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Ravana

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Hair is really one of the things people worry about when it comes to looks.

If you're not going bald and your hair looks okay you're good to go. There's no haircut thats going to suddenly make you super attractive. People talk about hair like its the key to being good-looking but most of the time it doesn't make that much of a difference.

I used to stress about hair all the time. I tried styles grew it out looked for the perfect look and even copied what I saw online.. Then I shaved it all off and the funniest thing was that most people said I looked better with a buzzcut than with long hair. That made me realize how much people overthink hair.

The truth is, your face shape, body, skin, confidence and how you carry yourself matter way more than your hair. Guys who are already attractive still look good with simple haircuts. Meanwhile average guys think that if they just get the hair they'll be good-looking but it doesn't work that way.

Hair can make you look a bit better sure. Bad hair can make you look worse.. People act like theres a perfect hairstyle thats going to make them super attractive and thats usually not true.

The only time hair really matters is if you're going bald. That can make a difference.. If you have a normal hairline and healthy hair you're already ahead of the game. Everything after that is small stuff that people get hung up on because its easier than dealing with bigger issues.

A lot of guys use hair as an excuse because its easier to blame your haircut than to admit you have problems. Hair is hair. Its not the key, to being good-looking.

Yes i know this is basic knowledge and yes i used an AI for this. I just wanted an excuse to post this jfl
 

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  • #2
Hair is really one of the things people worry about when it comes to looks.

If you're not going bald and your hair looks okay you're good to go. There's no haircut thats going to suddenly make you super attractive. People talk about hair like its the key to being good-looking but most of the time it doesn't make that much of a difference.

I used to stress about hair all the time. I tried styles grew it out looked for the perfect look and even copied what I saw online.. Then I shaved it all off and the funniest thing was that most people said I looked better with a buzzcut than with long hair. That made me realize how much people overthink hair.

The truth is, your face shape, body, skin, confidence and how you carry yourself matter way more than your hair. Guys who are already attractive still look good with simple haircuts. Meanwhile average guys think that if they just get the hair they'll be good-looking but it doesn't work that way.

Hair can make you look a bit better sure. Bad hair can make you look worse.. People act like theres a perfect hairstyle thats going to make them super attractive and thats usually not true.

The only time hair really matters is if you're going bald. That can make a difference.. If you have a normal hairline and healthy hair you're already ahead of the game. Everything after that is small stuff that people get hung up on because its easier than dealing with bigger issues.

A lot of guys use hair as an excuse because its easier to blame your haircut than to admit you have problems. Hair is hair. Its not the key, to being good-looking.

Yes i know this is basic knowledge and yes i used an AI for this. I just wanted an excuse to post this jfl
I mean hair can still help to hide failos but fir the most part yeah grow it long style then and thats pretty much it
 

Jamessy

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Hair is really one of the things people worry about when it comes to looks.

If you're not going bald and your hair looks okay you're good to go. There's no haircut thats going to suddenly make you super attractive. People talk about hair like its the key to being good-looking but most of the time it doesn't make that much of a difference.

I used to stress about hair all the time. I tried styles grew it out looked for the perfect look and even copied what I saw online.. Then I shaved it all off and the funniest thing was that most people said I looked better with a buzzcut than with long hair. That made me realize how much people overthink hair.

The truth is, your face shape, body, skin, confidence and how you carry yourself matter way more than your hair. Guys who are already attractive still look good with simple haircuts. Meanwhile average guys think that if they just get the hair they'll be good-looking but it doesn't work that way.

Hair can make you look a bit better sure. Bad hair can make you look worse.. People act like theres a perfect hairstyle thats going to make them super attractive and thats usually not true.

The only time hair really matters is if you're going bald. That can make a difference.. If you have a normal hairline and healthy hair you're already ahead of the game. Everything after that is small stuff that people get hung up on because its easier than dealing with bigger issues.

A lot of guys use hair as an excuse because its easier to blame your haircut than to admit you have problems. Hair is hair. Its not the key, to being good-looking.

Yes i know this is basic knowledge and yes i used an AI for this. I just wanted an excuse to post this jfl
Completely agree but I think you do need to find something that suits you as I have really bad protruding ears. I have a longer hairstyle now and you can’t even tell that I have that issue or somebody like Marlon when he had long hair he looked kind of retarded until he buzzed it all off. He also just got older and his bones grew more but that is just the best example I could think of right now. and I don’t think most average men are trying to cope with their hair. I genuinely think they just don’t know the issues that they do have with their face as most people don’t even know what facial aesthetics even is or harmony.
 

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No.
 

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lemme just add
if you have low-medium dimo, hair is very important and can add a massive halo
if you have high dimo and a good skull shape you can have any haircut really and it doesn’t matter as much
 

Ravana

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lemme just add
if you have low-medium dimo, hair is very important and can add a massive halo
if you have high dimo and a good skull shape you can have any haircut really and it doesn’t matter as much
not really, i have low to mid dimo and everyone says i looks better with a buzzcut, also started getting more play with the buzzcut. Before i add medium hair, i had like a messy middle part with some texture, you get my point. But yeah i totally agree it can varie from person to person
 

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not really, i have low to mid dimo and everyone says i looks better with a buzzcut, also started getting more play with the buzzcut. Before i add medium hair, i had like a messy middle part with some texture, you get my point. But yeah i totally agree it can varie from person to person
i mean when i said “low to mid dimo” its kinda a vague term but i meant more like if you have a feminine skull shape or recessed/weak jaw then hair can balance things out
 

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  • #9
Good hair can definitely perceive u to be more attractive, people with tall skull usually go for longer hair because it helps balance the face more, if they just go bald they will look like some autistic child.
Speaking from personal experience and the people I've seen around me. You can try it urself just go bald and see what happens ☠️
 

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Good hair can definitely perceive u to be more attractive, people with tall skull usually go for longer hair because it helps balance the face more, if they just go bald they will look like some autistic child.
Speaking from personal experience and the people I've seen around me. You can try it urself just go bald and see what happens ☠️
i get more play rn with a buzzcut, but yeah it varies from person to person
 

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i get more play rn with a buzzcut, but yeah it varies from person to person
Well not everyone can rock a buzz, it all comes to ur face shape and all that.
 

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  • #12
Hair is really one of the things people worry about when it comes to looks.

If you're not going bald and your hair looks okay you're good to go. There's no haircut thats going to suddenly make you super attractive. People talk about hair like its the key to being good-looking but most of the time it doesn't make that much of a difference.

I used to stress about hair all the time. I tried styles grew it out looked for the perfect look and even copied what I saw online.. Then I shaved it all off and the funniest thing was that most people said I looked better with a buzzcut than with long hair. That made me realize how much people overthink hair.

The truth is, your face shape, body, skin, confidence and how you carry yourself matter way more than your hair. Guys who are already attractive still look good with simple haircuts. Meanwhile average guys think that if they just get the hair they'll be good-looking but it doesn't work that way.

Hair can make you look a bit better sure. Bad hair can make you look worse.. People act like theres a perfect hairstyle thats going to make them super attractive and thats usually not true.

The only time hair really matters is if you're going bald. That can make a difference.. If you have a normal hairline and healthy hair you're already ahead of the game. Everything after that is small stuff that people get hung up on because its easier than dealing with bigger issues.

A lot of guys use hair as an excuse because its easier to blame your haircut than to admit you have problems. Hair is hair. Its not the key, to being good-looking.

Yes i know this is basic knowledge and yes i used an AI for this. I just wanted an excuse to post this jfl
you can solo out 90% of features and say this dnr
 

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