Discussion Bullying someone for something they can change is perfectly reasonable (1 Viewer)

[L00k]

Like I said to each of you that obviously you must have some trauma in order to grow as a person, maturity comes with experience if your not mature enough for the world they’ll break you like a fucking stick. Learn to grow a pair and be strong

 

[Scarface]

Like I said to each of you that obviously you must have some trauma in order to grow as a person, maturity comes with experience if your not mature enough for the world they’ll break you like a fucking stick. Learn to grow a pair and be strong

This is such simple shit that even a 6 year old can say
Idk about you but i got bullied for my petruding ears and ethnic race obviously those are things i cant change except for surgery on my ears
I also got bullied for being skinny and because i have pectus excavatum
Im trying to work on building muscle and stop looking like a twig even though its hard
But i would rather have someone encouraging me and believe in me that i can make the most out of myself
Instead of having to walk in school everyday and get simple comments like

“Eat more” “monkey ears” “chopstick”

And have retards telling me thats proper motivation and it barely gave me any
Because i have no one that believes in me and no one to rely on
So u can act like ur the guy with the best advice and spread bullshit thinking its that easy
But it doesn’t work like that

 

[L00k]

As you fucking mentioned you have something you can’t change which are your ears right, you also have another thing in which you can’t change which is pectus excavatum. Obviously these are the things in which you can’t change getting bullied for these is horrible and I wouldn’t want anybody to get bullied for that. You also mentioned you’re skinny and you don’t like to hear yourself getting ridiculed, I get it bro I understand you I know how it feels to hate your body, wish you were never born.

 

[L00k]

But that didn’t stop me from going to the gym consistently, eating shit that I didn’t even fucking like because it fitted into my intake. In the end when I saw my results people changed their outlook on me, I started loving myself and that’s what I’m trying to fucking explain to you bro

 

[Scarface]

But that didn’t stop me from going to the gym consistently, eating shit that I didn’t even fucking like because it fitted into my intake. In the end when I saw my results people changed their outlook on me, I started loving myself and that’s what I’m trying to fucking explain to you bro

I understand but bullying someone into changing doesn’t always work
Some people already have low self esteem or less drive to improve
Some people dont tolerate it well
And they dont get motivation they just collapse

 

[L00k]

Even though I did get bullied for my looks I used that as motivation to drive my anger into my workout and to show them that I’m a person and I can prove them wrong

 

[L00k]

I understand but bullying someone into changing doesn’t always work
Some people already have low self esteem or less drive to improve
Some people dont tolerate it well
And they dont get motivation they just

I understand but bullying someone into changing doesn’t always work
Some people already have low self esteem or less drive to improve
Some people dont tolerate it well
And they dont get motivation they just collapse

Look bro I’ll be honest with you it took me 3-4 months to start even lifting weights because I was too afraid and I overthought everything. “What if they thought I was too fat” “I can’t lift heavy weights” “I’m useless”. But I said fuck all that and even though they were doubting me when I was going to the gym telling me “your not going anywhere” “your still going to be fat” and laughing at me I still went over and over

 

[L00k]

If you live your life based on your thoughts you won’t go anywhere bro, life free stay true and do risks nobody else would do

 

[Scarface]

Look bro I’ll be honest with you it took me 3-4 months to start even lifting weights because I was too afraid and I overthought everything. “What if they thought I was too fat” “I can’t lift heavy weights” “I’m useless”. But I said fuck all that and even though they were doubting me when I was going to the gym telling me “your not going anywhere” “your still going to be fat” and laughing at me I still went over and over

Yeah im glad it went great for you
I wanted to go to the gym for a long time since its hard to train concentrated at home for me
But my father doesn’t want me to go because he thinks it will affect my growth
Even tho im 5’7 at 15 and already taller than both my parents (over)
And he thinks boxing is gonna fix the issue with me being skinny

 

[L00k]

Yeah im glad it went great for you
I wanted to go to the gym for a long time since its hard to train concentrated at home for me
But my father doesn’t want me to go because he thinks it will affect my growth
Even tho im 5’7 at 15 and already taller than both my parents (over)
And he thinks boxing is gonna fix the issue with me being skinny

Look bro I’m not going to tell you to overthrow your father or any of this bs, if you can find a way to go to the gym and box at the same time you’ll start progressing further

 

[Zeanix]

Never bully someone for their weight no matter if they're super skinny or super fat

 

[L00k]

But being super skinny or super fat is unhealthy for you, what if I cared enough to encourage you in a way that’s mean?

 

[saviour]

Argue with me on why it’s not

ur 100% right Anyone who disagrees is under 90iq

 

[Zeanix]

But being super skinny or super fat is unhealthy for you, what if I cared enough to encourage you in a way that’s mean?

What if tge only way to cope with something that happened to you is eating or you saw something and you don't ever want to eat again?? I get what you mean but encouraging and bullying are two different things

 

[Zeanix]

ur 100% right Anyone who disagrees is under 90iq

Bullying someone isn't the answer

 

[mental]

Argue with me on why it’s not

until you get bullied

 

[L00k]

What if tge only way to cope with something that happened to you is eating or you saw something and you don't ever want to eat again?? I get what you mean but encouraging and bullying are two different

What if tge only way to cope with something that happened to you is eating or you saw something and you don't ever want to eat again?? I get what you mean but encouraging and bullying are two different things

Alright so in this scenario the person has experienced trauma and he’s coping with it by eating more or not eating at all right

 

[L00k]

until you get bullied

I have bro a lot of times for many years

 

[mental]

I have bro a lot of times for many years

So, you want this to happen to others too?

 

[Zeanix]

I have bro a lot of times for many years

If you actually got bullied then you wouldn't say this. Most low iq thread on .gg

 

[L00k]

Alright so in this scenario the person has experienced trauma and he’s coping with it by eating more or not eating at all right

Well I’d understand if he needed some time off and if he was able to tell me he’s traumatised over something then it’s an unacceptable thing to bully him, he’d need obviously time to recover and hopefully he comes back to normal he’ll start coping in a healthy way. Ways that are beneficial to your body like read a book, going to the gym, changing your perspectives on things are a positive cope

 

[CoolManletGuy]

What the fucks going on with these comments bruh it’s letting me edit your msgs

stop talking to yourself

 

[L00k]

If you actually got bullied then you wouldn't say this. Most low iq thread on .gg

Look bro I can sit here and talk like an absolute incel. But bullying does help with people if you won’t do it yourself people will start noticing stuff about you and mock you for it so what’s something better to do than to go and fucking solve it

 

[CoolManletGuy]

For flooding my notifications nigga

im sorry
it was neuro's plan

 

[Zeanix]

Well I’d understand if he needed some time off and if he was able to tell me he’s traumatised over something then it’s an unacceptable thing to bully him, he’d need obviously time to recover and hopefully he comes back to normal he’ll start coping in a healthy way. Ways that are beneficial to your body like read a book, going to the gym, changing your perspectives on things are a positive cope

This is encouraging. You said they need bullying. Genuinely don't argue back. Never bully anyone even if they can change it

 

[L00k]

stop talking to yourself

This is encouraging. You said they need bullying. Genuinely don't argue back. Never bully anyone even if they can change it

Are you a fucking idiot bro, that’s if he’s going though something traumatising if he wasn’t and people are bullying you for something you can change then go and start solving it

 

[Zeanix]

Look bro I can sit here and talk like an absolute incel. But bullying does help with people if you won’t do it yourself people will start noticing stuff about you and mock you for it so what’s something better to do than to go and fucking solve it

By getting bullied you'll end up more depressed and you wouldn't do shit about it. If you actually got bullied you would understand . Once you get bullied you'll always get bullied. Doesn't matter if you lose the weight you'll always get mocked. What you meant by this thread was harsh encouragement not bullying

 

[CoolManletGuy]

Are you a fucking idiot bro, that’s if he’s going though something traumatising if he wasn’t and people are bullying you for something you can change then go and start solving it

did not read lol

 

[Zeanix]

Are you a fucking idiot bro, that’s if he’s going though something traumatising if he wasn’t and people are bullying you for something you can change then go and start solving it

Never clarified anything mister smarty pants. You said if they can change anything and won't change it then you should bully them and I gave you a reason why you should never bully anyone even if they can change it. You never know what someone is going through

 

[L00k]

By getting bullied you'll end up more depressed and you wouldn't do shit about it. If you actually got bullied you would understand . Once you get bullied you'll always get bullied. Doesn't matter if you lose the weight you'll always get mocked. What you meant by this thread was harsh encouragement not bullying

You’re right bro

 

[Zeanix]

You’re right bro

All love. Now enjoy the rest of your day/night

 

[Mr. Oxytocin]

im sorry
it was neuro's plan

Its only funny when he does it

 

[senpai]

Look I understand if people get resentful towards those who bullied them, look at it in this way when people get bullied for something they can change they get a sort of motivation to become better and to stop it overall. Let’s take being fat, if a person loses weight, goes to the gym and has a proper diet he loses weight plus looks better than what he did before. Overall destroying the thoughts of people who bullied him and in turn feeling better for himself.

or they just kts so there some terrible flaws to bullying too

 

[mtb.slayer-69]

Argue with me on why it’s not

How miserable is your life to care enough to the point you bully someone