My brain is constantly stuck in 'survival mode', and I need to switch to dominance mode. For example, if I am ever confronted, I would focus only on ending the issue as swiftly as possible. So is it pussying or being the better man? Now, I grew up in the more unfortunate parts of my city and have no gangs with my ethnicity to rely on for protection. My issue is entirely mental and could be related to hormonal issues because of genetics. Please help.

