Discussion Any guide out there on how dating truly works (1 Viewer)

[Ash2Flame]

I know that looks matter a lot in dating, but I feel like I’ve been relying on my appearance too much. Because of that, I struggle to build a deep, meaningful connection with a girl. I’ve tried really hard to find advice about dating that isn’t just some normie bluepilled bs.

Someday, I want to marry a girl and feel deeply connected to her. Before I learned about all these ideas around bp and dating dynamics, I felt like I could connect more naturally. Now it feels different. My relationships seem to revolve mostly around looks, and I don’t know if dating is truly just about SMV, or if I was simply unaware of that before.

Now that I see everything through that lens, I can’t unsee it. I’m not sure whether deep emotional connection in dating is real, or if I’ve just become too superficial to let it develop.

 

[Godveil Heir]

All you want is a better girl.
You clearly do not have the high-level intelligence to find a high-sapience girl and have a deep meaningful connection; you have a monkey brain.
All you want is a stunningly beautiful girl with status and aura. Whether you get it or not is entirely up to you.

 

[Perfectionist]

I know that looks matter a lot in dating, but I feel like I’ve been relying on my appearance too much. Because of that, I struggle to build a deep, meaningful connection with a girl. I’ve tried really hard to find advice about dating that isn’t just some normie bluepilled bs.

Someday, I want to marry a girl and feel deeply connected to her. Before I learned about all these ideas around bp and dating dynamics, I felt like I could connect more naturally. Now it feels different. My relationships seem to revolve mostly around looks, and I don’t know if dating is truly just about SMV, or if I was simply unaware of that before.

Now that I see everything through that lens, I can’t unsee it. I’m not sure whether deep emotional connection in dating is real, or if I’ve just become too superficial to let it develop.

Build a connection by prioritizing the relationship with you and her. Give her attention, care for her, listen to her. Simultaneously she should do the same thing to you. This is how you can build a slight connection.

 

[littlestjeff1]

ngas on an incel forum asking for dating advice

 

[Ash2Flame]

All you want is a better girl.
You clearly do not have the high-level intelligence to find a high-sapience girl and have a deep meaningful connection; you have a monkey brain.
All you want is a stunningly beautiful girl with status and aura. Whether you get it or not is entirely up to you.

I’m not saying I only want a better-looking girl. What I’m questioning is whether raw sexual attraction plays most of the role if not the entirety of it in dating.

From my experience, even girls who present themselves as very sophisticated or morally principled still respond strongly to attraction and emotion. That made me start wondering whether dating especially ltr is primarily driven by sexual attraction and emotional chemistry rather than deep intellectual or spiritual connection.

I’m genuinely trying to know of whether deep connection actually matters or whether attraction is the foundation and everything else is the cherry on top

 

[Perfectionist]

I’m not saying I only want a better-looking girl. What I’m questioning is whether raw sexual attraction plays most of the role if not the entirety of it in dating.

From my experience, even girls who present themselves as very sophisticated or morally principled still respond strongly to attraction and emotion. That made me start wondering whether dating especially ltr is primarily driven by sexual attraction and emotional chemistry rather than deep intellectual or spiritual connection.

I’m genuinely trying to know of whether deep connection actually matters or whether attraction is the foundation and everything else is the cherry on top

Dating is fueled upon sexual desires, marriage requires connection, responsibility etc

 

[Perfectionist]

Dating is fueled upon sexual desires, marriage requires connection, responsibility etc

Niggas date just to fuck

 

[Ash2Flame]

Dating is fueled upon sexual desires, marriage requires connection, responsibility etc

I feel like most of it is cope.For example they did a study where they asked women if they could have a second husband what would it be for and 90% of them asked for a second husband only for sex.

 

[Perfectionist]

I feel like most of it is cope.For example they did a study where they asked women if they could have a second husband what would it be for and 90% of them asked for a second husband only for sex.

 

[Mirin]

All you want is a better girl.
You clearly do not have the high-level intelligence to find a high-sapience girl and have a deep meaningful connection; you have a monkey brain.
All you want is a stunningly beautiful girl with status and aura. Whether you get it or not is entirely up to you.

 

[Mirin]

Insert your images fag

 

[Mirin]

Ash2Flame instead of thinking how happy you'd be with a person you share a deep connection with you are thinking about her face and body, truly a stupid modern mindset

 

[Ash2Flame]

Ash2Flame instead of thinking how happy you'd be with a person you share a deep connection with you are thinking about her face and body, truly a stupid modern mindset

I didn’t say that. What I’m saying is that in my experience, a lot of my dating dynamics seem to revolve around my looks. For example, I experimented with how my personality might change things whether I acted very kind and attentive or more detached and even a bit of an asshole and the overall dynamic didn’t shift that much even if the girl was "sophisticated"

That’s what made me question how dating, at least in my case, is driven almost entirely by physical attraction rather than deeper compatibility and also thing is that i know the age reaper is coming for all of us and with the divorce rates in the west i truly wonder if the get married have kids and live happy forever dream is achievable nowadays

 

[birthdefect]

All you want is a better girl.
You clearly do not have the high-level intelligence to find a high-sapience girl and have a deep meaningful connection; you have a monkey brain.
All you want is a stunningly beautiful girl with status and aura. Whether you get it or not is entirely up to you.

you dont understand the rarity
intelligence of the seeker and and intelligence of their goal dont correlate at a certain point

 

[Godveil Heir]

you dont understand the rarity
intelligence of the seeker and and intelligence of their goal dont correlate at a certain point

the monkeys are incapable of building deep, meaningful connections
they have this bottleneck because of their own lack intelligence.

 

[Ash2Flame]

the monkeys are incapable of building deep, meaningful connections
they have this bottleneck because of their own lack intelligence.

Ill rape u nigger i probably have an higher iq because clearly you cant read

I didn’t say that. What I’m saying is that in my experience, a lot of my dating dynamics seem to revolve around my looks. For example, I experimented with how my personality might change things whether I acted very kind and attentive or more detached and even a bit of an asshole and the overall dynamic didn’t shift that much even if the girl was "sophisticated"

That’s what made me question how dating, at least in my case, is driven almost entirely by physical attraction rather than deeper compatibility and also thing is that i know the age reaper is coming for all of us and with the divorce rates in the west i truly wonder if the get married have kids and live happy forever dream is achievable nowadays

stop larping

 

[birthdefect]

the monkeys are incapable of building deep, meaningful connections
they have this bottleneck because of their own lack intelligence.

how niggas feel the moment a morsel of eloquence falls into their brain
you're not some dictator warlord philosopher, you're just a rotter at heart like the rest of us, its what brings us together

 

[Godveil Heir]

Ill rape u nigger i probably have an higher iq because clearly you cant read


stop larping

dnr your incel rant
idc monkey

how niggas feel the moment a morsel of eloquence falls into their brain
you're not some dictator warlord philosopher, you're just a rotter at heart like the rest of us, its what brings us together

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