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Guide What to do if a foid calls you “bestie” (1 Viewer)

Guide What to do if a foid calls you “bestie”
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Yeah this is one shitty canon event thats almost all of us went through and some of us thought they were actually nice and some didn’t know what to do
So im gonna give you 2 methods that should work

1. Respond with the same energy
yeah this might sound stupid but this is actually the best way to deal with this
For example is if they come up to you like “hii bestieee”
U just respond as if ur just as happy and say like: “yooo whats good”

If ur not used to responding to others like that just practice in the mirror a bit and u should be good to go
They probably wouldn’t expect this but would most likely just play along
They are also going to start assuming that you’re not some shy quiet kid because you respond like they do
And will likely bother u maybe few times after that and then they get bored


2. Embarras the foid

yes if you are at school hanging with your friend group u have an even better method but its a bit risky
So u have this situation right where ur in a friend group
And the foid approaches you and calls for you
In that case u can ignore her a few times and pretend u dont notice her
But u cant do this forever
When she then says like “bestieee”

U can just pull a move like watching all of ur friends with a dry look and say “who is this weirdo”
I mean it wouldn’t hurt that foid she has no reason to be around you but they will have a different perspective about you and will likely not bother you again



Those methods worked out for me i hope they work out the same for you guys
Let me know if u have any questions
 

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just keep yourself in good relations with the "foids". Having normal freinds just lessens your estrangement & makes you less of a weirdo lol
 

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Yeah this is one shitty canon event thats almost all of us went through and some of us thought they were actually nice and some didn’t know what to do
So im gonna give you 2 methods that should work

1. Respond with the same energy
yeah this might sound stupid but this is actually the best way to deal with this
For example is if they come up to you like “hii bestieee”
U just respond as if ur just as happy and say like: “yooo whats good”

If ur not used to responding to others like that just practice in the mirror a bit and u should be good to go
They probably wouldn’t expect this but would most likely just play along
They are also going to start assuming that you’re not some shy quiet kid because you respond like they do
And will likely bother u maybe few times after that and then they get bored


2. Embarras the foid

yes if you are at school hanging with your friend group u have an even better method but its a bit risky
So u have this situation right where ur in a friend group
And the foid approaches you and calls for you
In that case u can ignore her a few times and pretend u dont notice her
But u cant do this forever
When she then says like “bestieee”

U can just pull a move like watching all of ur friends with a dry look and say “who is this weirdo”
I mean it wouldn’t hurt that foid she has no reason to be around you but they will have a different perspective about you and will likely not bother you again



Those methods worked out for me i hope they work out the same for you guys
Let me know if u have any questions
:no:
 

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Nah its not always aspie
Some of us just weren’t as social
And i fixed it so im not socially incompatible at all
Atleast not anymore
Im not social at all. I actively despise interacting with most people in my life, but, if you can't just play it off & not make yourself some weird social outcast without too much thought, you're aspie. Or, aspie adjacent. There's not much thought into making yourself compatible with the majority of society, which is undeniably beneficial. And i doubt you fixed it; this thread reeks of incelic "Heh... Heckin foids" energy that is consistently singled out and picked on IRL
 
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Im not social at all. I actively despise interacting with most people in my life, but, if you can't just play it off & not make yourself some weird social outcast without too much thought, you're aspie. Or, aspie adjacent. There's not much thought into making yourself compatible with the majority of society, which is undeniably beneficial. And i doubt you fixed it; this thread reeks of incelic "Heh... Heckin foids" energy that is consistently singled out and picked on IRL
Well then ur wrong because i just wanted to help some people here who needed it
And i know how shitty it felt dealing with this too although im not picked on anymore
 

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