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Theory Relationships are useless

Aylan

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The biggest "cope"

-The happiness couples feel is just oxcitocin and dopamine. Having a bf or a gf is just trying to fill the emptyness of humans life. Like a cope. The only real useful thing is reproducing. But all the "love" things are useless and will end a day. The big majority of couple stop loving each other After 3 years i would Say. Some way earlier. Some way later. And that is not sad. It's just a fact that people tryna ignore or forget. The only true love is the love of ur mother. If u didn't know it then u will never know pure love.

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Bp is just a proof of the emptyness of "love" and how humans try to interprate it. They say love is unconditionnal, but why then hypergamy exist ? If love was truly pure. The #1 Stacy would be able to love the #1000 sub-3 just because she feels a strong connection. But this connection is made by look, so it's not unconditionnal. (This point is kinda water but important. See it just as a reminder and a help for the new members)

Cheating and betrayal

Cheating is also a proof of the theory. When two lovers are for example married, have children etc etc it happens that one of them cheat. But why ? Because life becomes boring, u know ur partner very well and u see him H24. Some of the people are trying to hide that désire of living. Some just cheat to re-live the intensity of the early stages of a relationship. Society is trying to blame them, but it forgets that the creator of that "idea" of an internal love is it. Since antiquity people love to read romances, in early greek Ulysse was eager to see his wife After his great trip, Shakespeare tells fairytales about two lovers (Romeo Giulietta). The reason that makes human interested in that stories. Is that it just tells the intense stage of a relationship. It never talks about the boring routine of couples.
Betrayal is also a great example of the contradictions that full fill the "eternal love" theory. How many wives have left their husbands in financial crisis ? A lot. How many husbands have left their wives After a cancer or any disease ? A lot. But, "lovers Always stand with each other" no, its just a contract that ends when there is no benefits for one of them.



That's just my opinion guys. Dont hâte and try to be lil bit serious concerning ur thoughts on THAT

I have not finish all my points. But am posting these just to have an ldea of what do u think
 

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waterfalls, tsunamis, oceans, lakes, dams, rivers
 

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The biggest "cope"

-The happiness couples feel is just oxcitocin and dopamine. Having a bf or a gf is just trying to fill the emptyness of humans life. Like a cope. The only real useful thing is reproducing. But all the "love" things are useless and will end a day. The big majority of couple stop loving each other After 3 years i would Say. Some way earlier. Some way later. And that is not sad. It's just a fact that people tryna ignore or forget. The only true love is the love of ur mother. If u didn't know it then u will never know pure love.

BLACKPILL

Bp is just a proof of the emptyness of "love" and how humans try to interprate it. They say love is unconditionnal, but why then hypergamy exist ? If love was truly pure. The #1 Stacy would be able to love the #1000 sub-3 just because she feels a strong connection. But this connection is made by look, so it's not unconditionnal. (This point is kinda water but important. See it just as a reminder and a help for the new members)

Cheating and betrayal

Cheating is also a proof of the theory. When two lovers are for example married, have children etc etc it happens that one of them cheat. But why ? Because life becomes boring, u know ur partner very well and u see him H24. Some of the people are trying to hide that désire of living. Some just cheat to re-live the intensity of the early stages of a relationship. Society is trying to blame them, but it forgets that the creator of that "idea" of an internal love is it. Since antiquity people love to read romances, in early greek Ulysse was eager to see his wife After his great trip, Shakespeare tells fairytales about two lovers (Romeo Giulietta). The reason that makes human interested in that stories. Is that it just tells the intense stage of a relationship. It never talks about the boring routine of couples.
Betrayal is also a great example of the contradictions that full fill the "eternal love" theory. How many wives have left their husbands in financial crisis ? A lot. How many husbands have left their wives After a cancer or any disease ? A lot. But, "lovers Always stand with each other" no, its just a contract that ends when there is no benefits for one of them.



That's just my opinion guys. Dont hâte and try to be lil bit serious concerning ur thoughts on THAT

I have not finish all my points. But am posting these just to have an ldea of what do u think
Relationships are definitely not useless it doesn’t have to last forever but when u get into relationships u build up expierence and each one after the other will get better
 

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Aromanticism is the way to go

Although teen love is key building block in ones life isn't that right Godveil Heir Godveil Heir ?
 

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