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Man i realized approaching foids IS fools game The risk of getting rejected which Hurts unbearably IS way too high

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Man i realized approaching foids IS fools game



The risk of getting rejected which Hurts unbearably IS way too high



ITS simple: If Ur afraid to approach Ur mind has calculated the risk of rejection to be extreme, Not Worth it
 

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Man i realized approaching foids IS fools game



The risk of getting rejected which Hurts unbearably IS way too high



ITS simple: If Ur afraid to approach Ur mind has calculated the risk of rejection to be extreme, Not Worth it
Rejection isn’t as bad as you make it out to be. It’s not personal if they don’t know you well, it’s really just first impressions when you approach so you don’t have to feel that upset since you don’t know each other. It’s 100x worse to get rejected by a girl you have been eyeing for a long time.
 

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Rejection isn’t as bad as you make it out to be. It’s not personal if they don’t know you well, it’s really just first impressions when you approach so you don’t have to feel that upset since you don’t know each other. It’s 100x worse to get rejected by a girl you have been eyeing for a long time.
It depends on who I am approaching, if its the girl that I want to be my wife its a lot harder then some skank at a club.
 

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Man i realized approaching foids IS fools game



The risk of getting rejected which Hurts unbearably IS way too high



ITS simple: If Ur afraid to approach Ur mind has calculated the risk of rejection to be extreme, Not Worth it
Does this mean you actually cold approached?
 

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Does this mean you actually cold approached?
A little, I tried but realized either every girl I didnt acc like or I was too scared to, women who I am afraid to cold approach I need to warm approach.
 

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It depends on who I am approaching, if its the girl that I want to be my wife its a lot harder then some skank at a club.
Exactly this. Although I think a girl who you would wife up should be someone who is your friend or aquaintence. High risk if you get rejected high reward if you don’t because you will know her super well. I’m mainly saying that if ur approaching random Becky’s don’t expect too much, you don’t know them and when you get to know them it may not even be worth it for you to make a commitment to her after you get to know her romantically. If ur looking for a wife, best thing to do is find her thru mutual connections. Otherwise if you’re looking to date or don’t mind rejecting the girl after getting to know her romantically if she isn’t fit for you then approach is fantastic in my opinion.

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I think a girl who you would wife up should be someone who is your friend or aquaintence. High risk if you get rejected high reward if you don’t because you will know her super well. If ur looking for a wife, best thing to do is find her thru mutual connections.

:dicapriocheers:
women who I am afraid to cold approach I need to warm approach.
 

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the ones I am afraid to are the ones I want something serious with
 

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A little, I tried but realized either every girl I didnt acc like or I was too scared to, women who I am afraid to cold approach I need to warm approach.
We should vc soon on the server, I have some ideas for help. I reckon I could give some advice.
 

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Rejection isn’t as bad as you make it out to be. It’s not personal if they don’t know you well, it’s really just first impressions when you approach so you don’t have to feel that upset since you don’t know each other. It’s 100x worse to get rejected by a girl you have been eyeing for a long time.
I have autism and I remember some guy whom I was ‘friends with’ easily influenced me into asking a girl I liked out and she just rejected me so the ‘friend’ went around and told the whole year :banderas: that was like 4 years ago though when I was like 4 foot
 

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I have autism and I remember some guy whom I was ‘friends with’ easily influenced me into asking a girl I liked out and she just rejected me so the ‘friend’ went around and told the whole year :banderas: that was like 4 years ago though when I was like 4 foot
That’s brutal bro I’m sorry for that. I’m not neurodivergent in any way so I wouldn’t know how that is. Hope u recovered from that shit
 

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That’s brutal bro I’m sorry for that. I’m not neurodivergent in any way so I wouldn’t know how that is. Hope u recovered from that shit
Yeah I was bullied for like 5 years of school and just moved school because of how bad it was, new School is like 10x easier, could be in because of my height and that I’m not so energetic anymore
 
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