened to me 4 years ago, I don’t talk about it or bring it up ever and I think that’s why it gets me so emotional. I still remember running through the camp cabins asking the others for help to lock the doors and stuff while 2 other people chased me around before grabbing me and kissing me after I said no I was straight. I remember telling my family and all they could say was “I don’t think anyone would ever want to kiss you”

Lookism is so prevalent in humanity you can’t even escape it from your own family, my own family didn’t believe me when I talked about it. I never brought it up again.

Happened again earlier this year, I was just talking to a girl and one of my mates just grabbed me, turned my head and kissed me. They had a partner too.

I confided with my closest friend last night about it. They didn’t believe me either. All they could say were “as if that would happen”, something along those lines. It made me spiral.

No one will ever believe anything happening to you if you aren’t attractive, no one will ever believe you if you aren’t conventionally attractive, all you can do is ascend and forget.

Your looks will matter, to everyone no matter how close you are.
fuck i thought it was gonna be somthing retarded from the title
im sorry that happend to you, if you ever wanna vent im here for you
 

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