makeaway
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Think about it, the average guy isnt extremely good looking and doesnt naturally stand out based on appearance.
And because of that, he needs to differentiate himself in another way to attract girls. Most people make the mistake of doing a little bit of everything ive made the same mistake... going to the gym casually and dabbling in different hobbies without excelling at any of them making it their whole personality.
But this doesn’t make someone stand out if anything, it makes them even more boring and vein.
You NEED to commit deeply to one thing and become exceptionally skilled at it within one specific social circle.
When you reach the top of a niche whether its a sport, music, or another skill you gain relative status and recognition in that environment.
Even if youre not in the top percentage in terms of looks, being in the top percentage of skill and status within a niche can make you far more noticeable and attractive.
It is important you find something you love doing and love it so much you would die for it.
if you got any questions feel free to ask.
And because of that, he needs to differentiate himself in another way to attract girls. Most people make the mistake of doing a little bit of everything ive made the same mistake... going to the gym casually and dabbling in different hobbies without excelling at any of them making it their whole personality.
But this doesn’t make someone stand out if anything, it makes them even more boring and vein.
You NEED to commit deeply to one thing and become exceptionally skilled at it within one specific social circle.
When you reach the top of a niche whether its a sport, music, or another skill you gain relative status and recognition in that environment.
Even if youre not in the top percentage in terms of looks, being in the top percentage of skill and status within a niche can make you far more noticeable and attractive.
It is important you find something you love doing and love it so much you would die for it.
if you got any questions feel free to ask.




