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H_A

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I've been smoking cigarettes and vaping a lot recently; they help ease whatever tension I'm dealing with, but it's just a small coping mechanism for me to get through the day.
The only drug I've tried was weed when i was 16. I got it from this homeless crackhead but thank satan it wasn't spice or k2. It did wipe out sum of my memory tho so caution but with that I got 3 joints for £15 which is a scam but whatev and it cooled my anxiety down
 

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That’s really good bro, I’m also on a waiting list for psychotherapy so I can’t speak on it but normal therapy has really helped me. For meds I personally feel the same way but look into the specific medication you’re diagnosed because they’re not all antidepressants that numb you, there’s some that you can go on and off. Regardless I hope you get the help you need and you start to feel better.
Hope all goes well man 🙏🏻stay strong and survive
 

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i just cope by not looking at any reflections/ make any pictures, I know it sounds sad, but it genuinely helps with life satisfaction, I once did the same when I was gymcelling and after 6 months or so of not looking at my body, I was actually satisfied with how I looked.
 

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Fuck man waiting lists take like months-years man. If u wanna talk abt stuff I might help so PM me. Fill yourself with positivity and get rid of negative ppl

I hope it won't take years, but it's been a couple of months now, and apparently, they're getting it close to getting it done for me.

I recommend to take psychedelics cause it will give you a whole new perspective on things and 9x/10 its for the better. Just do your research and make sure what ur doing

100% I've been thinking about doing psychedelics for a while now, since I've heard some pretty positive experiences from the majority of people who took them.

I was planning on doing Mushroom penis envy a year ago, but I got too scared because I had a dream where I was freaking out and praying it would end. But I'll definitely be looking into it.
 
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I hope it won't take years, but it's been a couple of months now, and apparently, they're getting it close to getting it done for me.



100% I've been thinking about doing psychedelics for a while now, since I've heard some pretty positive experiences from the majority of people who took them.

I was planning on doing Mushroom penis envy a year ago, but I got too scared because I had a dream where I was freaking out and praying it would end. But I'll definitely be looking into it.
Yea man just do ur research and know where ur getting it from
 

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That’s really good bro, I’m also on a waiting list for psychotherapy so I can’t speak on it but normal therapy has really helped me. For meds I personally feel the same way but look into the specific medication you’re diagnosed because they’re not all antidepressants that numb you, there’s some that you can go on and off. Regardless I hope you get the help you need and you start to feel better.
Hey, man, I'm really glad you're able to start your own journey through Psychotherapy, and it's totally fine that you don't want to expand on it since it's personal, but I'm just glad we're able to find relateability with one another.

I hope you get better. You aren't alone.

Also my dms are open if you need anything
Hearing this genuinely means a lot, and I'll hit you up with a DM just in case I need to speak to you about anything. You seem like a genuine and kind person.
 

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Hey, man, I'm really glad you're able to start your own journey through Psychotherapy, and it's totally fine that you don't want to expand on it since it's personal, but I'm just glad we're able to find relateability with one another.

I hope you get better. You aren't alone.


Hearing this genuinely means a lot, and I'll hit you up with a DM just in case I need to speak to you about anything. You seem like a genuine and kind person.
My dms are free too
 

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Hey, man, I'm really glad you're able to start your own journey through Psychotherapy, and it's totally fine that you don't want to expand on it since it's personal, but I'm just glad we're able to find relateability with one another.

I hope you get better. You aren't alone.


Hearing this genuinely means a lot, and I'll hit you up with a DM just in case I need to speak to you about anything. You seem like a genuine and kind person.
Thanks I appreciate it man, but yeah if you need anything just hit me up, I’ll help however I can.
 

coping gymcel

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I don't care if it sounds like whining; I don't have anywhere else to post.

It's just so fucking depressing and monotonous trying to wake up each morning and get through the day when you know it's just going to land you in the same spot as yesterday. Nothing new and nothing changes, especially whenever I look at the mirror.

I always wish that my acne or asymmetry would suddenly go away, but it never does. I fucking hate having to see the reflection of myself in every reflective surface. I know people on my account give me compliments, but who gives a single fuck if YOU don't feel that way, or when LIFE doesn't reflect that.

I don't get that treatment and never will until I get surgery to fix my deformed face. Why do I have to spend money on shit just for people to treat me like I'm human, just for me to be satisfied with myself, because my mom and dad couldn't have been bothered to raise me properly without any kind of developmental issues?

This shit is so annoying and makes me want to climb into a black pit where nobody can see me, and so I can see nobody else. I'm so tired of my fucked up face.
suffering w same shit my asymmetry makes my face look like a banana and everyone irl calls me out on this the way I cope w it by wearing glasses so no one notice my fucked up sphenoid and just height fraud to 6'1 6'2 (I'm 5'10) and frame mog everybody
 

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I don't care if it sounds like whining; I don't have anywhere else to post.

It's just so fucking depressing and monotonous trying to wake up each morning and get through the day when you know it's just going to land you in the same spot as yesterday. Nothing new and nothing changes, especially whenever I look at the mirror.

I always wish that my acne or asymmetry would suddenly go away, but it never does. I fucking hate having to see the reflection of myself in every reflective surface. I know people on my account give me compliments, but who gives a single fuck if YOU don't feel that way, or when LIFE doesn't reflect that.

I don't get that treatment and never will until I get surgery to fix my deformed face. Why do I have to spend money on shit just for people to treat me like I'm human, just for me to be satisfied with myself, because my mom and dad couldn't have been bothered to raise me properly without any kind of developmental issues?

This shit is so annoying and makes me want to climb into a black pit where nobody can see me, and so I can see nobody else. I'm so tired of my fucked up face.
Go therapy ,i wish u will get better
 
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