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Serious How do i dump my gf without her hurting herself (2 Viewers)

Serious How do i dump my gf without her hurting herself

Vrik

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I honestly just lost interest, she isnt even my type but yh. She is extremely fragile and she is always venting to me, apparently I am the only thing holding her from depression. What do I do
 

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Ion think there’s any way that won’t get her hurt
 

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Kill her
 
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rape her
 

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not the best way but ghost her
 

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I honestly just lost interest, she isnt even my type but yh. She is extremely fragile and she is always venting to me, apparently I am the only thing holding her from depression. What do I do
hard one honestly, if you still like her and have empathy for her which it sounds like since you made this post, maybe stay in the relationship but slowly draw back naturally. mark as solution 😊
 

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If she’s going to be that depressed for a long period of time, and you’re not going to be with her end the suffering, girls like that when you finally finish helping them they just discard you.
 
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I honestly just lost interest, she isnt even my type but yh. She is extremely fragile and she is always venting to me, apparently I am the only thing holding her from depression. What do I do
tell her your feelings and break up, leave the rest to fate, once she isnt your gf anymore you hold no responsibillity for her, nothing will stop a human from acting as theyre heart tells them to
 

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be realistic..just be like it was a good run🥀
 
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I honestly just lost interest, she isnt even my type but yh. She is extremely fragile and she is always venting to me, apparently I am the only thing holding her from depression. What do I do
I think It causes more damage if you try to do it "painless" or whatever, Just leave her thats it but just document everything for The future, She could hurt you aswell if you know what i mean
 
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i mean it is the easiest way 😅
When Youve got a PC and it seems to be bugging you can simply pull the plug and it shuts down, easy, but the risk of it being damaged is very high
 

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Just say "im breaking up with you" if she says "but whyyyy" just say "cause I want to and I can do whatever the fuck i want"
 
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explain how you care about them and yada yada but be sincere and shit

then state that you're going through your own problems lately and her heavy venting is draining and puts you down
then say smth like
"its not you, i just dont have the energy to carry everything properly, you deserve someone who's willing to handle that stuff, im just incapable of that right now"
or something like that but sugar coat it like crazy
 

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explain how you care about them and yada yada but be sincere and shit

then state that you're going through your own problems lately and her heavy venting is draining and puts you down
then say smth like
"its not you, i just dont have the energy to carry everything properly, you deserve someone who's willing to handle that stuff, im just incapable of that right now"
or something like that but sugar coat it like crazy
Nah , he should just be 100% honest. Never be a people pleaser always state your honest opinions if your breaking up with a girl cause shes fat just say "im breaking up with you cause your fat" Telling people white lies is a bitch trait
 
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I honestly just lost interest, she isnt even my type but yh. She is extremely fragile and she is always venting to me, apparently I am the only thing holding her from depression. What do I do
"Hurt her feelings":banderas:

Nigga r we deadass they dont have feelings, just do the usual and sell her to underground sex markets
 

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I honestly just lost interest, she isnt even my type but yh. She is extremely fragile and she is always venting to me, apparently I am the only thing holding her from depression. What do I do
who cares

just let her do what she wants
 

VelocityAnt

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Got like ~75% chance she destroy herself after the breakup maybe even try to kill herself:banderas::banderas:.

If she never had any self harming history or is mature enough, ur good to go, if not then
Cracking Up Lol GIF by STRAPPED!
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Meh could try to have another man court her and have her and shi then either crash out and say "why are u cheating on me :RAGE:"

Or​

Make her cheat and u too cheat, then say some shi like "Oh we love different ppl, it should be over blahblah" idk go get some sentences lubed up so it passes easy.
 
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Nah , he should just be 100% honest. Never be a people pleaser always state your honest opinions if your breaking up with a girl cause shes fat just say "im breaking up with you cause your fat" Telling people white lies is a bitch trait
most empathetic generation btw
 

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Just be honest

who cares what she does. Doesn't effect you
 

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I honestly just lost interest, she isnt even my type but yh. She is extremely fragile and she is always venting to me, apparently I am the only thing holding her from depression. What do I do
why do you care so much about a woman you dont even love

what does it matter if she kills herself or goes into extreme depression, just ghost her and get on with your life
 

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Just be honest

who cares what she does. Doesn't effect you
You know how they go, I might be selfish but if she ever khs I wont be able to live with it
 
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I honestly just lost interest, she isnt even my type but yh. She is extremely fragile and she is always venting to me, apparently I am the only thing holding her from depression. What do I do
Bro asking relationship advice on a incelforum

But anyway there is technically no real way just let go and stop caring
 

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explain how you care about them and yada yada but be sincere and shit

then state that you're going through your own problems lately and her heavy venting is draining and puts you down
then say smth like
"its not you, i just dont have the energy to carry everything properly, you deserve someone who's willing to handle that stuff, im just incapable of that right now"
or something like that but sugar coat it like crazy
queue the suicide threats
 
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Last place to get advice from a site which mostly hates females
 

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I honestly just lost interest, she isnt even my type but yh. She is extremely fragile and she is always venting to me, apparently I am the only thing holding her from depression. What do I do
Went through the same thing brother, either make her hate u without driving her insane like giving her the “ick”
 

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I honestly just lost interest, she isnt even my type but yh. She is extremely fragile and she is always venting to me, apparently I am the only thing holding her from depression. What do I do
Was in a similar situation, probably try to make an argument, and act like you're already pissed about something, you're in a bad mood, and initiate a fight, stretch the argument and finally do the deed
 

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nothing, natural selection if she offs herself.
 

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I honestly just lost interest, she isnt even my type but yh. She is extremely fragile and she is always venting to me, apparently I am the only thing holding her from depression. What do I do
Bruv fuck her life is too short too give a fuck if someone else is sad break up
 

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