Discussion How often do you desire a companion/want company in life? (SCHIZO POST) (18 Viewers)

[Dexter]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

 

[FS51]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Or if you do, be extremely cautious. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

I have like 2 close irl friends and I don’t really feel the need to make anymore than that tbh, going to parties and socialising with randoms is literally pointless imo

 

[Dexter]

I have like 2 close irl friends and I don’t really feel the need to make anymore than that tbh, going to parties and socialising with randoms is literally pointless imo

based

 

[filthylittleslut]

i dont really have anyone as of right now i haven't even been to school in 6 months, let alone see anyone or communicate with anyone

 

[hoodsickle]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Or if you do, be extremely cautious. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

I used to always yearn for someone, to be cared for, loved. I guess my self esteem just got so low i dont see myself as deserving of a partner anymore; though i dont feel lonely or like im missing a part of me anymore.

At school im in a friend group but none of them are really my "friends" I dont go out with them nor text them, mostly because they dont text me.
I kinda hate people though. Everyone has different opinions about me and wether they openly say or not im constantly judged. I just do everything alone and im not bothered by it.
I guess I just found peace in solitude.

 

[Scorpion]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Or if you do, be extremely cautious. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

Not a schizonigga but read every molecule

 

[sensitive sapphire]

I feel the same way, the only times i feel comfortable and in peace are when im alone wich is 95% of the time. the only thing i disagree with is the sex part, i dont want a relationship i dont believe in love but i would like to have sex and be a manwhore

 

[sensitive sapphire]

I used to always yearn for someone, to be cared for, loved. I guess my self esteem just got so low i dont see myself as deserving of a partner anymore; though i dont feel lonely or like im missing a part of me anymore.

At school im in a friend group but none of them are really my "friends" I dont go out with them nor text them, mostly because they dont text me.
I kinda hate people though. Everyone has different opinions about me and wether they openly say or not im constantly judged. I just do everything alone and im not bothered by it.
I guess I just found peace in solitude.

I used to have the judging problem too and to some extenct i still do, the solution is not opening up to anyone. The only person i could relate to and even somewhat call a "friend" changed so much that i have love/hate relationship with him now

 

[mirincristian]

good post, a couple more like these and i bet you'll get modded one day

 

[Hauptmann]

I have given up

 

[mod]

can you approve my alt? mr dexter 1 1ㅤㅤ

 

[Dexter]

the only thing i disagree with is the sex part, i dont want a relationship i dont believe in love but i would like to have sex and be a manwhore

why?
i have never understood the need to have sex so much/have sex with multiple people
seems like unnecessary emotional baggage

 

[Dexter]

can you approve my alt? mr dexter 1 1ㅤㅤ

Syna

 

[mod]

Syna

thanks

 

[hippocamp]

i dont really have anyone as of right now i haven't even been to school in 6 months, let alone see anyone or communicate with anyone

you have me silly

 

[sensitive sapphire]

why?
i have never understood the need to have sex so much/have sex with multiple people
seems like unnecessary emotional baggage

why doas it have to be emotional?

 

[Hyporoxin]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

My whole life, I have been completely alone, so I’ve always wanted to know what it’s like to have friends/girlfriend

I never really desired being around people, in some way i even enjoyed being alone. But over the past year I’ve started to truly hate the loneliness. I would be happy with just 2–4 friends and a girlfriend. that’s all I need

I see relationships as something important, especially for us humans. It’s instinctive to look for a long-term partner, and it’s nice to have someone like that.

 

[paracelsus]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

Yeah my sitiation is pretty similar to you, I have quite a lot of friends but in terms of a partner i don’t really like the idea because I don’t like sharing my thoughts (in terms of like goals or how i’m feeling) in general even to my closest mates so why would i then tell everything about myself to a girl who i wouldn’t know very well at first and who cannot be trusted as well as my friends.
And no i’m not ugly or a social outcast this is not cope genuinely