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I'm literally trying to do everything to get my mind off her but no matter what i do she's still there.
Anyway, she will not give me a fucking break. All I'm doing is slowly cutting off contact with her by leaving her on delivered/opened on all platforms. As soon as i woke up today, she instantly hits me with like 5 texts to which i don't respond and just leave her on opened. An hour or so later she starts spamming my phone with purple snaps, voice notes, and even more messages. BARE IN MIND WE HAVEN'T SPOKE FOR LITERAL HOURS, IT'S NOT EVEN BEEN A DAY. Also mentioning the fact how she "stopped talking to the guy". However this time, i reply. I was very dry and I know I shouldn't of responded but for some reason I did. I ended the conversation asap if you could even call it a conversation jfl. It's now around 9pm over here and she's starting to message me on other social platforms because I'm not responding to her on snap.
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Please, just give it a rest for fucks sake and leave me alone already. :feelsrope:

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i told you to send her the gandy dnr
 

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stay dry for the rest of your time talking with her

she’ll never get you back to how you were before she fucked it up, so she’ll start to do anything to get back to that stage

and then you can slay
 

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I'm literally trying to do everything to get my mind off her but no matter what i do she's still there.
Anyway, she will not give me a fucking break. All I'm doing is slowly cutting off contact with her by leaving her on delivered/opened on all platforms. As soon as i woke up today, she instantly hits me with like 5 texts to which i don't respond and just leave her on opened. An hour or so later she starts spamming my phone with purple snaps, voice notes, and even more messages. BARE IN MIND WE HAVEN'T SPOKE FOR LITERAL HOURS, IT'S NOT EVEN BEEN A DAY. Also mentioning the fact how she "stopped talking to the guy". However this time, i reply. I was very dry and I know I shouldn't of responded but for some reason I did. I ended the conversation asap if you could even call it a conversation jfl. It's now around 9pm over here and she's starting to message me on other social platforms because I'm not responding to her on snap.
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Please, just give it a rest for fucks sake and leave me alone already. :feelsrope:

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Lol
 

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stay dry for the rest of your time talking with her

she’ll never get you back to how you were before she fucked it up, so she’ll start to do anything to get back to that stage

and then you can slay
will do. good plan you got bhai :ohhhh:
 

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I'm literally trying to do everything to get my mind off her but no matter what i do she's still there.
Anyway, she will not give me a fucking break. All I'm doing is slowly cutting off contact with her by leaving her on delivered/opened on all platforms. As soon as i woke up today, she instantly hits me with like 5 texts to which i don't respond and just leave her on opened. An hour or so later she starts spamming my phone with purple snaps, voice notes, and even more messages. BARE IN MIND WE HAVEN'T SPOKE FOR LITERAL HOURS, IT'S NOT EVEN BEEN A DAY. Also mentioning the fact how she "stopped talking to the guy". However this time, i reply. I was very dry and I know I shouldn't of responded but for some reason I did. I ended the conversation asap if you could even call it a conversation jfl. It's now around 9pm over here and she's starting to message me on other social platforms because I'm not responding to her on snap.
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Please, just give it a rest for fucks sake and leave me alone already. :feelsrope:

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Fucking penisvampire
 
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I'm literally trying to do everything to get my mind off her but no matter what i do she's still there.
Anyway, she will not give me a fucking break. All I'm doing is slowly cutting off contact with her by leaving her on delivered/opened on all platforms. As soon as i woke up today, she instantly hits me with like 5 texts to which i don't respond and just leave her on opened. An hour or so later she starts spamming my phone with purple snaps, voice notes, and even more messages. BARE IN MIND WE HAVEN'T SPOKE FOR LITERAL HOURS, IT'S NOT EVEN BEEN A DAY. Also mentioning the fact how she "stopped talking to the guy". However this time, i reply. I was very dry and I know I shouldn't of responded but for some reason I did. I ended the conversation asap if you could even call it a conversation jfl. It's now around 9pm over here and she's starting to message me on other social platforms because I'm not responding to her on snap.
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Please, just give it a rest for fucks sake and leave me alone already. :feelsrope:

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just dnr that bitch and eventually she we will just stop
 

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I'm literally trying to do everything to get my mind off her but no matter what i do she's still there.
Anyway, she will not give me a fucking break. All I'm doing is slowly cutting off contact with her by leaving her on delivered/opened on all platforms. As soon as i woke up today, she instantly hits me with like 5 texts to which i don't respond and just leave her on opened. An hour or so later she starts spamming my phone with purple snaps, voice notes, and even more messages. BARE IN MIND WE HAVEN'T SPOKE FOR LITERAL HOURS, IT'S NOT EVEN BEEN A DAY. Also mentioning the fact how she "stopped talking to the guy". However this time, i reply. I was very dry and I know I shouldn't of responded but for some reason I did. I ended the conversation asap if you could even call it a conversation jfl. It's now around 9pm over here and she's starting to message me on other social platforms because I'm not responding to her on snap.
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Please, just give it a rest for fucks sake and leave me alone already. :feelsrope:

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Why you didnt want to date her again
 

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Why you didnt want to date her again
i just got tired of chasing after her and her basically just playing with my feelings; one day we're in bed together as she's laying in my arms and the other day its zero reciprocation from her whatsoever.
 

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i just got tired of chasing after her and her basically just playing with my feelings; one day we're in bed together as she's laying in my arms and the other day its zero reciprocation from her whatsoever.
Shes just trying to lovebomb you because shes immature but i think she truly want you especially if she talked about you to her mom and now shes panicking because shes losing you give it a try and set your boundaries clear
 

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Yeah you should probably just keep leaving her on seen or delivered
 

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Shes just trying to lovebomb you because shes immature but i think she truly want you especially if she talked about you to her mom and now shes panicking because shes losing you give it a try and set your boundaries clear
but the thing is, if its in my favour now why dont i show her zero reciprocation back like she did with me hoping that it works out better for me?
i'll probably give it some time and distance myself even more just to see.
 

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but the thing is, if its in my favour now why dont i show her zero reciprocation back like she did with me hoping that it works out better for me?
i'll probably give it some time and distance myself even more just to see.
Because shell hate you after im not saying to simp for her or anything just explain how you feel set your boundaries and take it from here a lot of teenage girls still get influenced by bs and act like shit because they dont know any better while being a good person
 

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Because shell hate you after im not saying to simp for her or anything just explain how you feel set your boundaries and take it from here a lot of teenage girls still get influenced by bs and act like shit because they dont know any better while being a good person
makes sense, but once again i think i'll give it a bit more time before making everything clear.
and holy fuck you should see how bad "juggernaut's" influence really is on her.
 

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PLEASE BRO MAKE IT STOP OH MY FUCKING GOD SHES SPAMMING MY PHONE AGAIN WITH TIKTOKS, SNAPS, MESSAGES ETC.
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PLEASE BRO MAKE IT STOP OH MY FUCKING GOD SHES SPAMMING MY PHONE AGAIN WITH TIKTOKS, SNAPS, MESSAGES ETC.
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She wants you just say we have to talk meet me there say nothing else then just explain how you feel and set boundaries and listen to what she has to say and take it from there
 

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She wants you just say we have to talk meet me there say nothing else then just explain how you feel and set boundaries and listen to what she has to say and take it from there
i mean i guess. i'll see if i can arrange something maybe next weekend after the first week of exams.
 

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she sent me like 10 tiktok’s and i’ve looked through them, obviously with no response. but, one of them was captioned “me and my hb that’s like a brother” :banderas:
since when do you let your brother bury his face in your tits, sleep together while holding each other tight and also dry hump him????
yeah she’s actually getting blocked fr now gg
 

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wait i’m going shower now but there’s even more to update on, i will do so once i’m done.
 

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she sent me like 10 tiktok’s and i’ve looked through them, obviously with no response. but, one of them was captioned “me and my hb that’s like a brother” :banderas:
since when do you let your brother bury his face in your tits, sleep together while holding each other tight and also dry hump him????
yeah she’s actually getting blocked fr now gg
Nigga cant take a joke bro stop overreacting all of my situationship teased me abt some shit like calling me weak or short shes just teasing you kinda like when you tell your friend that hes a bitch stop taking everything seriously.On some real shit she problably like you a lot but your inexperienced so you dont know how to handle things like this do what i told you to do before its too late the earlier the better and send me the update
 

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imagine her taking a shit or smt
 

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Nigga cant take a joke bro stop overreacting all of my situationship teased me abt some shit like calling me weak or short shes just teasing you kinda like when you tell your friend that hes a bitch stop taking everything seriously.On some real shit she problably like you a lot but your inexperienced so you dont know how to handle things like this do what i told you to do before its too late the earlier the better and send me the update
every time somebody talks about a girl telling them "theyre like a brother" apparently its an instant friendzone. its just that quite literally every single signal im getting from her is mixed. once again shes spamming my phone with messages now. but she sent me loads of tiktoks with captions like "i hate when people say having a boy bsf is weird, because mines literally girly pop" "one day you'll realize you have the coolest hb ever, its important you never tell him though" "me and that guy i forced to be my friend" "me and my hb thats like a brother to me" "how he probably reacts when he gets my notification" "me and my hb cz hes my twin"
i just cant be bothered upholding whatever we have going on anymore.
 

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every time somebody talks about a girl telling them "theyre like a brother" apparently its an instant friendzone. its just that quite literally every single signal im getting from her is mixed. once again shes spamming my phone with messages now. but she sent me loads of tiktoks with captions like "i hate when people say having a boy bsf is weird, because mines literally girly pop" "one day you'll realize you have the coolest hb ever, its important you never tell him though" "me and that guy i forced to be my friend" "me and my hb thats like a brother to me" "how he probably reacts when he gets my notification" "me and my hb cz hes my twin"
i just cant be bothered upholding whatever we have going on anymore.
+ do i open her voice messages or do i leave her on delivered
 

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+ do i open her voice messages or do i leave her on delivered
Dude just open and listen and do what i told you
every time somebody talks about a girl telling them "theyre like a brother" apparently its an instant friendzone. its just that quite literally every single signal im getting from her is mixed. once again shes spamming my phone with messages now. but she sent me loads of tiktoks with captions like "i hate when people say having a boy bsf is weird, because mines literally girly pop" "one day you'll realize you have the coolest hb ever, its important you never tell him though" "me and that guy i forced to be my friend" "me and my hb thats like a brother to me" "how he probably reacts when he gets my notification" "me and my hb cz hes my twin"
i just cant be bothered upholding whatever we have going on anymore.
theyre retards plenty of time girls teased me by saying i am like a brother to her and i was pounding her 2 hours later
 

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Dude just open and listen and do what i told you

theyre retards plenty of time girls teased me by saying i am like a brother to her and i was pounding her 2 hours later
she said "i dont know what youre doing but you have to reply to the loveable tiktoks im sending you" in her voice note
bro is it really not clear i cant be bothered doing this anymore
 

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she said "i dont know what youre doing but you have to reply to the lovable tiktoks im sending you" in her voice note
bro is it really not clear i cant be bothered doing this anymore
Litterally textbook teasing she likes u its clear asf try to meet her tday or tmrw and also answer in a joking way like dont take it seriously flirt by using her tease and its in the bag
 

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Litterally textbook teasing she likes u its clear asf try to meet her tday or tmrw and also answer in a joking way like dont take it seriously flirt by using her tease and its in the bag
i told her i wasnt gonna be able to meet her or speak to her for 4-5 weeks due to exams and then she instantly sounded sad in her next voice note.
like every single signal is mixed and i actually cant be bothered anymore. its either i listen to you or to Syna Syna
 

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deadass just make it stop, i would much rather go to a different girl at this point.
 

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I'm literally trying to do everything to get my mind off her but no matter what i do she's still there.
Anyway, she will not give me a fucking break. All I'm doing is slowly cutting off contact with her by leaving her on delivered/opened on all platforms. As soon as i woke up today, she instantly hits me with like 5 texts to which i don't respond and just leave her on opened. An hour or so later she starts spamming my phone with purple snaps, voice notes, and even more messages. BARE IN MIND WE HAVEN'T SPOKE FOR LITERAL HOURS, IT'S NOT EVEN BEEN A DAY. Also mentioning the fact how she "stopped talking to the guy". However this time, i reply. I was very dry and I know I shouldn't of responded but for some reason I did. I ended the conversation asap if you could even call it a conversation jfl. It's now around 9pm over here and she's starting to message me on other social platforms because I'm not responding to her on snap.
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Please, just give it a rest for fucks sake and leave me alone already. :feelsrope:

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bro🤣 all foods do this bs
 

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i told her i wasnt gonna be able to meet her or speak to her for 4-5 weeks due to exams and then she instantly sounded sad in her next voice note.
like every single signal is mixed and i actually cant be bothered anymore. its either i listen to you or to Syna Syna
Listen to me nigga ik how it goes stop overthinking and being insecure asf and bitchy im telling you she likes you and shes just teasing you stop acting insecure flirt and tease her too and get that slay
 

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Listen to me nigga ik how it goes stop overthinking and being insecure asf and bitchy im telling you she likes you and shes just teasing you stop acting insecure flirt and tease her too and get that slay
Send me the ss of the messages on here on on dc so my guidance can be more precise
 

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Listen to me nigga ik how it goes stop overthinking and being insecure asf and bitchy im telling you she likes you and shes just teasing you stop acting insecure flirt and tease her too and get that slay
i guess. every time i get close to slaying she ends up being hella dry the next day it makes no sense.
 

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Why am i always somehow late to your updates?
I was eepy and i fell asleep 😴

Atp i think you should straight up tell her to leave you be.
 

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