Lets do a little thought experiment:
Let's say there's a kid named Johnny, he is unfortunately afflicted with fetal alcohol syndrome and his IQ is 72. He tries to pass his math courses but continues to fail. Here's the thing: he doesn't understand he's failing and believes that he's actually doing great! He is encouraged to just "keep trying" and told to put more effort in. Despite how much time his teachers spend tutoring him, he does not learn, and they soon realize he is simply incapable of understanding mathematics past basic arithmetic.
As you can see, Johnny's beliefs have nothing to do with reality. The reality is that he has brain damage which has rendered him unable to learn or understand certain concepts. Whether he believes that or not has no bearing on this reality. So he can choose to delude himself by thinking he just needs to try harder and that he's doing great, or align his beliefs with reality and accept he is simply not capable of doing certain things. There comes a point where effort no longer matters when trying to accomplish something, and that point is when you are not capable of doing that thing in the first place.
So what does this have to do with the Blackpill? Well, unfortunately we're in a situation not too far off from hypothetical Johnny's:
Behavioral Science has proven time and time again that females are biologically hardwired to be attracted to Chads. Men who possess a top-tier combination of genetic traits like: a strong jawline, deep set hunter eyes, tall stature, large penis, white complexion, blue/green eyes, ect. So it's fair to surmise that if your appearance deviates too far from this set of male traits which women are hardwired to be attracted to, then you will simply not find a mate. Yes, there may be a few outliers of truecels who managed to become wealthy and could buy a woman's time. But because of how female nature works she would never be genuinely attracted to him and will almost certainly just be using him for money.
That is the reality of the situation that we men face. We can continue to just "keep trying" and participate in bluepilled copes like dating coaches and PUA. Or we can align our beliefs with the reality that women will never truly love us in a romantic way because of our appearance.
At the end of the day, it doesn't matter. Reality will continue to be reality whether you believe in it or not. But I'm of the opinion that the truth sets you free. Once you're able to align your mindset with observable reality, you can begin to focus on other things that are actually worth your time.
"What cruelty, for God to give man the desire, but not the ability."
Let's say there's a kid named Johnny, he is unfortunately afflicted with fetal alcohol syndrome and his IQ is 72. He tries to pass his math courses but continues to fail. Here's the thing: he doesn't understand he's failing and believes that he's actually doing great! He is encouraged to just "keep trying" and told to put more effort in. Despite how much time his teachers spend tutoring him, he does not learn, and they soon realize he is simply incapable of understanding mathematics past basic arithmetic.
As you can see, Johnny's beliefs have nothing to do with reality. The reality is that he has brain damage which has rendered him unable to learn or understand certain concepts. Whether he believes that or not has no bearing on this reality. So he can choose to delude himself by thinking he just needs to try harder and that he's doing great, or align his beliefs with reality and accept he is simply not capable of doing certain things. There comes a point where effort no longer matters when trying to accomplish something, and that point is when you are not capable of doing that thing in the first place.
So what does this have to do with the Blackpill? Well, unfortunately we're in a situation not too far off from hypothetical Johnny's:
Behavioral Science has proven time and time again that females are biologically hardwired to be attracted to Chads. Men who possess a top-tier combination of genetic traits like: a strong jawline, deep set hunter eyes, tall stature, large penis, white complexion, blue/green eyes, ect. So it's fair to surmise that if your appearance deviates too far from this set of male traits which women are hardwired to be attracted to, then you will simply not find a mate. Yes, there may be a few outliers of truecels who managed to become wealthy and could buy a woman's time. But because of how female nature works she would never be genuinely attracted to him and will almost certainly just be using him for money.
That is the reality of the situation that we men face. We can continue to just "keep trying" and participate in bluepilled copes like dating coaches and PUA. Or we can align our beliefs with the reality that women will never truly love us in a romantic way because of our appearance.
At the end of the day, it doesn't matter. Reality will continue to be reality whether you believe in it or not. But I'm of the opinion that the truth sets you free. Once you're able to align your mindset with observable reality, you can begin to focus on other things that are actually worth your time.
"What cruelty, for God to give man the desire, but not the ability."
