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Clubmaxing - How to Dance & Pull Without Being Weird
By: Aiphok
Thread song
Just listen to it
Table of Contents
Introduction
The "Intentional" Clubber
Psychological Root of the Problem
Social Gain from Having Fun
How to Approach
How to Dance
Conclusion
Introduction:
A lot of guys spend all their time improving their looks only to completely throw away all their potential the second they step into the club. They walk into the menu with one goal: to slay. They completely feel lost, stop talking to their friends, and start hovering over group of girls as if they are their bodyguard.
It is such an important thing to understand that if you go to the club and make it obvious you are only their to slay, it instantly lowers your perception. It gives off such a desperate feel (lhtn and above can majority of times get away with this).
This guide is going to go over why you need to steer away from that mindset (or at least hide it). The reality of social maxing at the club is simple: you go out to have a genuine and high energy time with your boys, and you then get the girls.
The "Intentional" Clubber:
Let's start off with who you shouldn't be
Psychological Root of the Problem:
The main reason why guys give off this terrible presence comes down to their intent. When your primary goal is chasing external validation rather than genuine enjoyment, your body language just shuts off.
Here, this happens because you're hyper focussed on a potential outcome, which in return causes your body to become really stiff, and you're not enjoying your time with friends to instead plan out who and how you are going to approach. This makes the entire social situation feel forced and unnatural.
Social Gain from Having Fun:
Improving your status in the club environment provides huge gains for you aesthetically and psychologically, as it will increase your perceived social value immediately. This is because when you are really laughing, dancing, and having fun with your boys, you become someone who has something to offer rather than someone who needs something.
This approachable attitude works just like a magnet that draws people towards you. Once you are completely focussed on having fun, your body language becomes smooth. The girls are attracted to a guy who is approachable, relaxed, and really out going. Rather than making a forced connection, you create a vibe that others are drawn to.
How to Approach:
Ok, now that you have had some fun with your boys, you can approach. You should already have a girl in mind from feeling out the crowd in the club. I forgot to mention that right when you get inside, you can "go to the bathroom" to take a quick lap around the venue to scout for options without making it look obvious. Anyways, how do you actually approach the girl?!?!
Anyways, how do you actually approach the girl?!?! First, you want to look for IOIs (Indicators of Interest), which could be simple eye tag or a smile from afar. Once you spot the IOI, you don't just abruptly march over there. You go over slowly and confidently. It is honestly best to almost "dance" your way over so you don't break your rhythm. Once you arrive, start dancing with the entire group of girls; you HAVE to include more than just the girl you want because getting the group's approval is mandatory. After some shared dancing and singing, pivot and start talking to the target. Joke around with her, tell her she can't dance for shit (obviously in a joking way, so get those pearly whites out so she knows it's trolls). I also got this trick for introducing myself from the legend Pneumo:
Trust me it works, it makes the girl laugh (not at you, but with you). Just be yourself and be confident. Don't show her your sexual intentions right at the start. Literally just have fun!
How to Dance:
Are you retarded? Just dance to the beat of the music. It doesn't matter how shit the dance is, just move around and have fun!
Everyone is focussed on themselves to worry about how some random is dancing at the club.
@i_blame_oxytocin at the club leak
Conclusion:
Moral of the story: Just have fun!
Be young
Be foolish
Be Aiphok
By: Aiphok
Thread song
Just listen to it
Table of Contents
Introduction
The "Intentional" Clubber
Psychological Root of the Problem
Social Gain from Having Fun
How to Approach
How to Dance
Conclusion
Introduction:
A lot of guys spend all their time improving their looks only to completely throw away all their potential the second they step into the club. They walk into the menu with one goal: to slay. They completely feel lost, stop talking to their friends, and start hovering over group of girls as if they are their bodyguard.
It is such an important thing to understand that if you go to the club and make it obvious you are only their to slay, it instantly lowers your perception. It gives off such a desperate feel (lhtn and above can majority of times get away with this).
This guide is going to go over why you need to steer away from that mindset (or at least hide it). The reality of social maxing at the club is simple: you go out to have a genuine and high energy time with your boys, and you then get the girls.
The "Intentional" Clubber:
Let's start off with who you shouldn't be
What traits makes up this individual?
- Making it obvious you are scanning the place
- Have a very stiff position and just observing
- Hovering over or near a group of girls without dancing or moving around
- Having an intense/serious facial expression (cheer up and smile brother, you don't need to fraud hunter eyers)
- Making it obvious you are scanning the place
- Have a very stiff position and just observing
- Hovering over or near a group of girls without dancing or moving around
- Having an intense/serious facial expression (cheer up and smile brother, you don't need to fraud hunter eyers)
Psychological Root of the Problem:
The main reason why guys give off this terrible presence comes down to their intent. When your primary goal is chasing external validation rather than genuine enjoyment, your body language just shuts off.
Here, this happens because you're hyper focussed on a potential outcome, which in return causes your body to become really stiff, and you're not enjoying your time with friends to instead plan out who and how you are going to approach. This makes the entire social situation feel forced and unnatural.
Social Gain from Having Fun:
Improving your status in the club environment provides huge gains for you aesthetically and psychologically, as it will increase your perceived social value immediately. This is because when you are really laughing, dancing, and having fun with your boys, you become someone who has something to offer rather than someone who needs something.
This approachable attitude works just like a magnet that draws people towards you. Once you are completely focussed on having fun, your body language becomes smooth. The girls are attracted to a guy who is approachable, relaxed, and really out going. Rather than making a forced connection, you create a vibe that others are drawn to.
How to Approach:
Ok, now that you have had some fun with your boys, you can approach. You should already have a girl in mind from feeling out the crowd in the club. I forgot to mention that right when you get inside, you can "go to the bathroom" to take a quick lap around the venue to scout for options without making it look obvious. Anyways, how do you actually approach the girl?!?!
Anyways, how do you actually approach the girl?!?! First, you want to look for IOIs (Indicators of Interest), which could be simple eye tag or a smile from afar. Once you spot the IOI, you don't just abruptly march over there. You go over slowly and confidently. It is honestly best to almost "dance" your way over so you don't break your rhythm. Once you arrive, start dancing with the entire group of girls; you HAVE to include more than just the girl you want because getting the group's approval is mandatory. After some shared dancing and singing, pivot and start talking to the target. Joke around with her, tell her she can't dance for shit (obviously in a joking way, so get those pearly whites out so she knows it's trolls). I also got this trick for introducing myself from the legend Pneumo:
Trust me it works, it makes the girl laugh (not at you, but with you). Just be yourself and be confident. Don't show her your sexual intentions right at the start. Literally just have fun!
How to Dance:
Are you retarded? Just dance to the beat of the music. It doesn't matter how shit the dance is, just move around and have fun!
Everyone is focussed on themselves to worry about how some random is dancing at the club.
@i_blame_oxytocin at the club leak
Conclusion:
Moral of the story: Just have fun!
Be young
Be foolish
Be Aiphok
Rep for the effort
