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How to talk to girls

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Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills

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bit late to post this, just 5 minutes ago a girl tried speaking to me but i didnt know what to do so i walked away

bookmarked tho
 

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instant bookmark about to read the whole thing, if i slay tonight i got you with the 115 reps
 

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How to talk to girls

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Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

So first of all nice guide
Second of all I hate women so I won’t speak to them
 
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How to talk to girls

View attachment 71874





Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

very nice thread
 

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How to talk to girls

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Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

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Nice guide bhai.
 

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How to talk to girls

View attachment 71874





Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

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How to talk to girls

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Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

Mirin effort will def read i have no social skills
 

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How to talk to girls

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Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

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Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

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View attachment 71874





Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

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View attachment 71874





Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

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View attachment 71874





Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

how to actually start a conversation with a girl that i already know like i wanna talk to her more but just dk what to say cause if i just say hi how are you everytime i will look like a robot.
its not that we never talk but we only talk whenever i need smth important i want to know is there smth that i could use everytime to start the conversation and not look like a npc
 

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View attachment 71874





Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

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Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

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Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

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Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

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How to talk to girls

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Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

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Greetings and salutations.
This guide will be about how to talk to girls. Some people requested that I make this, so I went ahead and did just that.
So let's dive in.


Looks matter. You have to be Good-Looking.


Understanding Social Interactions


It's useful to know a little something about social interactions before approaching girls and flirting with them.

One common mistake guys often make is overthinking when talking to girls; try to stop worrying about what she thinks, whether you said something wrong, or if you come across as awkward.
You're less authentic. When you overthink you lose your tone for the conversation by overthinking what you're going to say.

Don't treat girls differently. Remember girls are people. There is no need to treat them any differently than you would anyone else. Also remember: not every conversation has to lead to something.

Observe her behaviour.
Does she return questions? Is she interested in conversing with you? If she is being very dry and is just giving short answers and is not putting in any effort to make the conversations flow, then she's not interested.


Confidence


Building Confidence is not loud, it's not acting like you're better than the room, confidence is how you carry yourself and not giving a damn about other people. To get more confidence, walk up to people at your school, gym, workplace, etc.
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
You also must realize that not everyone will like you. Some girls will not be interested, and conversations will be awkward.


Starting Conversations


The toughest part for a lot of men is breaking the ice. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS: it's not that hard. You can open up a discussion about almost anything, in any situation.​

Examples:
  • "Hey, are you new here?"
  • "I like your shoes."
  • "Any thoughts on this class?"


Keeping a Conversation Going


Don't ask question after question it begins to feel more like an interview than a conversation.
Attempt to listen to her and then build on it. A conversation involves both participants. Both genders should make an effort, and don't worry if there are occasional moments of silence. This doesn't mean the conversation is going poorly.


Body Language and Eye Contact


People tend to forget about body language while in conversation. It doesn't mean you'll have to worry about how to hold the camera and what to do with your hands, but there are a few tricks to make you look less awkward.​
  • Speak to people, but don't stare at them.
  • Use an easy, comfortable standing or sitting position.
  • Avoid checking your phone constantly.
  • Smile when it is appropriate.
  • Don't avert your eyes every time she does. Making eye contact can be a way of making a conversation more personal, but it also demonstrates you're actively listening.

Flirting and Showing Interest


Flirting, teasing, or seduction basically a playful way of letting someone know you're interested in them. It can be done by praising her, telling jokes, teasing, or just showing you like talking to her.​

Examples:
  • "Actually, you're really fun to talk with."
  • "You're so funny, I forgot to laugh."
  • "You've got a beautiful smile."

Flirting also goes both ways, so if she doesn't seem interested, don't push her.
Don't take teasing too far or make jokes that could actually hurt her feelings. There's a difference between joking around and being mean.



That's it. I hope this helps some of you.




Body Language and Nonverbal Communication (HelpGuide.org) - https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/nonverbal-communication
Your Guide to Small Talk Topics, Phrases, and Openers in English - https://englishonline.britishcounci...l-talk-topics-phrases-and-openers-in-english/
How to Boost Your Self-Confidence - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
Understanding trouble with social skills (Understood) - https://www.understood.org/en/articles/trouble-with-social-skills


Cred: @bentov​

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