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First time someone coming over

Vrik

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this is my first time ever having people over like this. 1 girl 1 guy coming a few days after my birthday just to hang out. nothing crazy planned. they come around 4pm we snack talk maybe watch a movie on my tv or something simple. Idk what, maybe go to the movies but theres only dogshit.
i do like the girl (ofc I do, why else would i invite a foid) but i am not trying to force anything or make it weird. i just dont wanna fumble by overthinking or acting stiff. goal is just good vibes low pressure not awkward.
any tips on what can we do, how to keep it relaxed and not autistic would be appreciated. no overcomplicated game theory just basic human advice
 
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this is my first time ever having people over like this. 1 girl 1 guy coming a few days after my birthday just to hang out. nothing crazy planned. they come around 4pm we snack talk maybe watch a movie on my tv or something simple. Idk what, maybe go to the movies but theres only dogshit.
i do like the girl (ofc I do, why else would i invite a foid) but i am not trying to force anything or make it weird. i just dont wanna fumble by overthinking or acting stiff. goal is just good vibes low pressure not awkward.
any tips on what can we do, how to keep it relaxed and not autistic would be appreciated. no overcomplicated game theory just basic human advice
3 some
 
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this is my first time ever having people over like this. 1 girl 1 guy coming a few days after my birthday just to hang out. nothing crazy planned. they come around 4pm we snack talk maybe watch a movie on my tv or something simple. Idk what, maybe go to the movies but theres only dogshit.
i do like the girl (ofc I do, why else would i invite a foid) but i am not trying to force anything or make it weird. i just dont wanna fumble by overthinking or acting stiff. goal is just good vibes low pressure not awkward.
any tips on what can we do, how to keep it relaxed and not autistic would be appreciated. no overcomplicated game theory just basic human advice
the only reason you think its awkward is bcs youre making it dont overthink it
 

Rawwbp

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this is my first time ever having people over like this. 1 girl 1 guy coming a few days after my birthday just to hang out. nothing crazy planned. they come around 4pm we snack talk maybe watch a movie on my tv or something simple. Idk what, maybe go to the movies but theres only dogshit.
i do like the girl (ofc I do, why else would i invite a foid) but i am not trying to force anything or make it weird. i just dont wanna fumble by overthinking or acting stiff. goal is just good vibes low pressure not awkward.
any tips on what can we do, how to keep it relaxed and not autistic would be appreciated. no overcomplicated game theory just basic human advice
Stop overthinking bro
 

SinisterTRADition

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this is my first time ever having people over like this. 1 girl 1 guy coming a few days after my birthday just to hang out. nothing crazy planned. they come around 4pm we snack talk maybe watch a movie on my tv or something simple. Idk what, maybe go to the movies but theres only dogshit.
i do like the girl (ofc I do, why else would i invite a foid) but i am not trying to force anything or make it weird. i just dont wanna fumble by overthinking or acting stiff. goal is just good vibes low pressure not awkward.
any tips on what can we do, how to keep it relaxed and not autistic would be appreciated. no overcomplicated game theory just basic human advice
Don’t stress it legit just try to have a good time
 

Judenbänker

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Just let it happen and be yourself

When I had people coming over for the first time (also a couple days after my birthday lol) I also stressed and thought Id fuck up but it turned out really well no need to stress bro you got this
 
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