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Serious I think the kind of love most people in this forum are looking for is a total waste of time (1 Viewer)

Serious I think the kind of love most people in this forum are looking for is a total waste of time

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From my perspective, I feel like everyone is so obsessed with looks because they’re just chasing a 'Stacy' or a 'Chad' but does that actually matter in the end?

Love (that intense romantic passion) only lasts between 7 months to two years at most. After that, you start seeing their flaws and they begin to feel ordinary; the spark just fades. This is a natural human process. After a while in any relationship, you lose that 'rush' and get used to everything the intimacy, and even the way they look.

"Evolutionary psychology studies suggest that physical attraction is influenced by what’s known as the 'Coolidge Effect.' This is the tendency among mammals primarily males, and to a lesser extent, females—to lose sexual interest in a familiar partner and feel a drive toward new ones. In humans, this instinct is often suppressed by emotions and social values, but biologically speaking, 'habituation to looks' is a proven fact.

The whole thing is a waste of time. Take care of yourself, but don't go overboard with it
 

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dnr fully but i agree with this a little
 

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what do you think?
i agree that its a waste to only date for lust and stuff but i understand how some ppl rather that
 

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Monogamy is a social construct
 

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good thread, but i think a lot of people here are looking for lust not real love

just fucking or whoring around while slaying ig
 

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love is one of those things where its like a ape trying to understand neuroscience
 

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From my perspective, I feel like everyone is so obsessed with looks because they’re just chasing a 'Stacy' or a 'Chad' but does that actually matter in the end?

Love (that intense romantic passion) only lasts between 7 months to two years at most. After that, you start seeing their flaws and they begin to feel ordinary; the spark just fades. This is a natural human process. After a while in any relationship, you lose that 'rush' and get used to everything the intimacy, and even the way they look.

"Evolutionary psychology studies suggest that physical attraction is influenced by what’s known as the 'Coolidge Effect.' This is the tendency among mammals primarily males, and to a lesser extent, females—to lose sexual interest in a familiar partner and feel a drive toward new ones. In humans, this instinct is often suppressed by emotions and social values, but biologically speaking, 'habituation to looks' is a proven fact.

The whole thing is a waste of time. Take care of yourself, but don't go overboard with it
That's why we're all gay and shave half our facial hair so we can perfectly fit it with our hbs facial hair while we kiss (it's like gay Legos)
 

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Dnr I’m looking for nothing idk about you guys
 

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i refuse to date anyone below stacylite
 

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True love only lasts a few months for me; then I want to kill the bitch.
 

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i just need pussy bro not love
 

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From my perspective, I feel like everyone is so obsessed with looks because they’re just chasing a 'Stacy' or a 'Chad' but does that actually matter in the end?

Love (that intense romantic passion) only lasts between 7 months to two years at most. After that, you start seeing their flaws and they begin to feel ordinary; the spark just fades. This is a natural human process. After a while in any relationship, you lose that 'rush' and get used to everything the intimacy, and even the way they look.

"Evolutionary psychology studies suggest that physical attraction is influenced by what’s known as the 'Coolidge Effect.' This is the tendency among mammals primarily males, and to a lesser extent, females—to lose sexual interest in a familiar partner and feel a drive toward new ones. In humans, this instinct is often suppressed by emotions and social values, but biologically speaking, 'habituation to looks' is a proven fact.

The whole thing is a waste of time. Take care of yourself, but don't go overboard with it
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Read the whole thing 100% truth
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Fuck off coward cuck
 

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From my perspective, I feel like everyone is so obsessed with looks because they’re just chasing a 'Stacy' or a 'Chad' but does that actually matter in the end?

Love (that intense romantic passion) only lasts between 7 months to two years at most. After that, you start seeing their flaws and they begin to feel ordinary; the spark just fades. This is a natural human process. After a while in any relationship, you lose that 'rush' and get used to everything the intimacy, and even the way they look.

"Evolutionary psychology studies suggest that physical attraction is influenced by what’s known as the 'Coolidge Effect.' This is the tendency among mammals primarily males, and to a lesser extent, females—to lose sexual interest in a familiar partner and feel a drive toward new ones. In humans, this instinct is often suppressed by emotions and social values, but biologically speaking, 'habituation to looks' is a proven fact.

The whole thing is a waste of time. Take care of yourself, but don't go overboard with it
Everyone knows it doesn’t matter at the end
We just wanna know how it feels to like get a gf or have girls chasing you and everyone wants to be friends with you
Everyone wants to feel dominant and validated and when u dont get to expierence that and continue a boring life it can really get to you in a very nasty way
 

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Bro i don't want a stacylite i just want cute nerdy girls like meganfox
 

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Bro i don't want a stacylite i just want cute nerdy girls like meganfox
nothing overly attractive, just someone like megan fox
 

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stacylite refuse to day anyone below chadlite tho
i can name like 5 victorias secret models that went for a broke mtn
 

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From my perspective, I feel like everyone is so obsessed with looks because they’re just chasing a 'Stacy' or a 'Chad' but does that actually matter in the end?

Love (that intense romantic passion) only lasts between 7 months to two years at most. After that, you start seeing their flaws and they begin to feel ordinary; the spark just fades. This is a natural human process. After a while in any relationship, you lose that 'rush' and get used to everything the intimacy, and even the way they look.

"Evolutionary psychology studies suggest that physical attraction is influenced by what’s known as the 'Coolidge Effect.' This is the tendency among mammals primarily males, and to a lesser extent, females—to lose sexual interest in a familiar partner and feel a drive toward new ones. In humans, this instinct is often suppressed by emotions and social values, but biologically speaking, 'habituation to looks' is a proven fact.

The whole thing is a waste of time. Take care of yourself, but don't go overboard with it
i mean most of the people on this forum are young and they know that its unlikely their early on partners will be long term so they try to have fun but honestly for most guys nowadays they start liking a random girl over the smallest interaction so i agree because most relationships lose the spark after a while
 

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