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Guide How to start and hold a conversation ?

Aylan

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Lot of ppl required so here it is, its water ik :


1-Dont stress:

If u stress you will have a strange body language and loose ur "words" so u are gonna talk like a retarded guy. To avoid that take a deep breathe and imagine that u are just talking to a friend. Try to keep visual contact and to not make strange gestures

2-Choose your topic wisely:

Remember that if its ur first time talking with her the first minutes of discussion will determine how she sees u. That's why u have to avoid some topics, such as politics, income, racisme etc etc. I know that its obvious but some awkward people forget that. So choose a simple topic, for me the best method is to find a shared hobby/interest and to talk about it. U have to be careful with the interests u talk about, avoid "weird" things and prioritize sports, movies/séries, fashion. Dont forget to do that AFTER u présented urself and she présented herself.

3-The approach:

For this step one of the most important things is obviously ur look and ur height. Just keep that in mind

Average face+average height: try to look confident, wear a good outfit, if u know a Friend of her go to greet him/her while the friend is speaking to the girl and start the conversation with the previous step

Average face+ tall
Or
Good looking + average height (taller than the girl)
: there is slight differences between this two cases but they are mainly the same. U already have something that is not very common. Do not negligate outfit tho.

Good looking + tall: u have more chances to be seen as attractive but dont start to act like a Dick or to talk about non-appropriate things.

Shorter than the girl: no matter how good looking u are it's extrêmely hard to be seen as attractive

Ugly: if very tall u may have a chance of average height, short or slightly taller than the average its also hard. Not as hard as the shorter one tho.

So for the approach dont surprise her, walk normally dont run, i know it's obvious but it's still important to remond ppl.

4-body language

Body language is very important, beside ur look and ur personallity, lt is the most important thing. Do not talk with ur hands a lot, sometimes it just looks gay or it makes u look not confident and stressed. Girls remark stress when u are talking to them, and they can see that as weird (If she is attracted to u she can see that as cute but kinda rare to attract a girl without even talking to her if u are not at least htn)




First guide 100% made by me. Be nice while judging guys ✌🏻💔
 

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Lot of ppl required so here it is, its water ik :


1-Dont stress:

If u stress you will have a strange body language and loose ur "words" so u are gonna talk like a retarded guy. To avoid that take a deep breathe and imagine that u are just talking to a friend. Try to keep visual contact and to not make strange gestures

2-Choose your topic wisely:

Remember that if its ur first time talking with her the first minutes of discussion will determine how she sees u. That's why u have to avoid some topics, such as politics, income, racisme etc etc. I know that its obvious but some awkward people forget that. So choose a simple topic, for me the best method is to find a shared hobby/interest and to talk about it. U have to be careful with the interests u talk about, avoid "weird" things and prioritize sports, movies/séries, fashion. Dont forget to do that AFTER u présented urself and she présented herself.

3-The approach:

For this step one of the most important things is obviously ur look and ur height. Just keep that in mind

Average face+average height: try to look confident, wear a good outfit, if u know a Friend of her go to greet him/her while the friend is speaking to the girl and start the conversation with the previous step

Average face+ tall
Or
Good looking + average height (taller than the girl)
: there is slight differences between this two cases but they are mainly the same. U already have something that is not very common. Do not negligate outfit tho.

Good looking + tall: u have more chances to be seen as attractive but dont start to act like a Dick or to talk about non-appropriate things.

Shorter than the girl: no matter how good looking u are it's extrêmely hard to be seen as attractive

Ugly: if very tall u may have a chance of average height, short or slightly taller than the average its also hard. Not as hard as the shorter one tho.

So for the approach dont surprise her, walk normally dont run, i know it's obvious but it's still important to remond ppl.

4-body language

Body language is very important, beside ur look and ur personallity, lt is the most important thing. Do not talk with ur hands a lot, sometimes it just looks gay or it makes u look not confident and stressed. Girls remark stress when u are talking to them, and they can see that as weird (If she is attracted to u she can see that as cute but kinda rare to attract a girl without even talking to her if u are not at least htn)




First guide 100% made by me. Be nice while judging guys ✌🏻💔
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LifeEnjoyer

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Lot of ppl required so here it is, its water ik :


1-Dont stress:

If u stress you will have a strange body language and loose ur "words" so u are gonna talk like a retarded guy. To avoid that take a deep breathe and imagine that u are just talking to a friend. Try to keep visual contact and to not make strange gestures

2-Choose your topic wisely:

Remember that if its ur first time talking with her the first minutes of discussion will determine how she sees u. That's why u have to avoid some topics, such as politics, income, racisme etc etc. I know that its obvious but some awkward people forget that. So choose a simple topic, for me the best method is to find a shared hobby/interest and to talk about it. U have to be careful with the interests u talk about, avoid "weird" things and prioritize sports, movies/séries, fashion. Dont forget to do that AFTER u présented urself and she présented herself.

3-The approach:

For this step one of the most important things is obviously ur look and ur height. Just keep that in mind

Average face+average height: try to look confident, wear a good outfit, if u know a Friend of her go to greet him/her while the friend is speaking to the girl and start the conversation with the previous step

Average face+ tall
Or
Good looking + average height (taller than the girl)
: there is slight differences between this two cases but they are mainly the same. U already have something that is not very common. Do not negligate outfit tho.

Good looking + tall: u have more chances to be seen as attractive but dont start to act like a Dick or to talk about non-appropriate things.

Shorter than the girl: no matter how good looking u are it's extrêmely hard to be seen as attractive

Ugly: if very tall u may have a chance of average height, short or slightly taller than the average its also hard. Not as hard as the shorter one tho.

So for the approach dont surprise her, walk normally dont run, i know it's obvious but it's still important to remond ppl.

4-body language

Body language is very important, beside ur look and ur personallity, lt is the most important thing. Do not talk with ur hands a lot, sometimes it just looks gay or it makes u look not confident and stressed. Girls remark stress when u are talking to them, and they can see that as weird (If she is attracted to u she can see that as cute but kinda rare to attract a girl without even talking to her if u are not at least htn)




First guide 100% made by me. Be nice while judging guys ✌🏻💔
autistics would love read this guide
 

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