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Discussion Why do some decently looking girls date ugly fat guys 🤔 (1 Viewer)

Discussion Why do some decently looking girls date ugly fat guys 🤔

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I was speaking to one of my friends the other day about how some girls will end up dating fat guys, It ranges sometimes between how the girl might look but occasionally the girl will sometimes look much better than the fat guy. Any ideas as to why? Only really thought it could be because of height difference but what exactly do they see in fat dudes that we can’t? (Not speaking about gold diggers either)
 

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I was speaking to one of my friends the other day about how some girls will end up dating fat guys, It ranges sometimes between how the girl might look but occasionally the girl will sometimes look much better than the fat guy. Any ideas as to why? Only really thought it could be because of height difference but what exactly do they see in fat dudes that we can’t? (Not speaking about gold diggers either)
Idk
 

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I was speaking to one of my friends the other day about how some girls will end up dating fat guys, It ranges sometimes between how the girl might look but occasionally the girl will sometimes look much better than the fat guy. Any ideas as to why? Only really thought it could be because of height difference but what exactly do they see in fat dudes that we can’t? (Not speaking about gold diggers either)
Either Height difference. Pity. Money. Him being a submissive good boy who'll do anything for her. Settling down after having shitty relationships and giving up. Ensuring that he stays loyal. Sometimes a mixture of all
 

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because they most likely don’t have to worry about the fat guy doing anything to annoy/wrong them because of the dynamic from what I have seen most guys who are fat with better looking girls are spineless/ more lenient on things and overall more agreeable I think it’s because they subconsciously know they are with someone out of their league and want to maintain their relationship so in short they are submissive cucks
 

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because they most likely don’t have to worry about the fat guy doing anything to annoy/wrong them because of the dynamic from what I have seen most guys who are fat with better looking girls are spineless/ more lenient on things and overall more agreeable I think it’s because they subconsciously know they are with someone out of their league and want to maintain their relationship so in short they are submissive cucks
Never really thought about this way but that’s a good way to look at it
 

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Either Height difference. Pity. Money. Him being a submissive good boy who'll do anything for her. Settling down after having shitty relationships and giving up. Ensuring that he stays loyal. Sometimes a mixture of all
I mean of course what ur listing is right but I’m speaking about relationships that aren’t girls just trying to get a quick Buck or feel bad etc, I think what Sinister said is the best theory. Can’t really see any other reason other than the male being a submissive cuck
 

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I mean of course what ur listing is right but I’m speaking about relationships that aren’t girls just trying to get a quick Buck or feel bad etc, I think what Sinister said is the best theory. Can’t really see any other reason other than the male being a submissive cuck
I mentioned it. Hence "submissive good boy", was just trying to cover as much ground as I can think of right now.
 

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Idk decently looking girls are not dating me, you are lying
 

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I was speaking to one of my friends the other day about how some girls will end up dating fat guys, It ranges sometimes between how the girl might look but occasionally the girl will sometimes look much better than the fat guy. Any ideas as to why? Only really thought it could be because of height difference but what exactly do they see in fat dudes that we can’t? (Not speaking about gold diggers either)
personality, most of the gorgeous, good looking girls isn't hypergramous.
 

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idk ask them
 

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personality, most of the gorgeous, good looking girls isn't hypergramous.
Lmfao. Hypergamy increases as a woman get more good-looking or successful. That's a stupid take really.
 

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because they most likely don’t have to worry about the fat guy doing anything to annoy/wrong them because of the dynamic from what I have seen most guys who are fat with better looking girls are spineless/ more lenient on things and overall more agreeable I think it’s because they subconsciously know they are with someone out of their league and want to maintain their relationship so in short they are submissive cucks
Either Height difference. Pity. Money. Him being a submissive good boy who'll do anything for her. Settling down after having shitty relationships and giving up. Ensuring that he stays loyal. Sometimes a mixture of all
^^
 

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Lmfao. Hypergamy increases as a woman get more good-looking or successful. That's a stupid take really.
i dont really know what to say there, but yeah, i agree its a stupid take i just dont know why they do that though.
 

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hey there
Such a romantic going on a random thread and scrolling just to find him and then ignore the entire thing and send "hey there". Kiss already I ship you hard
 

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I was speaking to one of my friends the other day about how some girls will end up dating fat guys, It ranges sometimes between how the girl might look but occasionally the girl will sometimes look much better than the fat guy. Any ideas as to why? Only really thought it could be because of height difference but what exactly do they see in fat dudes that we can’t? (Not speaking about gold diggers either)
JBW - Just bux women
 

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I was speaking to one of my friends the other day about how some girls will end up dating fat guys, It ranges sometimes between how the girl might look but occasionally the girl will sometimes look much better than the fat guy. Any ideas as to why? Only really thought it could be because of height difference but what exactly do they see in fat dudes that we can’t? (Not speaking about gold diggers either)
Money height loyalty ig
 
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Either Height difference. Pity. Money. Him being a submissive good boy who'll do anything for her. Settling down after having shitty relationships and giving up. Ensuring that he stays loyal. Sometimes a mixture of all
Truth GIF
 

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I was speaking to one of my friends the other day about how some girls will end up dating fat guys, It ranges sometimes between how the girl might look but occasionally the girl will sometimes look much better than the fat guy. Any ideas as to why? Only really thought it could be because of height difference but what exactly do they see in fat dudes that we can’t? (Not speaking about gold diggers either)
statuspill ig
 

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Money and then secretly cheat on them
 

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I was speaking to one of my friends the other day about how some girls will end up dating fat guys, It ranges sometimes between how the girl might look but occasionally the girl will sometimes look much better than the fat guy. Any ideas as to why? Only really thought it could be because of height difference but what exactly do they see in fat dudes that we can’t? (Not speaking about gold diggers either)
Cuz they can

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I was speaking to one of my friends the other day about how some girls will end up dating fat guys, It ranges sometimes between how the girl might look but occasionally the girl will sometimes look much better than the fat guy. Any ideas as to why? Only really thought it could be because of height difference but what exactly do they see in fat dudes that we can’t? (Not speaking about gold diggers either)
this doesnt happen in real life bro
only sometimes on social media
every fat person i know is either dating subhuman or is incelibate
 

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