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how do i talk to girls and know if they think im attractive or not (1 Viewer)

how do i talk to girls and know if they think im attractive or not
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i always have so much confidence at home but then i get to school and i feel like a fucking ugly idiot how do i know if girls find me attractive or not
 

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I don’t know man
 
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i always have so much confidence at home but then i get to school and i feel like a fucking ugly idiot how do i know if girls find me attractive or not
It doesn't matter if they do, what matters is that you should just talk to them.
 

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I mean it’s gonna be obvious if they like you
 

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i always have so much confidence at home but then i get to school and i feel like a fucking ugly idiot how do i know if girls find me attractive or not
Thats the thing, you can never know what a girl thinks since they dont have souls
 

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Thats the thing, you can never know what a girl thinks since they dont have souls
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I mean ig bro but your happiness in life shouldn’t be completely dependent if a girl likes you or not
yeah not if a girl likes me or not but if i’m not attractive then how could i truly be happy
 

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i always have so much confidence at home but then i get to school and i feel like a fucking ugly idiot how do i know if girls find me attractive or not
eye contact, if they look back at you with a positive expression on their face, thats a good sign, if not, try talking to them to get more of an idea of whether they like you or not
 

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i always have so much confidence at home but then i get to school and i feel like a fucking ugly idiot how do i know if girls find me attractive or not
If ur ugly no matter how they behave towards u i promise u they are not attracted
 

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dw if they find you attractive or not just get them drunk unless your dick doesnt work after alc then its over
 
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dw if they find you attractive or not just get them drunk unless your dick doesnt work after alc then its over
okay that’s actually a crazy method bro
 
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If ur ugly no matter how they behave towards u i promise u they are not attracted
i don’t really know if i’m ugly or not
 

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Send us a pic so we know
 
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i’m on accutane right now so don’t ask about the acne
 

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i always have so much confidence at home but then i get to school and i feel like a fucking ugly idiot how do i know if girls find me attractive or not
if ur posting this on here you already know they dont find you attractive best thing to do is go to whatever social things are going on and talk to people in ur school if u cant do that u wont be able to talk to girls
 

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i always have so much confidence at home but then i get to school and i feel like a fucking ugly idiot how do i know if girls find me attractive or not
By approaching them how else nigga stop being a bitch
 
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if you dont think they do, they dont, its obvious
 

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i always have so much confidence at home but then i get to school and i feel like a fucking ugly idiot how do i know if girls find me attractive or not
if your talking to them and they are uninterested in the convo, like giving short replying or it’s all you asking questions, disengage, best advice I can give
 
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if your talking to them and they are uninterested in the convo, like giving short replying or it’s all you asking questions, disengage, best advice I can give
alright bro thanks
 

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yeah today i talked to a few girls and i didn’t come up to them they approached me and kept tapping me so ig ill see
Play it cool fam you got this u fr gotta be nonchalant unless she’s hyper also or nd
 
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thats the problem mijo
 
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nvm blud just pop the pregab when ur going out to events to feel less social inhib forget about school
most of the time dating in school is not very smart since words gets round fast if you fuck up
 
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i always have so much confidence at home but then i get to school and i feel like a fucking ugly idiot how do i know if girls find me attractive or not
you have to be confident and social, you probably think you look worse than you acc do and irl even if you dont look that good being confident and social will make you easier to talk to adn also just seem more attractive, so i know that it could be hard to acct confident and your mind might just be dying from the inside, but always smile, keep head high, talk slower then usual so your better at understanding and its harder to mess up your words
 
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most of the time dating in school is not very smart since words gets round fast if you fuck up
yeah true i was thinking about getting pregab
 
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you have to be confident and social, you probably think you look worse than you acc do and irl even if you dont look that good being confident and social will make you easier to talk to adn also just seem more attractive, so i know that it could be hard to acct confident and your mind might just be dying from the inside, but always smile, keep head high, talk slower then usual so your better at understanding and its harder to mess up your words
alright i’m gonna try that tomorrow thank you
 

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i always have so much confidence at home but then i get to school and i feel like a fucking ugly idiot how do i know if girls find me attractive or not
they will laugh at unfunny or normal things you say if not your not attractive or your not attractive enough
 

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