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Am I the asshole for this? Whole group turned on me. (1 Viewer)

Am I the asshole for this? Whole group turned on me.

maxthomson

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So i was at a party with my friend group, and this girl whos a year younger than me liked me which i got told about, everyone wanted us to get together, so we all got drunk at the party, lets call her Maria, so i asked Maria if she wanted to go round the corner to “have a talk” then i asked her if she wanted to start kissing. Fine, no problem i was against the wall aswell, so as any man would do i held onto her waist and grabbed her butt and she was fine with it in the moment, gave no clear signal to stop, but then soon as i rejected her, the whole friend group turn on me and she accuses me of SA, even though she hugged me and say bye after that aswell,

So just to summarise, we were both drunk, consented to kissing but because i touch her butt which is pretty normal when kissing she then said it was SA and gave me no clear signal in the moment to stop.

I need someone to talk to this about.
 

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So i was at a party with my friend group, and this girl whos a year younger than me liked me which i got told about, everyone wanted us to get together, so we all got drunk at the party, lets call her Maria, so i asked Maria if she wanted to go round the corner to “have a talk” then i asked her if she wanted to start kissing. Fine, no problem i was against the wall aswell, so as any man would do i held onto her waist and grabbed her butt and she was fine with it in the moment, gave no clear signal to stop, but then soon as i rejected her, the whole friend group turn on me and she accuses me of SA, even though she hugged me and say bye after that aswell,

So just to summarise, we were both drunk, consented to kissing but because i touch her butt which is pretty normal when kissing she then said it was SA and gave me no clear signal in the moment to stop.

I need someone to talk to this about.
another foid classic
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She liked me and i said i didnt like her back, but the problem was i kissed her because i was drunk (with consent)
So i was at a party with my friend group, and this girl whos a year younger than me liked me which i got told about, everyone wanted us to get together, so we all got drunk at the party, lets call her Maria, so i asked Maria if she wanted to go round the corner to “have a talk” then i asked her if she wanted to start kissing. Fine, no problem i was against the wall aswell, so as any man would do i held onto her waist and grabbed her butt and she was fine with it in the moment, gave no clear signal to stop, but then soon as i rejected her, the whole friend group turn on me and she accuses me of SA, even though she hugged me and say bye after that aswell,

So just to summarise, we were both drunk, consented to kissing but because i touch her butt which is pretty normal when kissing she then said it was SA and gave me no clear signal in the moment to stop.

I need someone to talk to this about.
It Seems like she cant handle a no jfl:spider:
 
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So i was at a party with my friend group, and this girl whos a year younger than me liked me which i got told about, everyone wanted us to get together, so we all got drunk at the party, lets call her Maria, so i asked Maria if she wanted to go round the corner to “have a talk” then i asked her if she wanted to start kissing. Fine, no problem i was against the wall aswell, so as any man would do i held onto her waist and grabbed her butt and she was fine with it in the moment, gave no clear signal to stop, but then soon as i rejected her, the whole friend group turn on me and she accuses me of SA, even though she hugged me and say bye after that aswell,

So just to summarise, we were both drunk, consented to kissing but because i touch her butt which is pretty normal when kissing she then said it was SA and gave me no clear signal in the moment to stop.

I need someone to talk to this about.
I wouldnt worry about it, if the group believes that dumb lying foid then thats on them and they’re retarded. Based on the story i dont think you did anything wrong so youre fine.
 

maxthomson

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I wouldnt worry about it, if the group believes that dumb lying foid then thats on them and they’re retarded. Based on the story i dont think you did anything wrong so youre fine.
Yeah, well her justification was "i said yeah to kissing but not grabbing my ass" WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU WANT ME TO DO HOLD MY HANDS BEHIND MY FUCKING BACK. And the girl said "i couldnt give a signal because i froze" SO WHY DID YOU CONTINUE TO KISS ME THEN
 

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