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It’s just over like acc I try so hard and even when I feel like ppl like me I js feel judged, hated and like I don’t fit in. I have family problems but I try so hard to get over it and I’m always so sensitive and even my friends make fun of me for it. I just want to feel like I matter and happy for once. I’m young and I mean I’m pretty attractive but it’s js not enough. I js don’t know what to do and the thought of roping js is starting to feel more reasonable. I just want to matter or something or truly be understood and fit in like for who I am not change myself. And it js feels like everyone around me doesn’t know what empathy is or something. Idk sorry for how I’m rambling I js am having a rlly hard time and idk what to do. And today I opened up and like they kinda understood but everytime I do something like this I don’t feel understood and feel like I’m making a pity party. Do I js rope seriously?
 

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It’s just over like acc I try so hard and even when I feel like ppl like me I js feel judged, hated and like I don’t fit in. I have family problems but I try so hard to get over it and I’m always so sensitive and even my friends make fun of me for it. I just want to feel like I matter and happy for once. I’m young and I mean I’m pretty attractive but it’s js not enough. I js don’t know what to do and the thought of roping js is starting to feel more reasonable. I just want to matter or something or truly be understood and fit in like for who I am not change myself. And it js feels like everyone around me doesn’t know what empathy is or something. Idk sorry for how I’m rambling I js am having a rlly hard time and idk what to do. And today I opened up and like they kinda understood but everytime I do something like this I don’t feel understood and feel like I’m making a pity party. Do I js rope seriously?
rope mark as solution also dnr
 

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It’s just over like acc I try so hard and even when I feel like ppl like me I js feel judged, hated and like I don’t fit in. I have family problems but I try so hard to get over it and I’m always so sensitive and even my friends make fun of me for it. I just want to feel like I matter and happy for once. I’m young and I mean I’m pretty attractive but it’s js not enough. I js don’t know what to do and the thought of roping js is starting to feel more reasonable. I just want to matter or something or truly be understood and fit in like for who I am not change myself. And it js feels like everyone around me doesn’t know what empathy is or something. Idk sorry for how I’m rambling I js am having a rlly hard time and idk what to do. And today I opened up and like they kinda understood but everytime I do something like this I don’t feel understood and feel like I’m making a pity party. Do I js rope seriously?
This is exactly where i am in life bhai 16 and my entire life ahead of me seems convulated and dark i also think of roping sometimes the only thing keeping me on this planet is my faith and family which dont even like me
 
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I’m 14 and I’m catholic so at the same time I feel like I can’t rope bc I’m catholic but everything js feels so terrible.
This is exactly where i am in life bhai 16 and my entire life ahead of me seems convulated and dark i also think of roping sometimes the only thing keeping me on this planet is my faith and family which dont even like me
 

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It’s just over like acc I try so hard and even when I feel like ppl like me I js feel judged, hated and like I don’t fit in. I have family problems but I try so hard to get over it and I’m always so sensitive and even my friends make fun of me for it. I just want to feel like I matter and happy for once. I’m young and I mean I’m pretty attractive but it’s js not enough. I js don’t know what to do and the thought of roping js is starting to feel more reasonable. I just want to matter or something or truly be understood and fit in like for who I am not change myself. And it js feels like everyone around me doesn’t know what empathy is or something. Idk sorry for how I’m rambling I js am having a rlly hard time and idk what to do. And today I opened up and like they kinda understood but everytime I do something like this I don’t feel understood and feel like I’m making a pity party. Do I js rope seriously?
Eat better, go outside and live life
It's normal having those thoughts and problems in that age
This may sound like a shit advice but what you want us to do? Save u?
Everyone here's have been there and nobody have khs
But yeah eat healthy sometimes I feel depressive bc of my alimentation
If you don't like your situation change it don't cry
 
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I js want to vent and find a solution maybe idk and be shown empathy why is no one capable of it it seems
Eat better, go outside and live life
It's normal having those thoughts and problems in that age
This may sound like a shit advice but what you want us to do? Save u?
Everyone here's have been there and nobody have khs
But yeah eat healthy sometimes I feel depressive bc of my alimentation
If you don't like your situation change it don't cry
 

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I js want to vent and be shown empathy why is no one capable of it it seems
We would show empathy if it's something more "serious" I repeat EVERYONE here has been there.
We know that it's just a phase
Go live life seriously I'm sure that not all your time is depressing, and if it is you didn't write why
All in this thread is the same thing I read a lot of times
Wym with empathy you are saying ridiculous things like should I rope? Nigga you're 14
I repeat it's normal those thoughts in that age
 
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We would show empathy if it's something more "serious" I repeat EVERYONE here has been there.
We know that it's just a phase
Go live life seriously I'm sure that not all your time is depressing, and if it is you didn't write why
All in this thread is the same thing I read a lot of times
Wym with empathy you are saying ridiculous things like should I rope? Nigga you're 14
I repeat it's normal that thoughts in that age
U clearly don’t get it bc it’s not that simple but yk what whatever I js feel like jts not so much to ask for to be treated like a human and this is what the problem is no one around me does
 

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U clearly don’t get it bc it’s not that simple but yk what whatever I js feel like jts not so much to ask for to be treated like a human and this is what the problem is no one around me does
You're not roping it's just a phase
 
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