I actually never believed in it before, i have dated an avoidant recently. It was hell. And i thought hmm maybe she is just a really bad person yk most likely not avoidant, she constantly told me that i need to find an another girl that wont hurt me, that i need better than her, i didnt listen. I just reasured reasured and again reasured her that shes the only one i like, i bought her flowers, planned dates, gave gifts basi ally did everything that u could ask a guy to give.
How it all started:
Well abiut 2 months in i asked her if i could have the honour to be her boyfriend, she was really skeptical and my first attempt failed but i tried again after a week and she said yes, what i immidietly noticed was that she loved having control and doing everything that you would do in a relation ship while not in a relation ship, it was obvious after a week of dating, a month in and she told me shes not ready and whatever bla bla bla sop story, basically from dating we went to a talking stage, REMEMBER THIS! A week prior she mentioned a party she will go to, after mentioning it 3 days later we "broke up" and it was ok then after a few days she wen to the party and i was conserned i told her hey u should not go, she said its okay nothing will happen, so she went there and nothing happened 2 days later i went to her home and we talked, really talked, we still kissed hugged and everything, and then we started talking about us, basically she told me straight lies " its not that i dont want it with you i just dont want it with anyone" i remember these words like i heard it yesterday. Anyways things went ok i went home a few days passed and shes telling me shes afraid of loosing me so much, monday night i get a call from my friend at night, turns out at the party she was messing with an another dude. Techically she didnt cheat because we have "broken up" but morally it was still cheating. So i crash out i start shaking i call her and start ugly crying "why the fuck why did you do this to me?" and she basically kept denying everything later on she gave up.
I started telling everyone that she cheated and she got a shit ton of hate, to the point her windows were just smeared with eggs, she got mad and started sending screnshots of fake convos with me where i basically "admit" that i aka am a manipulator, and just overall some fakeass shit, no one believed her lmao, she tried sending her male friends to confront me, EVEN THEN i managed to turn them against her
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Basically vented my shit out, never fucking again. Now im avoidant as fuck i push every girl away after i make them seem like we are something, i use a shit ton of girls. In the span of a month i rejected 3 girls, chrrently talking to one that will most likely have the same fate because i just cant feel shit, and i have the urge to push her away to end everything. I think the best decision for me would be to just take a break from everything. But i cant manage that because pulling a girl is such a fun game. So ye basically still healing from all this bs. Moral of the story; never trust bitches.
"Some relationships are lessons you never asked for"
This one was definently a lesson, a really good one.
U dont have to read this i just wanted to vent my shit out
How it all started:
Well abiut 2 months in i asked her if i could have the honour to be her boyfriend, she was really skeptical and my first attempt failed but i tried again after a week and she said yes, what i immidietly noticed was that she loved having control and doing everything that you would do in a relation ship while not in a relation ship, it was obvious after a week of dating, a month in and she told me shes not ready and whatever bla bla bla sop story, basically from dating we went to a talking stage, REMEMBER THIS! A week prior she mentioned a party she will go to, after mentioning it 3 days later we "broke up" and it was ok then after a few days she wen to the party and i was conserned i told her hey u should not go, she said its okay nothing will happen, so she went there and nothing happened 2 days later i went to her home and we talked, really talked, we still kissed hugged and everything, and then we started talking about us, basically she told me straight lies " its not that i dont want it with you i just dont want it with anyone" i remember these words like i heard it yesterday. Anyways things went ok i went home a few days passed and shes telling me shes afraid of loosing me so much, monday night i get a call from my friend at night, turns out at the party she was messing with an another dude. Techically she didnt cheat because we have "broken up" but morally it was still cheating. So i crash out i start shaking i call her and start ugly crying "why the fuck why did you do this to me?" and she basically kept denying everything later on she gave up.
I started telling everyone that she cheated and she got a shit ton of hate, to the point her windows were just smeared with eggs, she got mad and started sending screnshots of fake convos with me where i basically "admit" that i aka am a manipulator, and just overall some fakeass shit, no one believed her lmao, she tried sending her male friends to confront me, EVEN THEN i managed to turn them against her
. Basically vented my shit out, never fucking again. Now im avoidant as fuck i push every girl away after i make them seem like we are something, i use a shit ton of girls. In the span of a month i rejected 3 girls, chrrently talking to one that will most likely have the same fate because i just cant feel shit, and i have the urge to push her away to end everything. I think the best decision for me would be to just take a break from everything. But i cant manage that because pulling a girl is such a fun game. So ye basically still healing from all this bs. Moral of the story; never trust bitches.
"Some relationships are lessons you never asked for"
This one was definently a lesson, a really good one.
U dont have to read this i just wanted to vent my shit out
JBG
