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Venting girlfriend keeps getting mad at me

0psl75iq

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Me and my gf have been dating for around a month and its been mostly fine. Every few weeks or so we get into arguments because of stuff about me and all that but i dont know how to keep her happy. Just a few days ago she got mad at me because she found some of my messages to an ex and got mad that i dont show her the same type of affection. Hate my ex with a burning passion because she ended up fucking me over (didnt cheat so theres that) and after the breakup i've just been LDAR all the time. Gave up on my hobbies, vidya, social skills, you get the gist. Ever since then i havent had the motivation to put effort into anything and its clearly messing with our relationship. I like her. Shes nice to me, looks good, and is a very good person in general, but I haven't been able to show her the attention/affection she wants. I wanna do that but at the same time I dont trust in myself to fully commit because I know ill eventually fuck up sometime later.

What do i do atp?
 

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If u think will ruin everything u will ruin everything your doing a self-fulfilling prophecy
 

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Me and my gf have been dating for around a month and its been mostly fine. Every few weeks or so we get into arguments because of stuff about me and all that but i dont know how to keep her happy. Just a few days ago she got mad at me because she found some of my messages to an ex and got mad that i dont show her the same type of affection. Hate my ex with a burning passion because she ended up fucking me over (didnt cheat so theres that) and after the breakup i've just been LDAR all the time. Gave up on my hobbies, vidya, social skills, you get the gist. Ever since then i havent had the motivation to put effort into anything and its clearly messing with our relationship. I like her. Shes nice to me, looks good, and is a very good person in general, but I haven't been able to show her the attention/affection she wants. I wanna do that but at the same time I dont trust in myself to fully commit because I know ill eventually fuck up sometime later.

What do i do atp?
It may sound corny but one day try to be sad and all and then when she asks what happened and instead of saying something hug her and fake cry so she will think that you're so much attached to her, and also show her how much you love her In that moment and really try to make her sad like after the hug when asks tell her that you're sad because something bad happened on this day or maybe tell her that you want her to be happy but can't and you're trying your best. It will work FS, trust me paji. Or maybe visit a beautiful place together and buy her something cool after that.
 

Brian wazir

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Me and my gf have been dating for around a month and its been mostly fine. Every few weeks or so we get into arguments because of stuff about me and all that but i dont know how to keep her happy. Just a few days ago she got mad at me because she found some of my messages to an ex and got mad that i dont show her the same type of affection. Hate my ex with a burning passion because she ended up fucking me over (didnt cheat so theres that) and after the breakup i've just been LDAR all the time. Gave up on my hobbies, vidya, social skills, you get the gist. Ever since then i havent had the motivation to put effort into anything and its clearly messing with our relationship. I like her. Shes nice to me, looks good, and is a very good person in general, but I haven't been able to show her the attention/affection she wants. I wanna do that but at the same time I dont trust in myself to fully commit because I know ill eventually fuck up sometime later.

What do i do atp?
Trust in yourself, Bhai. DW about it. Also, what's her rating?
 

Brian wazir

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Me and my gf have been dating for around a month and its been mostly fine. Every few weeks or so we get into arguments because of stuff about me and all that but i dont know how to keep her happy. Just a few days ago she got mad at me because she found some of my messages to an ex and got mad that i dont show her the same type of affection. Hate my ex with a burning passion because she ended up fucking me over (didnt cheat so theres that) and after the breakup i've just been LDAR all the time. Gave up on my hobbies, vidya, social skills, you get the gist. Ever since then i havent had the motivation to put effort into anything and its clearly messing with our relationship. I like her. Shes nice to me, looks good, and is a very good person in general, but I haven't been able to show her the attention/affection she wants. I wanna do that but at the same time I dont trust in myself to fully commit because I know ill eventually fuck up sometime later.

What do i do atp?
I understand this shitass situation bro. Say sorry to her and pm for more cuz yk that stuff just sounds corny in general
 

0psl75iq

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It may sound corny but one day try to be sad and all and then when she asks what happened and instead of saying something hug her and fake cry so she will think that you're so much attached to her, and also show her how much you love her In that moment and really try to make her sad like after the hug when asks tell her that you're sad because something bad happened on this day or maybe tell her that you want her to be happy but can't and you're trying your best. It will work FS, trust me paji. Or maybe visit a beautiful place together and buy her something cool after that.
Sounds gay but I’ll try
 
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It may sound corny but one day try to be sad and all and then when she asks what happened and instead of saying something hug her and fake cry so she will think that you're so much attached to her, and also show her how much you love her In that moment and really try to make her sad like after the hug when asks tell her that you're sad because something bad happened on this day or maybe tell her that you want her to be happy but can't and you're trying your best. It will work FS, trust me paji. Or maybe visit a beautiful place together and buy her something cool after that.
What's this weak faggotry scenario
 
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