zygo.nizar
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I keep hearing from girls “you are attractive but your personality ruins it”, so attraction is there at the start, they show interest, text me, even approach first, then after a few days or a week they get distant or leave, this pattern repeats in every situationship, I am not shy, not socially anxious, not diagnosed ND, but I have low inhib and I act childish or too unfiltered early, I speak too direct, I say the raw truth with no filter, I bring up things like biology or blunt facts when someone is dealing with something, I think this kills the vibe, I tried being natural and it keeps failing, I do not know if the issue is timing, intensity, or how I come across in text vs real life, for those who had the same pattern what did you change to keep interest past the first week
