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i get envious if i see a motherfucke taller than me, or slightly better looking, and that shit ruins my day and week. another thing i get envious bout is when i see some luxury or experience it, e.g i see some mercs,maybachs,or rolls royces, i js get pissed off bout my day and at my parents for not building generational wealth, ive litrl cried so much before because some motherfuckers were blessed with these cars,and money, and power, and i ask god why not me, what is deficient in me, . just had to get that out
 

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being envious wont change anything
 

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I am 6'3 and born in 2010 so i always tryna flex this to cope and say "well at least im tall"

U seem to be an hmtn guy. Idk why. Then flex ur looks and say "well at least im in the top 20-25% of guys"
 

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Cope rot and i forgot the last word
 

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I am 6'3 and born in 2010 so i always tryna flex this to cope and say "well at least im tall"

U seem to be an hmtn guy. Idk why. Then flex ur looks and say "well at least im in the top 20-25% of guys"
naw bro money>looks by 100 miles
 

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i get envious if i see a motherfucke taller than me, or slightly better looking, and that shit ruins my day and week. another thing i get envious bout is when i see some luxury or experience it, e.g i see some mercs,maybachs,or rolls royces, i js get pissed off bout my day and at my parents for not building generational wealth, ive litrl cried so much before because some motherfuckers were blessed with these cars,and money, and power, and i ask god why not me, what is deficient in me, . just had to get that out
Being envious/jealous is a good thing but dont let it consume you use it instead as fuel to better yourself
 

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i get envious if i see a motherfucke taller than me, or slightly better looking, and that shit ruins my day and week. another thing i get envious bout is when i see some luxury or experience it, e.g i see some mercs,maybachs,or rolls royces, i js get pissed off bout my day and at my parents for not building generational wealth, ive litrl cried so much before because some motherfuckers were blessed with these cars,and money, and power, and i ask god why not me, what is deficient in me, . just had to get that out
only thing ive cried about in a while is just dreaming of having a lovable mtb by my side
deadass
 

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only thing ive cried about in a while is just dreaming of having a lovable mtb by my side
deadass
only women ive cried over is my mum working a lot to pay my skl fees and i js fuck up everything
 

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only women ive cried over is my mum working a lot to pay my skl fees and i js fuck up everything
i dont really seem to cry about anything anymore but i do feel bad for my parents at times, more for my mum tho
 

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i dont really seem to cry about anything anymore but i do feel bad for my parents at times, more for my mum tho
w empathy
 

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only thing ive cried about in a while is just dreaming of having a lovable mtb by my side
deadass
I cry every night about that too.
 

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I cry every night about that too.
on anything i would rather have a mtb that i could cherish and love while she only feels the same way about me than any other much more attractive woman who walks all over me
 

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i get envious if i see a motherfucke taller than me, or slightly better looking, and that shit ruins my day and week. another thing i get envious bout is when i see some luxury or experience it, e.g i see some mercs,maybachs,or rolls royces, i js get pissed off bout my day and at my parents for not building generational wealth, ive litrl cried so much before because some motherfuckers were blessed with these cars,and money, and power, and i ask god why not me, what is deficient in me, . just had to get that out
Comparison is a losing game that I’m always willing to play
 

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on anything i would rather have a mtb that i could cherish and love while she only feels the same way about me than any other much more attractive woman who walks all over me
She will come someday; we just have to keep improving and be patient.
:crying:
 

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empathy makes us human bhai, i’d say its good to have for the right people
for the right people, of course.
 

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She will come someday; we just have to keep improving and be patient.
:crying:
i tell myself this every night. hopefully it'll soon come true.
a man can only dream for now
 

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i tell myself this every night. hopefully it'll soon come true.
a man can only dream for now
thats why were here, rotting on forums, to achieve that dream
 

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thats why were here, rotting on forums, to achieve that dream
as soon as i find that one mtb i would leave so much behind for her
 

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yes i agree with that
for me i find it hard to actually want to date one though, sure they’ll be interested, but i can never seem to actually want to love them. hopefully the right persons out there though
 

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for me i find it hard to actually want to date one though, sure they’ll be interested, but i can never seem to actually want to love them. hopefully the right persons out there though
There are so many skill checks, sure you might get the number but then you might get ghosted. Maybe first date goes good then second date cold turkey. It’s complex but if you have the right qualities you can find the one
 

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for me i find it hard to actually want to date one though, sure they’ll be interested, but i can never seem to actually want to love them. hopefully the right persons out there though
exactly. only a couple come across you in a lifetime, just make sure to pick the right one
 

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exactly. only a couple come across you in a lifetime, just make sure to pick the right one
The endgame is marrying a HMTB because HTB will never look my way
 

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There are so many skill checks, sure you might get the number but then you might get ghosted. Maybe first date goes good then second date cold turkey. It’s complex but if you have the right qualities you can find the one
dont worry i know the problem and its my mindset, i can just never settle down with anyone
 

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