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Advice Talking to a girl

mestizojak

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How do I talk to this girl in my classroom, we sit close but not at the same table
I think she liked me in 9th grade but idk now
Shes pretty much my looksmatch, but she mogs me by a little
 

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move close
touch her hand
touch her face/chin
put your head on her shoulder

do these things to check/flirt, at different times
 

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Slow game has 100% success rate for me personally. Talk with her more often (gradually) slide in subtle compliments and kind gestures to show friendliness. If she reciprocates move faster or get more intense with it by flirting. At that point you should already have her insta/number.
 

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Slow game has 100% success rate for me personally. Talk with her more often (gradually) slide in subtle compliments and kind gestures to show friendliness. If she reciprocates move faster or get more intense with it by flirting. At that point you should already have her insta/number.
Today she looked back at me during dismissal does that mean something
 

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Today she looked back at me during dismissal does that mean something
Looking only means something when it’s prolonged or often. Multiple times a class period usually means she notices you. I’d say if you see her do it 5+ times she’s attracted to you, even if she herself doesn’t notice it. BTW mark as solution this is the best advice here
 

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Looking only means something when it’s prolonged or often. Multiple times a class period usually means she notices you. I’d say if you see her do it 5+ times she’s attracted to you, even if she herself doesn’t notice it. BTW mark as solution this is the best advice here
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Looking only means something when it’s prolonged or often. Multiple times a class period usually means she notices you. I’d say if you see her do it 5+ times she’s attracted to you, even if she herself doesn’t notice it. BTW mark as solution this is the best advice here
BTW mestizojak mestizojak looking that often isn’t a sign to make moves. It’s motivation. This isn’t a guarantee but I’m talking from personal experiences here, take this post with a grain of salt. My first one is definitely something to consider however.
 

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terrible way to tell

1. you won't be able to count exact numbers she looked at you & too many cognitive biases & other things at play
2. different people just look randomly towards random people in the class, it's not a stronger marker of attraction
 

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If you want to tell for sure, do the things I mentioned in my first reply to this thread

Your priority should be clearing rumours about you & her by talking with her
 

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How do I talk to this girl in my classroom, we sit close but not at the same table
I think she liked me in 9th grade but idk now
Shes pretty much my looksmatch, but she mogs me by a little
ask some bullshit abt the class, that’s what i used to do. “did you finish the hw” “do yk how to do this” just ask that even if you don’t give a fuck, just start a convo
 

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