Venting I still sleep with a plushie (30 Viewers)

[Judenbänker]

Its a white tiger plushie I got when my parents broke up and my dad moved out and I cant sleep without it since. I've had a replacement plushie for some months during a time where I couldnt find it but that one I used in another context normally and thats why it didnt fit my everyday sleeping, Im aware this is extremely unmanly and Im afraid of telling my boyfriend. I dont think I can just sleep without it but trying to justify it with le mental health wouldnt be a good idea either I think because every single time I've somehow mentioned my mental health he always seemed a bit annoyed. Im not sure if he's just turned off by it or can't really comprehend what I mean because he's autistic. Any ideas how to deal with this? I wanted to tell him some days ago but i was too much of a pussy

 

[Judenbänker]

@sensitive sapphire ?

 

[Harpy]

Its a white tiger plushie I got when my parents broke up and my dad moved out and I cant sleep without it since. I've had a replacement plushie for some months during a time where I couldnt find it but that one I used in another context normally and thats why it didnt fit my everyday sleeping, Im aware this is extremely unmanly and Im afraid of telling my boyfriend. I dont think I can just sleep without it but trying to justify it with le mental health wouldnt be a good idea either I think because every single time I've somehow mentioned my mental health he always seemed a bit annoyed. Im not sure if he's just turned off by it or can't really comprehend what I mean because he's autistic. Any ideas how to deal with this? I wanted to tell him some days ago but i was too much of a pussy

I also can't sleep without nigga what fym boyfriend

 

[Judenbänker]

I also can't sleep without nigga

Yeah that sucks

what fym boyfriend

A boyfriend is a male in a relationship

 

[Razi]

fym boyfriend

His lover that is a boy

 

[Harpy]

His lover that is a boy

Uhuh. I wouldn't publish that here

 

[Razi]

Uhuh. I wouldn't publish that here

Why

 

[Judenbänker]

Any ideas how to deal with this?

@sensitive sapphire

 

[sensitive sapphire]

i started to sleep with a white bear plushie that used to belong to my aunt around a yeare ago. tbh ive never been in a relationship so i dont really know how u can talk to him, but try to sit down and have a genuine heart to heart with him and tell him how importent it is for u and how much you are attached to it

 

[Judenbänker]

Uhuh. I wouldn't publish that here

Genuinely less people gaf than you would think

 

[Razi]

Make him the plushy

 

[Judenbänker]

i started to sleep with a white beer plushie that used to belong to my aunt around a yeare ago. tbh ive never been in a relationship so i dont really know how u can talk to him, but try to sit down and have a genuine heart to heart with him and tell him how importent it is for u and how much you are attached to it

I will thank you
White plushie buddies :))

 

[Judenbänker]

Make him the plushy

I feel unwell with constant body contact

 

[Harpy]

Its a white tiger plushie I got when my parents broke up and my dad moved out and I cant sleep without it since. I've had a replacement plushie for some months during a time where I couldnt find it but that one I used in another context normally and thats why it didnt fit my everyday sleeping, Im aware this is extremely unmanly and Im afraid of telling my boyfriend. I dont think I can just sleep without it but trying to justify it with le mental health wouldnt be a good idea either I think because every single time I've somehow mentioned my mental health he always seemed a bit annoyed. Im not sure if he's just turned off by it or can't really comprehend what I mean because he's autistic. Any ideas how to deal with this? I wanted to tell him some days ago but i was too much of a pussy

Just tell him. I don't really think it'll turn into anything big. He'll likely brush it off

 

[Judenbänker]

Just tell him. I don't really think it'll turn into anything big. He'll likely brush it off

I dont really know
Some weeks after I had told him my parents never married we had an argument and he called me a bastard and said how disgusting that is so I think he doesnt view those private things in a positive way

 

[Harpy]

I dont really know
Some weeks after I had told him my parents never married we had an argument and he called me a bastard and said how disgusting that is so I think he doesnt view those private things in a positive way

If he really can't handle that tiny quirk about you without criticizing it or crashing out. I think you should re-evaluate how close you two are.

 

[Judenbänker]

If he really can't handle that tiny quirk about you without criticizing it or crashing out. I think you should re-evaluate how close you two are.

I knowwww
We're super close sometimes though
Its really unstable id say but also theres no parting ways its like im chained to him:/
Ill try and be open about it tho thanks

 

[Harpy]

I knowwww
We're super close sometimes though
Its really unstable id say but also theres no parting ways its like im chained to him:/
Ill try and be open about it tho thanks

good luck

 

[hippocamp]

Why do you even need to tell him tho? You could just not tell him, shit seems irrelevant

 

[Judenbänker]

Why do you even need to tell him tho? You could just not tell him, shit seems irrelevant

I cant really sleep without it longterm
Ergo when we're gonna sleep together there's gonna have to be that plushie in bed next to me and I think it would be good for him to know in advance

 

[hippocamp]

I cant really sleep without it longterm
Ergo when we're gonna sleep together there's gonna have to be that plushie in bed next to me and I think it would be good for him to know in advance

then js start a conversation asking him about... Like how he likes his comfort while sleeping, his bed or stuff, and when he tells you his preferences, try to play off by mentioning the plushie and notice how he reacts, take it on from there

 

[signal]

nothing's wrong with this

 

[OverweightNEET]

i humped mine n everyhting last yr. lost it. red little bastard got away

 

[nordsfreak]

Its a white tiger plushie I got when my parents broke up and my dad moved out and I cant sleep without it since. I've had a replacement plushie for some months during a time where I couldnt find it but that one I used in another context normally and thats why it didnt fit my everyday sleeping, Im aware this is extremely unmanly and Im afraid of telling my boyfriend. I dont think I can just sleep without it but trying to justify it with le mental health wouldnt be a good idea either I think because every single time I've somehow mentioned my mental health he always seemed a bit annoyed. Im not sure if he's just turned off by it or can't really comprehend what I mean because he's autistic. Any ideas how to deal with this? I wanted to tell him some days ago but i was too much of a pussy

It's to imitate hugging me

 

[Judenbänker]

then js start a conversation asking him about... Like how he likes his comfort while sleeping, his bed or stuff, and when he tells you his preferences, try to play off by mentioning the plushie and notice how he reacts, take it on from there

thats genius

 

[goyboy.hero]

Its a white tiger plushie I got when my parents broke up and my dad moved out and I cant sleep without it since. I've had a replacement plushie for some months during a time where I couldnt find it but that one I used in another context normally and thats why it didnt fit my everyday sleeping, Im aware this is extremely unmanly and Im afraid of telling my boyfriend. I dont think I can just sleep without it but trying to justify it with le mental health wouldnt be a good idea either I think because every single time I've somehow mentioned my mental health he always seemed a bit annoyed. Im not sure if he's just turned off by it or can't really comprehend what I mean because he's autistic. Any ideas how to deal with this? I wanted to tell him some days ago but i was too much of a pussy

Dnr but I don't see anything rly wrong with that

 

[Kason.0199]

Its a white tiger plushie I got when my parents broke up and my dad moved out and I cant sleep without it since. I've had a replacement plushie for some months during a time where I couldnt find it but that one I used in another context normally and thats why it didnt fit my everyday sleeping, Im aware this is extremely unmanly and Im afraid of telling my boyfriend. I dont think I can just sleep without it but trying to justify it with le mental health wouldnt be a good idea either I think because every single time I've somehow mentioned my mental health he always seemed a bit annoyed. Im not sure if he's just turned off by it or can't really comprehend what I mean because he's autistic. Any ideas how to deal with this? I wanted to tell him some days ago but i was too much of a pussy

Sag ihm einfach das du ein plüschtier hast und es einfach wegen Erinnerung behalten willst. Jeder Mensch würde es nicht so schlimm finden außer man wäre eher eine schlechte Person…

 

[bluesell]

Its a white tiger plushie I got when my parents broke up and my dad moved out and I cant sleep without it since. I've had a replacement plushie for some months during a time where I couldnt find it but that one I used in another context normally and thats why it didnt fit my everyday sleeping, Im aware this is extremely unmanly and Im afraid of telling my boyfriend. I dont think I can just sleep without it but trying to justify it with le mental health wouldnt be a good idea either I think because every single time I've somehow mentioned my mental health he always seemed a bit annoyed. Im not sure if he's just turned off by it or can't really comprehend what I mean because he's autistic. Any ideas how to deal with this? I wanted to tell him some days ago but i was too much of a pussy

Mirin

 

[Judenbänker]

Sag ihm einfach das du ein plüschtier hast und es einfach wegen Erinnerung behalten willst. Jeder Mensch würde es nicht so schlimm finden außer man wäre eher eine schlechte Person…

Er ist in der Hinsicht glaube ich eine schlechte Person

 

[Kason.0199]

Er ist in der Hinsicht glaube ich eine schlechte Person

Komm dm

 

[Scorpion]

Its a white tiger plushie I got when my parents broke up and my dad moved out and I cant sleep without it since. I've had a replacement plushie for some months during a time where I couldnt find it but that one I used in another context normally and thats why it didnt fit my everyday sleeping, Im aware this is extremely unmanly and Im afraid of telling my boyfriend. I dont think I can just sleep without it but trying to justify it with le mental health wouldnt be a good idea either I think because every single time I've somehow mentioned my mental health he always seemed a bit annoyed. Im not sure if he's just turned off by it or can't really comprehend what I mean because he's autistic. Any ideas how to deal with this? I wanted to tell him some days ago but i was too much of a pussy

I used to have this white bear plushie i slept with
And when i was 8 my stepdad burned it infront of me
I still slept with it for like 4 years till my mom threw it in the trash

 

[z3roRedsug4r]

just say you want to talk about it with him and withhold sex or lock him in your room with you till he talks about it with you. if he's autistic I'm assuming he's on the receiving end here so if hes small enough it should be no problem to pull the latter option

 

[12455]

Its a white tiger plushie I got when my parents broke up and my dad moved out and I cant sleep without it since. I've had a replacement plushie for some months during a time where I couldnt find it but that one I used in another context normally and thats why it didnt fit my everyday sleeping, Im aware this is extremely unmanly and Im afraid of telling my boyfriend. I dont think I can just sleep without it but trying to justify it with le mental health wouldnt be a good idea either I think because every single time I've somehow mentioned my mental health he always seemed a bit annoyed. Im not sure if he's just turned off by it or can't really comprehend what I mean because he's autistic. Any ideas how to deal with this? I wanted to tell him some days ago but i was too much of a pussy

genuinely a Interesting human being

 

[xtchud]

Its a white tiger plushie I got when my parents broke up and my dad moved out and I cant sleep without it since. I've had a replacement plushie for some months during a time where I couldnt find it but that one I used in another context normally and thats why it didnt fit my everyday sleeping, Im aware this is extremely unmanly and Im afraid of telling my boyfriend. I dont think I can just sleep without it but trying to justify it with le mental health wouldnt be a good idea either I think because every single time I've somehow mentioned my mental health he always seemed a bit annoyed. Im not sure if he's just turned off by it or can't really comprehend what I mean because he's autistic. Any ideas how to deal with this? I wanted to tell him some days ago but i was too much of a pussy

I sleep with a plushie too, my ex-bf never minded

 

[nikolozzz]

Its a white tiger plushie I got when my parents broke up and my dad moved out and I cant sleep without it since. I've had a replacement plushie for some months during a time where I couldnt find it but that one I used in another context normally and thats why it didnt fit my everyday sleeping, Im aware this is extremely unmanly and Im afraid of telling my boyfriend. I dont think I can just sleep without it but trying to justify it with le mental health wouldnt be a good idea either I think because every single time I've somehow mentioned my mental health he always seemed a bit annoyed. Im not sure if he's just turned off by it or can't really comprehend what I mean because he's autistic. Any ideas how to deal with this? I wanted to tell him some days ago but i was too much of a pussy

WE still sleep with a plushie

 

[Judenbänker]

WE still sleep with a plushie

So real:3

 

[Judenbänker]

just say you want to talk about it with him and withhold sex or lock him in your room with you till he talks about it with you. if he's autistic I'm assuming he's on the receiving end here so if hes small enough it should be no problem to pull the latter option

Ur so smart waw

 

[Emperor Napoleon]

Its a white tiger plushie I got when my parents broke up and my dad moved out and I cant sleep without it since. I've had a replacement plushie for some months during a time where I couldnt find it but that one I used in another context normally and thats why it didnt fit my everyday sleeping, Im aware this is extremely unmanly and Im afraid of telling my boyfriend. I dont think I can just sleep without it but trying to justify it with le mental health wouldnt be a good idea either I think because every single time I've somehow mentioned my mental health he always seemed a bit annoyed. Im not sure if he's just turned off by it or can't really comprehend what I mean because he's autistic. Any ideas how to deal with this? I wanted to tell him some days ago but i was too much of a pussy

I have a massive stuffie collection of over 50 stuffies, nothing to be ashamed of bro

 

[Judenbänker]

I have a massive stuffie collection of over 50 stuffies, nothing to be ashamed of bro

Ha me too but theyre all in a box except for that one :<

 

[looksmin]

boyfriend as in your gay? Atleast u don’t gotta put up w these foids bro.

can I pm you some questions i just wanna know how like your parents accept it and what made you come out or become gay if that’s how it works cause I rlly don’t know, tried to say that in the most respectful way possible no hate nothing and only if you’re down to help explain


Also I used to sleep with plushies when I was a kid too like up till 11 or 12, mom used to buy me hella my fav was a monkey I’ve had since I was born. Had tons over the years

 

[Emperor Napoleon]

Ha me too but theyre all in a box except for that one :<

I would feel like im abusing them if i did that

 

[Judenbänker]

boyfriend as in your gay? Atleast u don’t gotta put up w these foids bro.

Yeah thats a big +

can I pm you some questions i just wanna know how like your parents accept it and what made you come out or become gay if that’s how it works cause I rlly don’t know, tried to say that in the most respectful way possible no hate nothing and only if you’re down to help explain

Ofc bro

Also I used to sleep with plushies when I was a kid too like up till 11 or 12, mom used to buy me hella my fav was a monkey I’ve had since I was born. Had tons over the years

Same but one day i came backhome and they were all in a box :(
Guess we all gotta grow up

 

[looksmin]

Yeah thats a big +

Ofc bro

Same but one day i came backhome and they were all in a box :(
Guess we all gotta grow up

Same bro she put all mine in a container they used to all be on my bed too