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My crush stopped talking to me
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Hi, I have a crush on a girl. We talked almost every day for almost 2 years. I liked her a lot — I loved her smile, her eyes, and her hair. But one day she took 1 day to reply, then 2 days, then 4 days, even though she was online, and eventually she stopped talking to me. Can someone explain why that happened?
 
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Hi, I have a crush on a girl. We talked almost every day for almost 2 years. I liked her a lot — I loved her smile, her eyes, and her hair. But one day she took 1 day to reply, then 2 days, then 4 days, even though she was online, and eventually she stopped talking to me. Can someone explain why that happened?
Brother you talked to her for two years and didn't make a move/ask her out?
 
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I know, I probably should have made a move, but I was scared of ruining things or making her uncomfortable.
I understand where you're coming from but you just gotta full send it. Stop being high inhib and just take the risk.

She probably was waiting for you to do something to be honest. Being authentic, legit, real version of urself and saying what you really think is only way to live life to the fullest G.
 

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Hi, I have a crush on a girl. We talked almost every day for almost 2 years. I liked her a lot — I loved her smile, her eyes, and her hair. But one day she took 1 day to reply, then 2 days, then 4 days, even though she was online, and eventually she stopped talking to me. Can someone explain why that happened?
2 year wow, just too long to talk to a girl u like soz bro. doing better than me tho
 
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Yeah, you’re right. I probably hesitated too much and overthought everything. I wanted to make a move, but I kept worrying about messing things up. And now we haven’t talked in like 6 months. Next time I’ll just take the risk and be straightforward.
I understand where you're coming from but you just gotta full send it. Stop being high inhib and just take the risk.

She probably was waiting for you to do something to be honest. Being authentic, legit, real version of urself and saying what you really think is only way to live life to the fullest G.
 
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2 year wow, just too long to talk to a girl u like soz bro. doing better than me tho
Yeah, it was a long time, haha. I just never felt confident enough to make a move. But yeah, we talked for almost 2 years. Haven’t talked in like 6 months now though.
 

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Yeah, it was a long time, haha. I just never felt confident enough to make a move. But yeah, we talked for almost 2 years. Haven’t talked in like 6 months now though.
shame feel bad, hope u move on bro. find another better girl for yourself. just shoot your shoot next time, it not to scary once u have done it
 
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Yeah, you’re right. I probably hesitated too much and overthought everything. I wanted to make a move, but I kept worrying about messing things up. And now we haven’t talked in like 6 months. Next time I’ll just take the risk and be straightforward.
Yeah I mean you learned your lesson, I used to be hella worried about outcomes and stuff when talking to girls but you just gotta rip it and hope for the best. Once I just started being myself and not really giving a fuck what happened I had tons more success and I have an amazing girlfriend now as a result. Be yourself and the right people will come bruv I have no doubt. U got this kid
 
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shame feel bad, hope u move on bro. find another better girl for yourself. just shoot your shoot next time, it not to scary once u have done it
Thanks bro, I appreciate it. I’m already trying to move on. Next time I’ll just go for it and not overthink so much.
 
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Yeah I mean you learned your lesson, I used to be hella worried about outcomes and stuff when talking to girls but you just gotta rip it and hope for the best. Once I just started being myself and not really giving a fuck what happened I had tons more success and I have an amazing girlfriend now as a result. Be yourself and the right people will come bruv I have no doubt. U got this kid
Thanks man, I appreciate it. I’m trying to work on that and stop overthinking so much. Hearing your experience helps a lot. I’ll focus on being myself and just letting things happen.
 

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Hi, I have a crush on a girl. We talked almost every day for almost 2 years. I liked her a lot — I loved her smile, her eyes, and her hair. But one day she took 1 day to reply, then 2 days, then 4 days, even though she was online, and eventually she stopped talking to me. Can someone explain why that happened?
your both high inhib, she lost interest cuz she thought you werent interested. men are expected to make the first move no question.
 

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Next time I see her, I might tell her how I feel, and I’ll let you guys know what she says.
no. that isnt the move, you waited too long, wait a week or 2, try and understand the vibe. if you feel it again go for it 100%, but you cant rip that off like a bandaid
 
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