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Serious idk how to make the first step with girls, can some1 help me? (1 Viewer)

Serious idk how to make the first step with girls, can some1 help me?

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Well if for example im talking with a girl and we usually have casual talks (with a girl that doesnt find me disgusting) i dont know how to make the first step to try if i have any chances with her, with my ex girlfriend i made the first step but maybe too late, it was pretty hard to me, idk how some mfs that looks uglier than me can do it so fast and have an relationship with a girl in less than 1/2weeks
 

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Well if for example im talking with a girl and we usually have casual talks (with a girl that doesnt find me disgusting) i dont know how to make the first step to try if i have any chances with her, with my ex girlfriend i made the first step but maybe too late, it was pretty hard to me, idk how some mfs that looks uglier than me can do it so fast and have an relationship with a girl in less than 1/2weeks
Ask her to hangout nigga
 

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blind leading the blind
 

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THE WAY I DID IT WITH MY INITIAL LOVE INTEREST:

Sit with her on the same bench.
Gently grab her chin, smiling at her.
Nonverbally invite her to hold your hands while sitting together.
like this:
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Up yo test
 

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THE WAY I DID IT WITH MY INITIAL LOVE INTEREST:

Sit with her on the same bench.
Gently grab her chin, smiling at her.
Nonverbally invite her to hold your hands while sitting together.
like this:
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OP will get locked away for life.
 

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OP will get locked away for life.
you're just too pussy
you aren't getting locked up if you aren't forcing it

I used to hold hands with 4 girls at that time, and no one said anything because of plausible deniability.
Some of them started to fall for me and made those proposals "pranks" then immediately backed out before I could answer, to avoid embarrassment.
some just initiate more touch like cheek touch while sitting.
This is expected because schoolgirls are also dealing with hormonal changes and limited self-regulation.
If this doesn't work, it never began.
 

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you're just too pussy
you aren't getting locked up if you aren't forcing it

I used to hold hands with 4 girls at that time, and no one said anything because of plausible deniability.
Some of them started to fall for me and made those proposals "pranks" then immediately backed out before I could answer, to avoid embarrassment.
some just initiate more touch like cheek touch while sitting.
This is expected because schoolgirls are also dealing with hormonal changes and limited self-regulation.
If this doesn't work, it never began.
explain more and what other things u did? and how
 
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THE WAY I DID IT WITH MY INITIAL LOVE INTEREST:

Sit with her on the same bench.
Gently grab her chin, smiling at her.
Nonverbally invite her to hold your hands while sitting together.
like this:
View attachment 21970
That only works in primary school
 

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you're just too pussy
you aren't getting locked up if you aren't forcing it

I used to hold hands with 4 girls at that time, and no one said anything because of plausible deniability.
Some of them started to fall for me and made those proposals "pranks" then immediately backed out before I could answer, to avoid embarrassment.
some just initiate more touch like cheek touch while sitting.
This is expected because schoolgirls are also dealing with hormonal changes and limited self-regulation.
If this doesn't work, it never began.
The joke was OP is subhuman and will get done for sexual assault if he dare approach a woman :banderas:
 
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