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Discussion Why it is genuinely over for you if you are neurodivergent but/and you are also short.

1202powp

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(Main estimation and conclusion at the end if you aren’t really bothered to read but I enjoyed making this as it’s quite personal to myself and also I put some time into this and it wasn’t just some rushed low iq bs)





Being neurodivergent means your life is practically already over especially if you are short. You will lack basic functioning during social situations and may never get a woman due to that. Dating is filled with hints, body language, signals, tone and many more, neurodivergent people can’t see those queues and make it so hard to realise a woman may actually like you. Going off of not truly knowing, bad situations can be created like rejection. Well what happens to most people when they are rejected, they feel annoyed, angry, sad, even depressed, why depression for nd’s is so bad, two main reasons are unhealthy habits and obsessions that they can’t get out of easily but also death. For us neurodivergent people depression often leads to the end which is suicide (picture 1).





They obsess with unhealthy habits in which create a pull from reality and cause addictions you may never get out of. You’ll fall behind in society as if you are less of a person and start failing in school. So you aren’t just doomed to not have a relationship but also maybe not even a good job. All you crave is to have a normal life and be like everyone else. Being short just adds to it. You will always be the outsider, constantly bullied for being short and different, the person everyone looks down upon, you will always think differently then everyone else. And it was never your fault either.





Bullying is a big problem for us ND and short men. Other males who feel they have the need to always dominate someone they seem to not like or see as someone/something different are a problem, it will cause us ND people to spiral into darkness and distance ourselves from the world more than we already would’ve, humans need to show more empathy towards each other especially to neurodivergent people as many kill themselves as the need to escape from such torturous reality. Now moving onto the main parts, Relationships, fertility ratios and a little estimated study of how shitty it is for us short and neurodivergent individuals #ropefuel





Fertility ratios in autistic men and women specifically and shown why height and gender links in with the key differences





As seen in the graph (picture 2) only nearly 0.2 percent of autistic males end up having children while around 0.5 percent of autistic females have children which isn’t far off how many women (covering all women) have kids. See how harder it is for autistic men and men in general than women because a man fucks any woman so they basically can live easily even if they look like a drowned rat.





Relationships


69% of high functioning autistic adolescents want relationships, but almost none succeed


The parents of 190 adolescents with high and low functioning autism were surveyed by researchers to evaluate the adolescents' perspectives regarding sexuality.


The adolescents upon whom parents were reporting were predominantly Caucasian (89.3%) males


(86.8%) with a median age of 14 years (M = 14.51,


SD = 1.96).


Findings were:


• 69.2% of adolescents with high functioning autism expressed the desire for a dating relationship.


• 73.1% with high functioning autism expressed attraction to someone of the opposite sex, and 10.0% to the same sex.


• However, only 7.7% of this high functioning autistic cohort reported having had a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, and 1.5% with someone of the same sex.


• Only 1.5% of the group had sex.


(sourced partially from Wikipedia)





That means only around 9 percent of males who are neurodivergent end up having relationships, we haven’t even acknowledged that those 9% are more than likely ugly dating ugly or an attractive man that is more than likely tall.


Let’s just consider ‘short’ as under 5,7ft for our estimates, that’s where many women would look in disgust, turn their heads and laugh at you for being pathetic and a short loser. There aren’t any graphs or full statistics on the percentage of neurodivergent men whom are also shorter than 5,7ft that succeed in relationships but here are some estimations and info: So we’ll start with a group of 100,000 men and 15-20 percent of those men are neurodivergent that’s 15000-20000 people, of those humans, 21% are under 5,7 (I will not be taking into account the country you live in this is based around the world) that gives you around 3150-4200 men. Now out of those neurodivergent men, if 32% of autistic adults (or a similar proportion for neurodivergent more broadly) have a romantic partner at a given time → then ~1,000–1,350 men in that group might be in a relationship at a given time (assuming relationship = “succeeding” in some sense).


So, out of 100,000 men, a very rough ‘estimate' might be on the order of 1,000–1,300 neurodivergent men under 5′7″ who are in succeeding relationships right now — under the assumptions above.


Major caveats & reasons to be cautious of my estimates


  • Neurodivergence is obviously a very broad term. It includes ADHD, autism, dyslexia, etc. Relationship success likely varies a lot between different types of neurodivergence.

  • Data on “relationship success” is fuzzy. Does “succeed” mean being in a romantic partnership? Married? Long-term? Satisfied? The data points I used are rough proxies. Yet this estimate still shows how depressing it is that people who sit under these circumstances are and I am not even taking into account the aspect of looks to this as that is not the main focus of my thread today.

  • Underreporting / diagnosis issues: Many neurodivergent people are undiagnosed or self‑identify only later, so real numbers might be higher or even lower which would be very sad for us ndcels

Bottom line (very rough)


  • Rough estimate: On the order of about 1%–1.3% of men (in this hypothetical 100,000 cohort) might be neurodivergent, under 5′7″, and in a relationship, given current data and assumptions.

  • I do hope a proper experiment is to be done to see the true percent of short neurodivergent men’s lives that are in shambles, the sad thing is this estimate won’t really be too far off as how brutal women are nowadays and how they should lower their standards and expectations because they themselves are at fault for the world and they are also statistically uglier so they’re pretty shitty dumb fucks that should rope







The only things that will help your desire for love in such a wretched world is limb lengthening surgery and medication to lower our inhib temporarily.





~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~





Thanks for reading my study and perception on how bad daily living is for u short people who also struggle with being neurodivergent every day. Some things aren’t right in this world and one of them are women and how they see many men who are different as measly creatures, it’s disgraceful and they need to see that they are the wrong in this planet.

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Floonth

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(Main estimation and conclusion at the end if you aren’t really bothered to read but I enjoyed making this as it’s quite personal to myself and also I put some time into this and it wasn’t just some rushed low iq bs)





Being neurodivergent means your life is practically already over especially if you are short. You will lack basic functioning during social situations and may never get a woman due to that. Dating is filled with hints, body language, signals, tone and many more, neurodivergent people can’t see those queues and make it so hard to realise a woman may actually like you. Going off of not truly knowing, bad situations can be created like rejection. Well what happens to most people when they are rejected, they feel annoyed, angry, sad, even depressed, why depression for nd’s is so bad, two main reasons are unhealthy habits and obsessions that they can’t get out of easily but also death. For us neurodivergent people depression often leads to the end which is suicide (picture 1).





They obsess with unhealthy habits in which create a pull from reality and cause addictions you may never get out of. You’ll fall behind in society as if you are less of a person and start failing in school. So you aren’t just doomed to not have a relationship but also maybe not even a good job. All you crave is to have a normal life and be like everyone else. Being short just adds to it. You will always be the outsider, constantly bullied for being short and different, the person everyone looks down upon, you will always think differently then everyone else. And it was never your fault either.





Bullying is a big problem for us ND and short men. Other males who feel they have the need to always dominate someone they seem to not like or see as someone/something different are a problem, it will cause us ND people to spiral into darkness and distance ourselves from the world more than we already would’ve, humans need to show more empathy towards each other especially to neurodivergent people as many kill themselves as the need to escape from such torturous reality. Now moving onto the main parts, Relationships, fertility ratios and a little estimated study of how shitty it is for us short and neurodivergent individuals #ropefuel





Fertility ratios in autistic men and women specifically and shown why height and gender links in with the key differences





As seen in the graph (picture 2) only nearly 0.2 percent of autistic males end up having children while around 0.5 percent of autistic females have children which isn’t far off how many women (covering all women) have kids. See how harder it is for autistic men and men in general than women because a man fucks any woman so they basically can live easily even if they look like a drowned rat.





Relationships


69% of high functioning autistic adolescents want relationships, but almost none succeed


The parents of 190 adolescents with high and low functioning autism were surveyed by researchers to evaluate the adolescents' perspectives regarding sexuality.


The adolescents upon whom parents were reporting were predominantly Caucasian (89.3%) males


(86.8%) with a median age of 14 years (M = 14.51,


SD = 1.96).


Findings were:


• 69.2% of adolescents with high functioning autism expressed the desire for a dating relationship.


• 73.1% with high functioning autism expressed attraction to someone of the opposite sex, and 10.0% to the same sex.


• However, only 7.7% of this high functioning autistic cohort reported having had a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, and 1.5% with someone of the same sex.


• Only 1.5% of the group had sex.


(sourced partially from Wikipedia)





That means only around 9 percent of males who are neurodivergent end up having relationships, we haven’t even acknowledged that those 9% are more than likely ugly dating ugly or an attractive man that is more than likely tall.


Let’s just consider ‘short’ as under 5,7ft for our estimates, that’s where many women would look in disgust, turn their heads and laugh at you for being pathetic and a short loser. There aren’t any graphs or full statistics on the percentage of neurodivergent men whom are also shorter than 5,7ft that succeed in relationships but here are some estimations and info: So we’ll start with a group of 100,000 men and 15-20 percent of those men are neurodivergent that’s 15000-20000 people, of those humans, 21% are under 5,7 (I will not be taking into account the country you live in this is based around the world) that gives you around 3150-4200 men. Now out of those neurodivergent men, if 32% of autistic adults (or a similar proportion for neurodivergent more broadly) have a romantic partner at a given time → then ~1,000–1,350 men in that group might be in a relationship at a given time (assuming relationship = “succeeding” in some sense).


So, out of 100,000 men, a very rough ‘estimate' might be on the order of 1,000–1,300 neurodivergent men under 5′7″ who are in succeeding relationships right now — under the assumptions above.


Major caveats & reasons to be cautious of my estimates


  • Neurodivergence is obviously a very broad term. It includes ADHD, autism, dyslexia, etc. Relationship success likely varies a lot between different types of neurodivergence.

  • Data on “relationship success” is fuzzy. Does “succeed” mean being in a romantic partnership? Married? Long-term? Satisfied? The data points I used are rough proxies. Yet this estimate still shows how depressing it is that people who sit under these circumstances are and I am not even taking into account the aspect of looks to this as that is not the main focus of my thread today.

  • Underreporting / diagnosis issues: Many neurodivergent people are undiagnosed or self‑identify only later, so real numbers might be higher or even lower which would be very sad for us ndcels

Bottom line (very rough)


  • Rough estimate: On the order of about 1%–1.3% of men (in this hypothetical 100,000 cohort) might be neurodivergent, under 5′7″, and in a relationship, given current data and assumptions.

  • I do hope a proper experiment is to be done to see the true percent of short neurodivergent men’s lives that are in shambles, the sad thing is this estimate won’t really be too far off as how brutal women are nowadays and how they should lower their standards and expectations because they themselves are at fault for the world and they are also statistically uglier so they’re pretty shitty dumb fucks that should rope







The only things that will help your desire for love in such a wretched world is limb lengthening surgery and medication to lower our inhib temporarily.





~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~





Thanks for reading my study and perception on how bad daily living is for u short people who also struggle with being neurodivergent every day. Some things aren’t right in this world and one of them are women and how they see many men who are different as measly creatures, it’s disgraceful and they need to see that they are the wrong in this planet.

(Couldn’t be bothered formatting this ✌️)
Mirin the effort but neurodiversity is such a wide a spectrum that this is a kind of pointless conversation
 

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(Main estimation and conclusion at the end if you aren’t really bothered to read but I enjoyed making this as it’s quite personal to myself and also I put some time into this and it wasn’t just some rushed low iq bs)





Being neurodivergent means your life is practically already over especially if you are short. You will lack basic functioning during social situations and may never get a woman due to that. Dating is filled with hints, body language, signals, tone and many more, neurodivergent people can’t see those queues and make it so hard to realise a woman may actually like you. Going off of not truly knowing, bad situations can be created like rejection. Well what happens to most people when they are rejected, they feel annoyed, angry, sad, even depressed, why depression for nd’s is so bad, two main reasons are unhealthy habits and obsessions that they can’t get out of easily but also death. For us neurodivergent people depression often leads to the end which is suicide (picture 1).





They obsess with unhealthy habits in which create a pull from reality and cause addictions you may never get out of. You’ll fall behind in society as if you are less of a person and start failing in school. So you aren’t just doomed to not have a relationship but also maybe not even a good job. All you crave is to have a normal life and be like everyone else. Being short just adds to it. You will always be the outsider, constantly bullied for being short and different, the person everyone looks down upon, you will always think differently then everyone else. And it was never your fault either.





Bullying is a big problem for us ND and short men. Other males who feel they have the need to always dominate someone they seem to not like or see as someone/something different are a problem, it will cause us ND people to spiral into darkness and distance ourselves from the world more than we already would’ve, humans need to show more empathy towards each other especially to neurodivergent people as many kill themselves as the need to escape from such torturous reality. Now moving onto the main parts, Relationships, fertility ratios and a little estimated study of how shitty it is for us short and neurodivergent individuals #ropefuel





Fertility ratios in autistic men and women specifically and shown why height and gender links in with the key differences





As seen in the graph (picture 2) only nearly 0.2 percent of autistic males end up having children while around 0.5 percent of autistic females have children which isn’t far off how many women (covering all women) have kids. See how harder it is for autistic men and men in general than women because a man fucks any woman so they basically can live easily even if they look like a drowned rat.





Relationships


69% of high functioning autistic adolescents want relationships, but almost none succeed


The parents of 190 adolescents with high and low functioning autism were surveyed by researchers to evaluate the adolescents' perspectives regarding sexuality.


The adolescents upon whom parents were reporting were predominantly Caucasian (89.3%) males


(86.8%) with a median age of 14 years (M = 14.51,


SD = 1.96).


Findings were:


• 69.2% of adolescents with high functioning autism expressed the desire for a dating relationship.


• 73.1% with high functioning autism expressed attraction to someone of the opposite sex, and 10.0% to the same sex.


• However, only 7.7% of this high functioning autistic cohort reported having had a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, and 1.5% with someone of the same sex.


• Only 1.5% of the group had sex.


(sourced partially from Wikipedia)





That means only around 9 percent of males who are neurodivergent end up having relationships, we haven’t even acknowledged that those 9% are more than likely ugly dating ugly or an attractive man that is more than likely tall.


Let’s just consider ‘short’ as under 5,7ft for our estimates, that’s where many women would look in disgust, turn their heads and laugh at you for being pathetic and a short loser. There aren’t any graphs or full statistics on the percentage of neurodivergent men whom are also shorter than 5,7ft that succeed in relationships but here are some estimations and info: So we’ll start with a group of 100,000 men and 15-20 percent of those men are neurodivergent that’s 15000-20000 people, of those humans, 21% are under 5,7 (I will not be taking into account the country you live in this is based around the world) that gives you around 3150-4200 men. Now out of those neurodivergent men, if 32% of autistic adults (or a similar proportion for neurodivergent more broadly) have a romantic partner at a given time → then ~1,000–1,350 men in that group might be in a relationship at a given time (assuming relationship = “succeeding” in some sense).


So, out of 100,000 men, a very rough ‘estimate' might be on the order of 1,000–1,300 neurodivergent men under 5′7″ who are in succeeding relationships right now — under the assumptions above.


Major caveats & reasons to be cautious of my estimates


  • Neurodivergence is obviously a very broad term. It includes ADHD, autism, dyslexia, etc. Relationship success likely varies a lot between different types of neurodivergence.

  • Data on “relationship success” is fuzzy. Does “succeed” mean being in a romantic partnership? Married? Long-term? Satisfied? The data points I used are rough proxies. Yet this estimate still shows how depressing it is that people who sit under these circumstances are and I am not even taking into account the aspect of looks to this as that is not the main focus of my thread today.

  • Underreporting / diagnosis issues: Many neurodivergent people are undiagnosed or self‑identify only later, so real numbers might be higher or even lower which would be very sad for us ndcels

Bottom line (very rough)


  • Rough estimate: On the order of about 1%–1.3% of men (in this hypothetical 100,000 cohort) might be neurodivergent, under 5′7″, and in a relationship, given current data and assumptions.

  • I do hope a proper experiment is to be done to see the true percent of short neurodivergent men’s lives that are in shambles, the sad thing is this estimate won’t really be too far off as how brutal women are nowadays and how they should lower their standards and expectations because they themselves are at fault for the world and they are also statistically uglier so they’re pretty shitty dumb fucks that should rope







The only things that will help your desire for love in such a wretched world is limb lengthening surgery and medication to lower our inhib temporarily.





~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~





Thanks for reading my study and perception on how bad daily living is for u short people who also struggle with being neurodivergent every day. Some things aren’t right in this world and one of them are women and how they see many men who are different as measly creatures, it’s disgraceful and they need to see that they are the wrong in this planet.

(Couldn’t be bothered formatting this ✌️)

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