MedSlayer
Former Subhuman
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I really don’t know if I will date my looksmatch or not. My stats are 6’2 barefoot, hmtn–lhtn.
When I talk to hltbs–mmtbs, yes sometimes they have a huge ego and are really bitchy, but a lot of times they glaze me a lot and tend to do a lot of things for me, and you truly feel loved and desired.
I talked to some hmtbs+ and first of all they’re really hard to find, and second of all since they’re kinda my looksmatch, a lot of the time by the way they treat me I know that I’m not that guy in her DMs. Whereas when I talk a bit below my looksmatch, I really feel like I’m that guy in her DMs, like her number 1 option.
So I’m really wondering, even after all the smvmaxxing I will do in the future, I seriously wonder if I only should do LTR with white mtbs because they’re my type, so they’re really attractive to me. There are a lot of them around, so personality wise I don’t have to compromise, and I also have more chance to find a good respectable girl rather than a “whore” who had/is in her hoe phase.And I know that they will truly desire me and love me with all their heart, and since they’re a bit more attractive than average they won’t fuck my kids genetics too much.
But at the same time, for example if I ascend to hhtn, maybe lcl if everything goes nice, I will still be participating in hypergamy. And for a long time my heart aches every time I see guys struggling because of hypergamy, because it affects every guy around me my close friends, my cousins, etc.
So really it is a huge dilemma for me. I know I will be happy with my hqnp mtb, but it will be at the expense of other guys.At the same time, I feel like that’s the way of nature: the more genetic fitness, the more chance you have to reproduce, and all low quality genetic/defective get wiped out to ensure the survival of humans.Like I’m just really lucky to be on the “good” side, and I can’t stop imagining if I was on the “wrong” side.
And now the average normie pretty much has to betabuxx to have a relationship, which I’m really against because guys who do that are a lot of times unhappy because of it and get taken advantage of.So really it is a big moral dilemma for me. I know it’s my life and I do what I want, but I really take things like this at heart since it affects me and my social circle a lot. Even though the dating market is not as brutal as you see online, but what do I know, I’m just 19 and apparently it gets even worse after.
So yeah, I really don’t know what to do.
When I talk to hltbs–mmtbs, yes sometimes they have a huge ego and are really bitchy, but a lot of times they glaze me a lot and tend to do a lot of things for me, and you truly feel loved and desired.
I talked to some hmtbs+ and first of all they’re really hard to find, and second of all since they’re kinda my looksmatch, a lot of the time by the way they treat me I know that I’m not that guy in her DMs. Whereas when I talk a bit below my looksmatch, I really feel like I’m that guy in her DMs, like her number 1 option.
So I’m really wondering, even after all the smvmaxxing I will do in the future, I seriously wonder if I only should do LTR with white mtbs because they’re my type, so they’re really attractive to me. There are a lot of them around, so personality wise I don’t have to compromise, and I also have more chance to find a good respectable girl rather than a “whore” who had/is in her hoe phase.And I know that they will truly desire me and love me with all their heart, and since they’re a bit more attractive than average they won’t fuck my kids genetics too much.
But at the same time, for example if I ascend to hhtn, maybe lcl if everything goes nice, I will still be participating in hypergamy. And for a long time my heart aches every time I see guys struggling because of hypergamy, because it affects every guy around me my close friends, my cousins, etc.
So really it is a huge dilemma for me. I know I will be happy with my hqnp mtb, but it will be at the expense of other guys.At the same time, I feel like that’s the way of nature: the more genetic fitness, the more chance you have to reproduce, and all low quality genetic/defective get wiped out to ensure the survival of humans.Like I’m just really lucky to be on the “good” side, and I can’t stop imagining if I was on the “wrong” side.
And now the average normie pretty much has to betabuxx to have a relationship, which I’m really against because guys who do that are a lot of times unhappy because of it and get taken advantage of.So really it is a big moral dilemma for me. I know it’s my life and I do what I want, but I really take things like this at heart since it affects me and my social circle a lot. Even though the dating market is not as brutal as you see online, but what do I know, I’m just 19 and apparently it gets even worse after.
So yeah, I really don’t know what to do.

