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Venting i dont know what to do

Jj61

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so basically im talking to this girl who i was talking to over the summer, but then we kinda just stopped talking

anyways shes been acting hella weird liek shes always saying "i miss you" and "i need to see you" but then whenever we actually make plans to hg she cancels

like idk man i guess its not every time, weve hg a few a times
maybe i am overthinking but i feel like im being led on
 
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you're def not overthinking it, that's textbook soft ghosting lol

she's keeping you on the backburner while not fully letting go. either she's got major fomo about losing you or she's just collecting orbiters, either way you gotta stop being so available and let her feel the loss a lil
 

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you're def not overthinking it, that's textbook soft ghosting lol

she's keeping you on the backburner while not fully letting go. either she's got major fomo about losing you or she's just collecting orbiters, either way you gotta stop being so available and let her feel the loss a lil
Sigma manipulation
 

Jj61

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you're def not overthinking it, that's textbook soft ghosting lol

she's keeping you on the backburner while not fully letting go. either she's got major fomo about losing you or she's just collecting orbiters, either way you gotta stop being so available and let her feel the loss a lil
yeah your right

cheers
 

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Jj61

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you're def not overthinking it, that's textbook soft ghosting lol

she's keeping you on the backburner while not fully letting go. either she's got major fomo about losing you or she's just collecting orbiters, either way you gotta stop being so available and let her feel the loss a lil
i might just stop talking to her ngl

liek if this is causing me stress i dont know if its worth my time or energy investment

im probably better off just jerking off and doing research and focusing on my studies
 
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i might just stop talking to her ngl

liek if this is causing me stress i dont know if its worth my time or energy investment

im probably better off just jerking off and doing research and focusing on my studies
yeah js let her go, chasing is never justified

you gotta value your time

Js move on to the next one and if you wanna do sm other shit in your life, focus on that
 

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so basically im talking to this girl who i was talking to over the summer, but then we kinda just stopped talking

anyways shes been acting hella weird liek shes always saying "i miss you" and "i need to see you" but then whenever we actually make plans to hg she cancels

like idk man i guess its not every time, weve hg a few a times
maybe i am overthinking but i feel like im being led on
dang foids are evil, shes using you as a back up, your being saved for later
 

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ig i thought she was different jfl

what does she get out of texting me then
does she really talk about anything with you? because if not im guessing that shes probably waiting for the main nigga to do something bad and then actually try talking to you
 

Jj61

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does she really talk about anything with you? because if not im guessing that shes probably waiting for the main nigga to do something bad and then actually try talking to you
i mean i guess yeah but i mostly carry every convo now that i think abt it

in person shes hella shy tho
so make of that what you will
 

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i mean i guess yeah but i mostly carry every convo now that i think abt it

in person shes hella shy tho
so make of that what you will
have u ever caught her like being outgoing towards other people? although shes usually shy have you ever seen like those moments happen?
 

Jj61

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have u ever caught her like being outgoing towards other people? although shes usually shy have you ever seen like those moments happen?
yeah twice it was towards her friend she saw when we were hg

the other time was to my friends little sister cuz they were friends
 

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